Nobody is that good to play the game for long... And I often wonder why do people get into this game, where they force themselves play a character and attract someone they'll soon hate...
But then again, people love to be impressed by "clever" things someone else said...sometimes they don't realise it has no real meaning...it's not even clever but it sounds good, good and useless... It has always worked...
What I am saying is don't wait or rely on others to be responsible, do your own part too... It's not a wonderful place the world we live in, there are loads of creepy people and even women get involved in raping other women...
To expect your actions to have no consequences and rely on what others suppose to do or not is naive... You don't go stroke a lion because your intentions are innocent and good, you stay away from it... Your behaviour is giving some kind of signals, like it or not, and when you know that some men are primitive in reading signals you are stupid to think it will go away unnoticed ... Deal with it...
If only it was so simple and humans were all amazing creatures... There is a percentage of truth in every option mentioned, and to deny it is a bit naive...
Education and intelligence do not immediately make you a person of great character... There are plenty arrogant and horrible people of high intelligence... Sometimes when it comes to matters of the heart the cold, intelligent approach isn't what works well, dissecting your emotions instead of doing what your heart tells you... Analising everything in your relationship to the point where it looks like a lab experiment ... It happens, more often than not...
I wondered why he isn't posting... My old profile was banned for months before I deleted it ...the reason was pathetic, disagreeing with a poster from Portugal, who didn't even stay for long... Good to know he isn't avoiding the crowd...
To have a well functioning relationship you need to know some things from experience or things that come naturally to you... Education doesn't make you a better partner...and that's why a man would prefer a woman who knows how to be a good partner than a woman who "knows best"...
RE: Why? Why?
But it's a waste of life...yours and someone else's...