No my views have pretty much stayed the same, about other members on CS, I still think most of them are pretty great. But the views I have of my self have changed quite a bit. Left field? not even in the park.
I truely belive that people have seen an been so involved with fighting and arguing, that they are just to worked up to see that this was not meant to be nasty. they are all so on the defensive anymore it seems they think the worst, and so it be.
Well if that was what you were implying then I have to disagree. That was not the case. I will admit I have bad feelings towards the that person, but this thread was not directed at him. If I truley wanted to direct anything towards him I would and have done it directly to him. I have not said anything I wish I could take back. I apollogized for the missunderstanding. but that is all it was! there was no ill intent. it's as simple as that. I honestly o not see where you all find it so hard to belive that this was supose to be an innocent thread. But I wont post another thread at all. I may have been wrong though about people on CS being understanding. they really dont seem to be now at all. JMO
Morganlee, I am sorry did not mean for that to sound like I was jumping on you. I did not want the thread to turn like it did. But since it had, all I have been doing is trying to make my apollogy and let it go. But it seems like the thread has a life of its own. just when you think it has slipped into the relm of of old news. it just keeps popping back up to the top again. I really do feel bad.
The Op said it was a fun thread , what i said was talking about what someone else said when things have already been heated Runs the Risk of starting things off again. I am NOT attacking anyone . It is my opinion , i too have had disagreements with the person concerned but we have sorted that out, and i feel better for it.[/quote
I said it was supose to be a fun thread. that it was not meant to carry on from the other thread. but take an idea from it, the idea being to ask how the women on cs were viewed. I have said I was sorry, I have said I agree with the opinion of ignor, i feel really bad the thread took on a life of it's own. I never had any intention of talking about anyone person.
I feel really bad, that I posted anything at all. I have given apollogy after another here, I even went over to the other thread and left an apollogy there for missunderstanding his thread. But it seems thats not good enough, I still am getting backlashes from this, So just let me ask what is it you want me to do?
No disrepect here for responding, but that is exactly the languge we wanted, wether it was good bad or indiferent, it was honest and respectful. Talking like this is what makes the forums fun.
The truth of the matter is this thread was not to talk about another thread or the writer. And it got way out of control, when someone posted a comment about the above mentioned. It was my fault it got out of control. I should have posted right then and there, that was not what this was about. But I didn't. I not only let it start, but because of some very hard feelings I have about the person, and his personal accusations, I also fed fire to this. And for this I am sorry. This was supose to be a friendly an happy thread. that was all.
uMMMMM Yes.... it is it has been implied on another thread
That was only said because it was what got us thinking about starting the thread, to see what other men had to say or thought about the women. Not to talk about the other thread or its writer.
Well I guess all you have to do is look at the threads on here over the last few weeks to answer that one....... There are all types of ladies on here and men too, but what is the point of this thread? looking for compliments?[/quote
not so much like that, more to have a better understanding of the way men see us in general, but a compliment would be nice as well. For all the ladies.
that is not what this thread was about! who cares what the other thread was, this was supose to be friendly not debating another thread. I am so sorry I started a thread at all.
Ok you have made the OP, where is the thread that implies what you say, link please instead of dealing with implied "implacations"[/quote
This thread is not about another thread or what another person has said, that was only what had made me think of this stupid thread in the first place. this thread is was to have friendly conversation, and to see what the men on CS thought of the women on CS It was not ment to bash or upset anyone!
That being said....One can't argue with himself and everyone knows when you respond to him..he responds back...thus the arguing continues....You are not going to get a valued opinion ot of the man so why try??????????? Let him argue with himself.....He tried with me the other day and I just basicly told him to get lost...I am not into dealing with people like him...I don't even read his posts because I know they will be full of crap....He wans attention so don't give it to him....even if it's negative attention....He can't to you if you don't let him and this is how I have chosen to deal wit him....[/quote
I agree with all everyone has said, but the purpose of this thread was not to talk about him or how to deal with him, it was supose to be a friendly thread and happy talk.
that was what it started out to be, that was all that was asked. The only reason I had mentioned the thread that everyone got so hot on, was because it was what got me thinking. That it would be nice to know what the opinion was of the ladies of CS. never had any intention to to talk about the other thread. And the first few posts started out just as it should. And I would have thought it would have been great to hear opinions from the other side. This thread was not about Alex, though now he is going to think that it was. it was about the good women of CS. It was not supose to be a shouting match, but a friendly thread. Thats all. But now I can only assume that Alex will think it was about himself. and it will go to his head. I belive there has been to many threads that have got hot and heavy, and people are now defensive and are proned to jump to the wrong conclussion.
your post has not fallen on def ears, lol you can safely say you lost that bet. I hear what you are saying and I agree. but yes the sentiment was a tru one.
I think it is ironic this person is here, on a singles site, and manages to alienate nearly every single female in this site by argueing with, demeaning and insulting every single one of us.......
I can kind of guess who this person is, so i'd also like to add, there is no way to ban him from the site because he still manages to stay with in the rules, even though he made it clear he is not here to meet women or make friends.
How long is this going to go on with him starting arguements on almost every thread he posts in? I'm afraid, eventually he is going to scare most of us away and we won't have the forums we have now.[/quote It seems that any and all threads I would like to post on he is there, or short to follow, and he always has a way to get his digs in. And where is it fair, that we have to ignor or not post our opinions while he is free to degrade any one who disagrees with his opinion. If I have to skip threads because he is there or because he showed up then what is the sence of being in the forums. But again I just want the women of CS to know they are respected and there company on CS is enjoyed by everyone.
Well I don't care what anyone thinks about me and it won't harm me. But I don't have to embrace it, I am entitled to stand up for myself as well. I get to have a opinion also even if it isn't liked.[/quote
I agree, and most all of agree, as well, you can have your opnions and they can be disagreed with to be expected. but to have someone disagree and add disrespect is not acceptable. Well it can be accepted but you should not have to. And the comments tha had been made towards some or most of the CS women, I just thought it would be nice for them to hear a better opinion of them. Face it ladies, we can take the crap said about us, but really isn't it nice to hear good things about your selves?
we are all great women with in our right! there is no reason for any one of us to do less then hold our heads high. we wear our own personal scars with pride and honor. I belive any man that is able to capture any one of our hearts has got the best there is. Come on guys don't you all agree?
I think your so right, at least I do now. wouldn't have been to long ago and the comments that I have seen made against me and others would have just made run and cry.
I said it that way as it was less harsh then the way it was put, It was said that most of us are not ladies. I would like to know your opinion on the women on CS.
I will start, I think that the ladies on CS are in a class of there own! and are great ladies each and everyone of them.
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RE: Have your views changed?
No my views have pretty much stayed the same, about other members on CS, I still think most of them are pretty great. But the views I have of my self have changed quite a bit. Left field? not even in the park.