Of course you do have an option...you let them say what they want to say...give them the time and the limelight...and walk away to another thread or keep on interacting with those who have something meaningful to say...simple...
You don't have to handle them...ignore them, don't take on what they send your way... Handling nasty people is not your responsibility...you have a choice here...
Well, we need to start somewhere, don't we?! I can not predict but can set a vision of where we can be... If we look in different directions, then we better part...
Could I care less? It's not about what they say it's about what you do afterwards, do you react or do you respond? People do react and allow interference unconsciously...
Depends... I tend to lose it when the person is too slow and detailed in explaining simple matter... If there's nothing that provokes a thought, not just mental activity, I am gone...
Confidence comes with abilities... Results never lie... When you know everything but live like you know nothing... It's not humbleness it's lack of having a point...
What does make you feel better? The pride of you being able to go through hell process or finding the light after... For most finding the light stops the process of moving forward, you rest in your wreath of personal glory...until the next time of struggle...
You don't search for the light when the lights is all around you... And that's the drama here... A circle of motion you can't get out of because of your need to fulfil your desire for martyrdom ... The suffering and your "dark" side make you proud ...for nothing...
People don't like to be taught or told or subjected to influence that may change their believes... Knowing who you are is a mysticism to most even to those who think they know... Getting away from the paradigm of your believes requires a willingness and desire to change... And that's showing brightly on the forums...
Feminism isn't a problem when she knows how to balance her masculine side and be as feminine too... To know how to leave the testosterone out the door...is something many women see as weakness...and they fail where it should be easy...
RE: Share What You Are Listening To -- Part 99
I still know nothing about the band but couldn't resist a band with such a name...