life have send me to so many places each one with his own rules and laws i have been to free countries and the not free countries i have been to democracies (not a synonim of free) i have been to dictatorship countries too
althought this huge diference i could manage myself well
i even survived being in a dictatorship country too
all what i did was easy and simple
i readed the laws and rukes of the country i was heading and i folowed them there
i never questiones any of the laws and rules althought some of them sounded dumb to me
untill i landed in the internet dating world
whenever i consider to join a internet dating site, i read the laws and rules that the site has if i dont agree i dont join it, and if i agree to folow them i join the site
then i find that most people get mad at me for folowing the laws and rules of the site i am being asked to light up and have fun it is hard for me to undertand that concept why having fun should mean to give up on me folowing the rules
is any one wiling to give me some light on the topic
for some reazon things that i have been doing in my whole life do not work in the last few month
i can undertand some people could get agraveted by my actions, but this is always in real life as for example, here in florida people drive over the speed limit, i do not the ones that are behind me, seems to be mad i drive slow (excactly at the speed limit), but till now i have a clean driving record, and no cop asked me to drive faster here in florida, people will go to the mid of the intersection to turn left when they got the yelow light so they can run a red light later i dont do thatm and for the gestures od the drivers behind me, they are mad at me too
why the interned dating sites have rules to be bend?
please dont undertand me wrong i am not complainig about the site i am not complaining about the mods i do not complain about other members i want to undertand
no, not my therapist, as i have nothing but mentally chalenged
i have no traumas i do not see any phantoms
i meant my tutor the one that check on what i am doing and she is patient enought as to explain me things several times untill i am able to undertand she is the one reading my post (not always as she says i have to learn how to be on my own too) and correct them
she is the one going with me to the stores to explain what i am looking when no one undertand me
she also ask the store emplyes to be patient with me because i am mentally chalenged
alex_192 Forum Posts (1,271)
RE: Just wondering what you all think
what you are talking about counting people wishes it can happens only on a democracyfar away form what we have