Apologies (99)
Hi Deedee,
I've been waiting for an apology for over 15 years from a couple of my immediate family members and I know I'm never ever going to get it.
So I wrote them off as a bad debt.
I've been waiting for an apology for over 15 years from a couple of my immediate family members and I know I'm never ever going to get it.So I wrote them off as a bad debt.
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Deedee123x: This is just an advice thread.
Have u ever had to deal with a situation where you were wronged in a big way.
For years you are hoping for a sincere apology that you know is never going to come.
Its fine if you never have to see this person again, you can learn to let go and move on, but if it is someone who you have to deal with everyday knowing what they did, how have any of you overcome this.
Have u ever had to deal with a situation where you were wronged in a big way.
For years you are hoping for a sincere apology that you know is never going to come.
Its fine if you never have to see this person again, you can learn to let go and move on, but if it is someone who you have to deal with everyday knowing what they did, how have any of you overcome this.
I’ve received few apologies after being wronged. Genuine ones felt good when it happened. On the other hand, a lot of other wrongs will never be righted because the other person, for any number of reasons, probably doesn’t realize that they wronged me. Most apologies received were selfish ones and for ulterior reasons too.
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Deedee123x: This is just an advice thread.
Have u ever had to deal with a situation where you were wronged in a big way.
For years you are hoping for a sincere apology that you know is never going to come.
Its fine if you never have to see this person again, you can learn to let go and move on, but if it is someone who you have to deal with everyday knowing what they did, how have any of you overcome this.
Hi Dee Have u ever had to deal with a situation where you were wronged in a big way.
For years you are hoping for a sincere apology that you know is never going to come.
Its fine if you never have to see this person again, you can learn to let go and move on, but if it is someone who you have to deal with everyday knowing what they did, how have any of you overcome this.
we all have some faults and we feel regret , we do apologize too , for the answer of your question , i dont think i have done that much to be in that situation
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I always get non-apology apologies like: I'm sorry you took it that way.
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Bearwoman: Hi Deedee, I've been waiting for an apology for over 15 years from a couple of my immediate family members and I know I'm never ever going to get it.
So I wrote them off as a bad debt.
So I wrote them off as a bad debt.
Hi BW
Do u find it affecting your interactions with those family members
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galrads: I’ve received few apologies after being wronged. Genuine ones felt good when it happened. On the other hand, a lot of other wrongs will never be righted because the other person, for any number of reasons, probably doesn’t realize that they wronged me. Most apologies received were selfish ones and for ulterior reasons too.
Hey Gal.
Yes ive had a fair share of them too...theres alot that we can accept as just a bad moment on heir behalf or a bad judgement...we all do it.
Its the ones where it has affected ur peace of mind and stripped you of any self esteem or confidence.
The sad thing is they know they did wrong.
They even know they should apologise or i should hope they do, but yet it never comes.
I know plenty will say, get over it, let it go...but sometimes its just not that easy really.
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ali110: Hi Dee
we all have some faults and we feel regret , we do apologize too , for the answer of your question , i dont think i have done that much to be in that situation
we all have some faults and we feel regret , we do apologize too , for the answer of your question , i dont think i have done that much to be in that situation
Hi Ali..how r u?
Yes i know im not trying to portray myself as someone who hasnt ever done someone wrong.
I like to think i always apologise...in fact sometimes i over apologise for certain things.
Im sure you havnt done anything that bad either, Ali.
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Miwagi: I always get non-apology apologies like: I'm sorry you took it that way.
Ya those are the worst.
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looking back.....i can honestly say......I,ve always done the right things for people......its they ,,,,,iwho should apologies to me.........I joke not. tru.
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Deedee123x: Hi BW
Do u find it affecting your interactions with those family members
Do u find it affecting your interactions with those family members
Deedee Yes it did affect me but they made their choice to play drama queens which I refused to subject myself too anymore.When neither of them apologized to me I thought oh well.Their lose and mine too.
It's so so sad because my immediate family had always been very important to me.Obviously there are no winners and everyone loses.
But at least I have my two sons and close friends.
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Deedee123x: Ya those are the worst.
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truheart1941: looking back.....i can honestly say......I,ve always done the right things for people......its they ,,,,,iwho should apologies to me.........I joke not. tru.
Not so sure i believe you there Pete...
We all make mistakes hun
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Miwagi.
here have some love
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Deedee123x: This is just an advice thread.
Have u ever had to deal with a situation where you were wronged in a big way.
For years you are hoping for a sincere apology that you know is never going to come.
Its fine if you never have to see this person again, you can learn to let go and move on, but if it is someone who you have to deal with everyday knowing what they did, how have any of you overcome this.
Have u ever had to deal with a situation where you were wronged in a big way.
For years you are hoping for a sincere apology that you know is never going to come.
Its fine if you never have to see this person again, you can learn to let go and move on, but if it is someone who you have to deal with everyday knowing what they did, how have any of you overcome this.
I was expecting you to describe some horrible thing you done to someone and apologize for it, but this is cool. I have had that situation a few times and if I had a chance, I would make right.
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Bearwoman: Deedee Yes it did affect me but they made their choice to play drama queens which I refused to subject myself too anymore.When neither of them apologized to me I thought oh well.Their lose and mine too.
It's so so sad because my immediate family had always been very important to me.Obviously there are no winners and everyone loses.
But at least I have my two sons and close friends.
It's so so sad because my immediate family had always been very important to me.Obviously there are no winners and everyone loses.
But at least I have my two sons and close friends.
Sorry to hear that BW.
Sometimes families can take u for granted and dont realise the hurt they can cause you.
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Track16: I was expecting you to describe some horrible thing you done to someone and apologize for it, but this is cool. I have had that situation a few times and if I had a chance, I would make right.
Hey D.
No. Id like to think id figure out my way to apologise of it were the case.
You would make what right D?
If you were the one wronged how can u make ot right??
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Deedee123x: Sorry to hear that BW.
Sometimes families can take u for granted and dont realise the hurt they can cause you.
Sometimes families can take u for granted and dont realise the hurt they can cause you.
Deedee Thank you I've always been a strong lady and have been a survivor too.
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Deedee123x: Hi Ali..how r u?
Yes i know im not trying to portray myself as someone who hasnt ever done someone wrong.
I like to think i always apologise...in fact sometimes i over apologise for certain things.
Im sure you havnt done anything that bad either, Ali.
Not happy being away from you Yes i know im not trying to portray myself as someone who hasnt ever done someone wrong.
I like to think i always apologise...in fact sometimes i over apologise for certain things.
Im sure you havnt done anything that bad either, Ali.
..haha sorry just fun I am good thank you , nothing wrong to post such sort of thread Dee , it is a good deep subject ,
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Deedee123x: Hey D.
No. Id like to think id figure out my way to apologise of it were the case.
You would make what right D?
If you were the one wronged how can u make ot right??
No. Id like to think id figure out my way to apologise of it were the case.
You would make what right D?
If you were the one wronged how can u make ot right??
Smoke a fat joint with them and admit my mistakes.
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Have u ever had to deal with a situation where you were wronged in a big way.
For years you are hoping for a sincere apology that you know is never going to come.
Its fine if you never have to see this person again, you can learn to let go and move on, but if it is someone who you have to deal with everyday knowing what they did, how have any of you overcome this.