Not that I am fond of speaking ill of any CS members, but I want to rather be Socrates to seek the truth in the society of dating field by exemplifying the untruth.
I have been lurking these dating sites quite for a while and it was very amusing experience to see all the ladies of the world and had a few contacts including near final collision incidence. But I decided not to proceed any further for my soundness of retirement life at the last minute.
Based on my observation of the profiles which appear to be almost same pattern regardless of geographical region, there are a few common things used by most female members.
In the order of frequencies, I can assume that ‘travel’, ‘looking for true love’, ‘like nature’, ‘hiking’, ‘bicycle’ , ‘ to learn the different culture’, ‘going to concert’, ‘walking the beach with hand in hand’, ‘watch movies’, etc. Cooking is rarely mentioned.
I was so impressed and stunned to learn that most of women of the world has exactly same hobbies as mine. Really?
Even though I am definitely not an eccentric moron, but as a non drinker, non smoker of any kind whatsoever, non gambler, no eyes fixed to the TV screen to watch sports ( I cut the cable long years ago), I have only a few choices to kill my unlimited time after retirement and death of my spouse. However, not only hiking, wandering in the middle of nowhere, cycling, off-road are my favorite choices but also I never get tired of them. Fortunately, I don’t rely on SSA pension for my living, I do not spare money for my leisure. I have fairly high price equipment and 4x4’s and I ended up even moving to the highlighted area of those activities.
I got rid of all the photos and memorabilia after the death of my wife and store no pictures on the phone or computer because Microsoft and Apple try to sell their apps all the time. I carry Iphone only to make a 911 call or other emergency. No social medias or those kinds. So I use free photo sharing website to keep all my pictures which are mostly landscape taken while I was hiking or off roading. I hate take my own pictures and selfie is the most repugnant thing to me.
So I invited all the ladies who I was really interested to see all my photos which is over 2,000 and organized by events chronologically. Anyone could figure out easily what I do and how I live. I was excited to show all the beautiful nature and the activities which they also said as their favorite ones. We share the same interest.
To my surprise! I have very few pictures of myself and my belongings including house and cars, less than 30 out of over 2,000. The only, literally only ( some people hate the word ‘literally’ but….) photos were viewed are the ones which shows my house and cars as a profile pictures of the album. All others which shows the nature, hiking,etc, never viewed. ABSOLUTELY ZERO VIEW.
Are they really interested in what they described or just saying those to make themselves look like as Jane Goodall?. Or ‘true love’ means nice house and nice car?
It seems ‘true love’ after certain age to be an illusion. I don’t blame or stigmatize anyone. Life is hard. After all those years of hard life after divorce, raising kids or whatever, we all realize that a certain thing has to be preceded as the first priority before anything else.
As a matter of fact, I owe these dating sites including CS in a great degree to come to the proper decision for my life after I became a widower. Thanks to CS. Now I am very comfortable to live by myself for the rest of life as a bachelor and life is always adventure and fun. I began to truly enjoy my life at last.
A very attractive female wrote on her 'ideal match' as "you don't have to be rich...…..". She never gave me an answer for my inquiry for exact definition of "you don't have to be rich", whether it means 'I pay mine and she pays hers, or I pay mine and hers is to be paid by me and I don't have to be rich.'
The lady you mentioned seems very dogmatic on her view but she seems more likely a working class as you are. And she never insinuates any negative opinion by indicating any person as you did now and does not attribute own misery to others or political party without taking own responsibility.
Science is to establish the logical cause and effect of phenomena of the universe based on objective observation and the religion is to establish group of followers based on subjective psychological manipulation for whatever the purpose is.
Religion is not the object of scientific observation and analysis. Science has no business to prove of disprove the religion.
For the reincarnation to be true it has to be zero sum. The total number of souls remains constant since the beginning of the universe. Otherwise the reincarnation falls into own contradiction. Because each soul will be recycled into different form of soul through the repeating process of life and death.
The increase of human population is the result of decreasing number of souls of other species whether it is mice or bacterium. If it is not zero sum then it implies a single soul can be multiplied to more than one, which itself will reject the reincarnation as true premise.
Then question is whether a single virus can be counted as a soul or not.
Believing is self brainwashing behavior to regard unproven or untrue fact as being true. When something is true, the act of believing is unnecessary. No one prays every day by reciting a verse to believe the earth orbits the sun. We just live with the truth without any effort since it is true and proven.
