Of course it matters what we did and wanted in the past... It's all part of our realisation later...if one ever comes... Everything from your past is part of you... If you are only certain in what you don't want then you are in a static state... Concentrating on what you want makes the motion... JMO
Chance encounters are not suppose to influence you that easily...not when you know what you really want... They usually provoke impulsive decisions, mostly regrettable after a while...
That's pretty bad Track... You have to turn that around... If you don't have a clear idea of what you want how you gonna achieve it and be truly happy?!
I know that we live using 95 % of our unconscious mind, meaning we rarely make everyday decisions consciously... Living by the power of paradigms ...it is kind of scary...
Have you been totally honest with yourself what you actually want from life...? Recently I was shocked to discover that I've been shunning what I really want the most... But even more shocked to find out my best friends were not surprised to hear what it was... Do we sabotage ourselves unconsciously ?
Well, not exactly true... Otherwise you wouldn't hear anybody complaining about their ex-s ...right?! If they all fell in love with "beautiful" people...
There's no good love and bad love, bigger one and smaller one... And nobody said there will be a happy end, a pot of gold...rainbows or love bonuses...the bigger, the better, the more of a love...?! People get what they settle for...it's as simple as that...
RE: Reasons why people leave the forum ..
Awww, congratulations JohnAs for the forums...in Bulgaria we say :
"When speaking about a departed, say something good or say nothing at all..."