dating_time: I see a short profile would work much better. To post onto CS, what make you write a lengthy profile of you?
Yeah, good question... Sometimes I see profiles (female) that leave me absolutely speechless... The length and the detailed demands are frightening... Keep it short and light...
Considering there are a lot of profiles I've been through, where it sounds like they have time for and want all fun and games with additional demands; I would write a lengthy profile to make abundantly clear that life still dictates that I have to work, maintain responsibilities, and enjoy fun and games as time permits.
I get to see family quite a bit since many live somewhat close over all.
Very rare I read a profile..On the rare occasion I might read a posters profile but I do let them know
Long winded profiles or profiles of people talking themselves up being athletic and the rest of the bs making claims to perfection having to no pic on their profile to back up their bs amuse me.
I don’t want to read a long profile, some of the stuff that person say about themselves is make believe, they have a whole another side to them.. yes short and simple cause when you meet that person you gone have to still tell them about yourself
Packersbabe1: I don’t want to read a long profile, some of the stuff that person say about themselves is make believe, they have a whole another side to them.. yes short and simple cause when you meet that person you gone have to still tell them about yourself
Do you agree it is more about the photos, than the written part? Are looks the deciding for you factor? What stands out to you in a profile, apart from the photo? Shared hobbies, height, weight, age, education etc?
I have photos on another site, but they are only available to women I messaged, with, because I had my photo stolen on another site and won't make my photos public again
Packersbabe1: I don’t want to read a long profile, some of the stuff that person say about themselves is make believe, they have a whole another side to them.. yes short and simple cause when you meet that person you gone have to still tell them about yourself
Do you agree it is more about the photos, than the written part? Are looks the deciding factor for you? What stands out to you in a profile, apart from the photo? Shared hobbies, height, weight, age, education etc?
I have photos on another site, but they are only available to women I messaged, with, because I had my photo stolen on another site and won't make my photos public again
LeeCharming: Do you agree it is more about the photos, than the written part? Are looks the deciding for you factor? What stands out to you in a profile, apart from the photo? Shared hobbies, height, weight, age, education etc?
I have photos on another site, but they are only available to women I messaged, with, because I had my photo stolen on another site and won't make my photos public again
No, looks aren’t really a concern for me I had men message me without photos and I still chatted with them, with me it would, at least have a job or something, if the profile is nicely wrote, not to much bragging then it’s ok cause we all have flaws
Packersbabe1: No, looks aren’t really a concern for me I had men message me without photos and I still chatted with them, with me it would, at least have a job or something, if the profile is nicely wrote, not to much bragging then it’s ok cause we all have flaws
I like the way you write and it's refreshing to read
lol too much bragging...yes no one is perfect, but some have better hearts, than others and are decent human beings....I always look for red flags on a profile and negativity, because I don't want that in my life....positive, funny, friendly, well mannered women will always stand out to me
LeeCharming: I like the way you write and it's refreshing to read
lol too much bragging...yes no one is perfect, but some have better hearts, than others and are decent human beings....I always look for red flags on a profile and negativity, because I don't want that in my life....positive, funny, friendly, well mannered women will always stand out to me
Aww Thanks, yes I agree, I’m guessing you’re full of charm
A profile is one's opportunity to attract the right mate by writing about one's values, interests, thoughts, and other priorities. Not doing so suggests that one has none of these.
dating_time: I see a short profile would work much better. To post onto CS, what make you write a lengthy profile of you?
I dont like to see a lengthy profile..thats when i was looking for someone...i find it a little tedious having to read a long profile...but im not a fan of one liners either.....somewhere in the middle is good...and a bit of humour in the text is a must
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