I don't think a lot of people aren't in touch with themselves....they are shut off and cerebral instead....intimacy cant be reached if they cant even reach themselves they are not gonna allow another to reach them.....
I agree....knowing you can trust someone is what builds the foundation....breaking trust is what brings it crashing down....if I cant trust you with the little things there is no way im going to trust you with the big things and then there is no point.....
That depends if they're trustworthy or not....I don't have expectations beyond the level of being a basic human and most of the time even that low rung of humanity isn't met....so I don't hold out a lot of hope....when a person doesn't add value to my life but takes away from it and adds stress then I don't need it.....
firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something. "relations have to be built on trust"
synonyms: confidence, belief, faith, certainty, assurance, conviction, credence; reliance "good relationships are built on trust"
antonyms: distrust, mistrust, doubt
•acceptance of the truth of a statement without evidence or investigation. "I used only primary sources, taking nothing on trust"
believe in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of. "I should never have trusted her"
synonyms: rely on, depend on, bank on, count on, be sure of "he can be trusted to carry out an impartial investigation
Would you be in a relationship with someone you could only trust some of the time?....what about that important thing that has enormous consequences when the person doesn't follow through?....like paying the mortgage and they don't and then you lose your house?...yeah im not guessing when someone can be trusted and they cant...I trust me 100% and I also trust me to make the best choices and decisions for me....someone who doesn't walk their talk and follow through and who is conspicuously absent when I need them most isn't compatible with me....unfortunately like I said it seems to be the exception rather than the rule and I would rather stay with someone I do trust which is myself rather than invite that into my life.......
Everybody is in a snit thinking we got a new kitty.....I have two super pissed off cats but the little guy doesn't care he still chases them and tries to play with them......
M4_Mischief Forum Posts (6,250)
RE: Fools Paradise.....
when you build sandcastles in the sky....aka...a relationship with a false sense of security with no foundation underneath.....