The best way to hide something is in plain sight...people fail to realise it all the time... Don't hide anything and nobody will believe you... That's what I know...
Nick, joke on a side...you are an autist, it's not exactly something women will go wild for... The purity of your intentions have no weight especially in the virtual world... I believe you have more chances in real world and in places where you can find similar to you people...something to do with your interests...for example...
But you need to have some common ground to build on it... Massive differences sooner or later cause cracks in your foundation... We all have given a go with people who don't fall into our own dimension...
Yeah, the younger you are the more romantic approach you have towards matters of status and background... There's something dramatically wonderful to go against the common sense when you are young... I guess we've all been there and done it...
I try to understand why people do that, can't be angry as I see what reasons they might have... Well it's not nice at all but it's their choice and it should be respected... You can't force anybody to read a book...if they only want to stare at the pictures...
Yes, it takes some time and will to find out what someone really is... On a dating site it's very easy to presume... Being Eastern European for example puts me immediately in the gutter, men see red flags "She's poor and looking to escape the country"...
I do too believe we are kind of programmed in a certain way... I've seen people from a low background who are naturally noble, graceful and intelligent... And people from a upper class behaving like a trash...and I don't mean it's the money that rule the behaviour... But we are also ready to easily assume who is what...from what's on the surface...
Thanks Track! I know it's easy to say people change... I've seen the same person turn completely different when in their own original environment and not because they don't want to be looked at like a poser but because of their true calling... I also know many try hard to be different but it somehow transpires and leaves a taste of falseness around them... You know what they say..."You can take the Russian out of Russia but you can't take Russia out of them"...
Yes, this is my first ever thread, so, please, be gentle...
How important is your potential partner's background? Do you believe that despite the present social status of the person, sooner or later his original background self shows up...and blows it in your face...? Have you ever been rejected or avoided because of your background? I have been overlooked, rejected and avoided...
The guy is absolutely in his right to ask that, if you have a look at the summary image of the 21 century abnormality , his request is way harmless than anything else testing our sanity today...
Resist? It can never, ever tempt me again... Once in my dream I got persuade to smoked and I was totally devastated (still in my dream) that I did it, I felt guild ridden when I woke up and this awful feeling hounded me the whole day...
May be you should approach him first Marlin, they might be afraid of the distance and do not bother at all... You never know... People avoid you for very strange reasons sometimes...but if you don't talk you'll never find out...and some won't even give you that chance...because of something silly... Hope you find your guy...
Strict rules in friendship? You must be joking... No one can rule what they feel...it happens, especially between people who like each other and know each other , just like friends do...and especially when these two are man and a woman... You mean to fall in love is disrespectful?
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Background importance in relationships...
The more open you are the more hidden agendas they suspect...