LadyMiniMe Forum Posts (35)

RE: To All Those Who Are New Here in the Forums

Hello everyone!

I don't remember how long exactly I've been on this site; couple of weeks maybe? Just joined the forums last week. Wanted to see how things were being done first and then do the plunge. I'm still trying to get the hang of it.

I find some of the threads quite interesting and it's a way to get to know some people better. I hope that thru my posting, people would like to get to know me, too.

I'm here to meet people, hopefully get some penpals, maybe travel partners and friends!

RE: Do you honestly think Obama will do what he promised?

So, you didn't vote for a politician. Who did you vote for then?

RE: Do you honestly think Obama will do what he promised?

I didn't know there was hunger in Europe. Last time I checked, most countries there were doing pretty well!

RE: Do you honestly think Obama will do what he promised?

Please! There are liars everywhere. Lying doesn't have to do with politics! And, I don't see any of the socialists in Europe applauding for Chavez and the Castro's?? So, why do you mix communism with socialism?

RE: Do you honestly think Obama will do what he promised?

I don't mind working for the seniors, who have worked before me and watched over me; i don't mind working for "my" and other kids who are the future; i don't mind working for the sick people or handicapped. If you have people who are lazy and don't want to work, then you have to have a government that comes with stricter laws to prevent that!

RE: Do you honestly think Obama will do what he promised?

I don't know much about politics. Can someone explain to me what's wrong with socialism? As gozoman put it: medical care for everyone, better public transportation for everyone, better education for everyone..... If that's what you consider as socialism, then what's wrong with that?

RE: i give up

Why are you so mean? He's a more likable person than you.

RE: what do u think youre chances are of finding someone on cs.

I think that chances are kind of slim for me. But, so far i'm having fun with the forums, i'm chatting with people, i've met some real cool people, so as long as i'm enjoying myself, i'll logging on to the site.

RE: Philosophy

I am happy!

RE: i give up

It's not you. But, I don't think either that these kind of sites are the best places to find your special one. You're a nice looking man and I like what you say in your profile. However, the best way to meet people, is to socialize outside of your home, thru friends, hobbies.... Just be active, let your face show everywhere in your town/city, have a lovely life and love will eventually find you.

RE: Do you honestly think Obama will do what he promised?

yes, i know. but, some posts get me going because they are so un (or in? sorry, English not my mother language)-humanly. Had a rough day; everybody's complaining, destroying, attacking each other. I constantly ask myself "why?". The world is such a nice place. Life is the greatest thing. Why do we (humans) make it so ugly?
Back to the thread: if Obama gets everybody's input, backup, and support, he'll make good to his promises. And, so can every president!

RE: Do you honestly think Obama will do what he promised?

I don't think where you come from or what you do hasn't anything to do whether you'll be a good president or not. It's about the person inside, which has to be decent, honest, willing to do a good job and withstand ulterior conflicting interests. Just my opinion.

RE: is it really bad manners to say Whatever?

I think it's rude, because to me it implies that you don't care.

RE: Do you honestly think Obama will do what he promised?

First of all I think that a lot of Americans are hypocrites. Sorry, if i'm offending. But, how can you say that people have to be perfect to take office? No one's perfect.So, where did people get this from? I think, that someone who wants to be in office, it's about wanting to do something positive for your country. Whether you can do it, has to do with brains, skills, oportunities, and some luck.
Obama got elected, because he was smarter. Not, because of his skin color. You mean to tell me that there are more black people in the US nowadays? I believe not even where he got elected as senator, the majority there is black.
And, lastly, that thing you call race has a very simple explanation. Why are humans different from each other. That thing is called evolution. People with black skin, simply can withstand hot weather, sun, and that kind of weather conditions, where they originally came from. And, white people don't have pigment, because they come from cold weather where there was little sun. And, so on. They evolutionized! Period.And, now that people can travel from one continent to another, it's becoming a melting pot. In a couple of decades, centuries, there will only be MIXED RACE. So what!
That's why i loved a commercial, i think it's for an insurance company, where someone says: "brilliant. humans behaving humanly". That's where we all should go, where outside characteristics don't mean a thing. It's just about brains, heart and soul!

RE: What nationality would you want to date?

It doesn't really matter to me because the point is that you have to be able to identify with the culture of the person you want to be with. I'm from a very small island, so relocating is kind of a natural thing to us. We go abroad to study. We go abroad on vacation. Some go abroad for their health. So, why not go abroad and relocate for love.