Gee, I'm so bored and keep tapping the keyboard here. I gotta quit doing this.
Be forewarned. Especially, Brits, Aussie, Yankees. You gentlemen are potential walking ATM.
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"My Canadian brother married a Thai girl when he was 60. His first wife. She took him to the cleaners. Farangs beware! I loved Thailand but can’t get past the money grabbers. Do not marry a Thai girl. You will regret it down the road. Reply 8 days 23 hours ago"
Chinese saying: Spread the disease and supply the medicine. The division of Korean peninsular was the consequence of colonial expansionism by Japan and all the super power in 19th. Russia and US divided Korea into half and half. Then China wanted a piece of pie and got involved the war later on. Koreans are just victim of this colonial confrontation without any malevolence of their own.
You caused the disease and hand out the medicine. And you get the praise as a savior. That's how it works. How about just get the job done without fanfare and just walk away.
Obviously there is certain repercussion against for the past political correctness. The swings move the other way now. That's what Hegel said. Curing process of the history.
As a matter of fact, Hilary should be awarded the prize. If it were not her, Trump didn't make it to the White House. Hilary was the one who made Trump as POTUS. Thanks to Hilary!
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Precise meaning of "true Love"
Not that I am fond of speaking ill of any CS members, but I want to rather be Socrates to seek the truth in the society of dating field by exemplifying the untruth.I have been lurking these dating sites quite for a while and it was very amusing experience to see all the ladies of the world and had a few contacts including near final collision incidence. But I decided not to proceed any further for my soundness of retirement life at the last minute.
Based on my observation of the profiles which appear to be almost same pattern regardless of geographical region, there are a few common things used by most female members.
In the order of frequencies, I can assume that ‘travel’, ‘looking for true love’, ‘like nature’, ‘hiking’, ‘bicycle’ , ‘ to learn the different culture’, ‘going to concert’, ‘walking the beach with hand in hand’, ‘watch movies’, etc. Cooking is rarely mentioned.
I was so impressed and stunned to learn that most of women of the world has exactly same hobbies as mine. Really?
Even though I am definitely not an eccentric moron, but as a non drinker, non smoker of any kind whatsoever, non gambler, no eyes fixed to the TV screen to watch sports ( I cut the cable long years ago), I have only a few choices to kill my unlimited time after retirement and death of my spouse. However, not only hiking, wandering in the middle of nowhere, cycling, off-road are my favorite choices but also I never get tired of them. Fortunately, I don’t rely on SSA pension for my living, I do not spare money for my leisure. I have fairly high price equipment and 4x4’s and I ended up even moving to the highlighted area of those activities.
I got rid of all the photos and memorabilia after the death of my wife and store no pictures on the phone or computer because Microsoft and Apple try to sell their apps all the time. I carry Iphone only to make a 911 call or other emergency. No social medias or those kinds. So I use free photo sharing website to keep all my pictures which are mostly landscape taken while I was hiking or off roading. I hate take my own pictures and selfie is the most repugnant thing to me.
So I invited all the ladies who I was really interested to see all my photos which is over 2,000 and organized by events chronologically. Anyone could figure out easily what I do and how I live. I was excited to show all the beautiful nature and the activities which they also said as their favorite ones.
We share the same interest.
To my surprise!
I have very few pictures of myself and my belongings including house and cars, less than 30 out of over 2,000. The only, literally only ( some people hate the word ‘literally’ but….) photos were viewed are the ones which shows my house and cars as a profile pictures of the album. All others which shows the nature, hiking,etc, never viewed. ABSOLUTELY ZERO VIEW.
Are they really interested in what they described or just saying those to make themselves look like as Jane Goodall?. Or ‘true love’ means nice house and nice car?
It seems ‘true love’ after certain age to be an illusion. I don’t blame or stigmatize anyone. Life is hard. After all those years of hard life after divorce, raising kids or whatever, we all realize that a certain thing has to be preceded as the first priority before anything else.
As a matter of fact, I owe these dating sites including CS in a great degree to come to the proper decision for my life after I became a widower. Thanks to CS.
Now I am very comfortable to live by myself for the rest of life as a bachelor and life is always adventure and fun. I began to truly enjoy my life at last.