Alexander (Alexandre, Alexzander) English/Scottish/Welsh French Greek Defender or helper of mankind ART: Alexander Pope; Alexandre Dumas; Alexander Solzhenitsyn HIS: Sir Alexander Bustamante, Alexander Hamilton, Alexander Graham Bell, Alexander the Great REL: Alexander
I think it is nice to have a place to go, and talk with other people who are like you. I don't know if it would be called hiding. The way I see it, It is a dating site, set up so you can meet other people, and maybe find someone you have a lot in commin with. We are all (well most of us) are single, and many share the same problems. There are a lot of people here who can relate to what we say. Here someone can post a question, like what do women want in a man or vice versa. and you know your not going to be put down or made fun of by someone, because we all would like to know the answer. and in some ways I think it brings everyone closer together. You can say things ask things, that your friends in the other world sometimes would not understand. I my self have a lot of friends and they are married or are in a relationship. while I love them to death, it sometimes is hard to be with them, as they are talking about there lives with there significant other. and as for me I don't have a lot of input to that kind of conversation, as there is no significant other. and sometimes I just feel like I don't belong there. but here on CS, you don't get pulled into to many conversations about the family vacation or who is buying a house because there is a baby on the way. It's just seems good to know that you have friends you can talk with and have a good time with, while your other friends are doing the couple thing. And I think that most of us ccame here in the first place in some hope of finding the one that will allow us to do the couple thing. JMO. I could be wrong I am usually anyway. What would I know I am here for the forums anyway, LOL
I am not sure that I understand your question. But I thought I knew until you asked.
It's a two sided thing, Does he make me feel emotionally good, and do I make him feel that way as well. can we have fun together, can we laugh together, do we really enjoy each other, are we really suportive of each other, is there a true give and take in the relationship, is the give and take equal, these are the basics. how often do we have an disagreement are we really compatible? there are so many things to concider for marriage. kids jobs locations ex's families, your own strengths his strengths as well as weaknesses. But this is just answering with JMO on marriage. As far as how do you know if it is love or just an infatuation. I usually ask my self what would be the most I would do for this person, and what would I not do? Is he worth giving up everything I have and everything I know? And if I am wrong would it still be worth it in the end. if the answer is yes for me than I know I love him. Really I am glad you asked this question, because I have been trying to decide all of this my self. And answering this has helped me to make up my mind some. So thank you!
I already am! every parent has complained that things have changed, it is not like it was when I went to school. This happens every generation. You have to wonder just how bad will the next one be?
I had the same kind of symptoms for a long time. the doctor said it was indegestion, heart burn, then treated me for ulcers. None of the above! I ended up having surgery to have my gaul bladder out. Try eating a hotdog if it gets a lot worse, have an altra sound done. Hot dogs will cause the symptoms to flare up. and you can pretty much know then if it is or isnt.
I have had only 2 long term relationships, one was the worst the other was great. I have had some short terms, too. but I think from the long term I have learned what makes me happy and and what I never want again. So in my mind if I am talking to someone, and they say things that sound like there related to what I do not like, it turns me off. I really think it's more of a protection factor. then anything. I would get emails and flowers from a lot of guys. and I would agree to talk to them. but it would not last very long and I would have something important to do. Just to get out of the conversation. I had really started to think that I was really picky, and was condeming myself from finding anyone. But then I answerd an email from a guy, and nothing happened. I liked talking to him and the more we talked the more I was seeing things in him that I knew I liked and wanted in my life. now a few months later, there doesnt seem to be very much that is more important then talking to him. Really I think we have all gone thru good and bad relationships, and we all know what made us happy and what we miss or want in our lives. And we all know what made us angery what made us feel bad. And we are all just looking for the someone who we can be happy, and not feel negative. JMO,
Personallity attracts me. But he also has to be clean he has to take care of him self. attitude is another factor that helps attract me to some one as well, this is what is important to me. to me all this effects how a person looks.
perfectly said! When your not angery, when you have had time to get over the pain you had felt, when you can really let someone into your life with out comparing the new to the old. And can realize everyone is different.
Thanks solitare, Besides if you pretend to be something your not, your going to atract someone who has everything in common with who your not. And your going to miss out on who is right for who you really are.
Dont worry your not my ex! on your worst day you are 100% better then he is. I just would not want another women getting kicked around by the likes of him! But on second thought I guess I would leave my picture up! so he would know he better leave!
I would take off my picture really fast not tell him I am on here, and spy on him, then with any women he starts chatting with I would send an email warning them what he is really like.
None at all......... If they didnt like me by chatting to me and getting to know me then there isnt much point...and u can tell if someone likes u or not and if they dont that would be wasted energy .. save it for someone else...[/quote
Blue is right, I will save all my impressing for when there is some sort of relationship started, and we both like each other! That way he can say he really liked me when we first started to talk, but it just keeps getting better and better!
I wouldn't go all that far, If I go to the extremes and try to be something I am not. It would be to hard to keep it up on a long term basis. No It's better I be my self. If they like me for who I am now, then no one has to worry about my chanaging and having to say she wasn't like that when I first started to talk to her. Besides I like who I am. and my best feature is I am not perfect.
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RE: The Bar Is Open....................It Is ladies Night................
I have no choice I already opened my big fat mouth, now I have to go or suffer the never ending grief of backing out