RE: I feel like a snowbunny!

The reply was meant for sweetowen. I'm so slow!

RE: I feel like a snowbunny!

Sure! We look so much alike that no one would notice!!

Europeans do it a lot. They exchange their houses for one in the Caribbean for vacation. I think it's nice. You get a house, maybe a car and save tons of money. Of course, you take a risk 'cause you don't know the people (and the mess; ewh) who are going to stay at your house. But, it's a way of vacationing when you don't have enough dough.

RE: I feel like a snowbunny!

Maybe we should exchange places for a week or two. Dec09/Jan10? You stay at my house and I'll stay at yours!

RE: I feel like a snowbunny!

Change of season would be nice! I live in beautiful, sunny, warm, white sand beaches with palm trees, and blue sea Aruba. But, after a while you do get bored. I'm dying to spend a xmas/new year in the mountains with tons of snow..... Humans

RE: Divorce

Sweet dreams, loverboy! Will "hit" you some other time to chat

RE: Divorce

I was married once and got divorced after 8 yrs. I didn't think the marriage was that bad. He did! I found out after 1 fight we had, where everything spilled over. I told him that if our kids and I made his life so miserable, that maybe he should leave .... He did and never came back!
Analysis: we didn't know each other and saw marriage differently; we didn't know how to communicate especially when it was about feelings; and because we weren't on the same page and didn't know each other well, we made a lot of wrong decicions in financial matters.
I've been divorced for 7 yrs now. And, the more years go by, the better I feel about myself and living by myself (with kids). I had one relationship after that, but with a cheater and liar. So, more and more I think that by myself I'm better off. So, only if some day I happen to meet a nice, decent, fun-loving, honest guy, I'll think about a longterm relationship again.

RE: Favorites List

I'm just 43 yrs old, "young loverboy"!

RE: Favorites List

I use all the lists on CS to make my life easier. I'm not good with names When I like someone, I let them know by sending a flower. If they reply nicely, I put them on the favorite's list (one step further). Otherwise, they'll be deleted/blocked. If we proceed to have a mail/flower list, I request a friendship.
Well, bad thing is that I haven't made it yet to "friendship" list with anyone yet. But, considering the fact how little time I spend on the site, I'm ok with it.
The only list I don't use is the fan's list. I don't want to be part in polishing anyone's ego.

RE: She is leaving home......

My daughter left too a couple of months ago. She's 14. I let her go, just like you did, with a heavy heart. We communicated almost every day thru email and of course she doesnt talk about "women stuff" with Dad. So, that's what Moms are for (also). It's been 3 months now. She asked me if she can come back home at the end of this month, and she will.
It's hard when they come to you with the request to go live with Dad and your whole being says NO. But, I pulled all of my energy together, didn't make a fuss about it, and now she's coming back. She just needed to be with her Dad for some time.
And, we have to remember, that how bad the Dad is and how good of a Mom we are, the child needs both for reasons which are sometimes uncomprehensible to us, because we are subjective. Don't deny them their Dad's. Our children know how good we are! So, we don't have anything to fear.

RE: Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?

You want to do bad now, to get good in return?????

RE: Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?

Loverboy, you put a lot of good into it with LOTS OF EXPECTATIONS! Do things without thinking that you should get something in return. Do it for the sake of GOOD. Not for the sake of RETURN ON INVESTMENT.

RE: Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?

I'm too slow with my replies. The applause was meant for Buzzy"s reaction to Dave's statement.

RE: Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?

RE: Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?

Oh, loverboy690! It will get frustrating if you focus on the romantic love. Love is everywhere. Like a lot in this thread said, love from your or for your friends, family and why not shower someone you don't know with some loving, too, like charity work. Don't make it into a quest! Love life and I believe that life will love you back! I believe that life = a boomerang. It always comes back right at you, good or bad depending what you invest in it. Lots of nice people around on CS!

RE: Are You As Frustrated As I Am...?

I completely agree with dazzling dave. If you carry expectations and they dont happen, you'll get frustrated. The key is to live your life! Learn to have a great time by yourself and a great time with family and friends. Work, live healthy/exercise, do creative things, have hobbies, have a pet, do charity work, and just hang out with yourself listening to music, reading books, exercising, dancing, or whatever is fun. And, like Dave says, if love finds you = that's great but if it doesn't find you = great, too!