Are we looking or are we hiding ??? (95)
easygoingguy: I wonder how many of us that spend a lot of time at the forums are genuinely looking for a partner or is it TOO comfortable doing what we are doing now so why change the status quo?
Maybe I`m wrong but it seems that more time is put into idle chit chat rather than courtship.
I am seriously looking and I like the idle chit chat, not only is fun , but I get to see how certain men I am interested in relate to others and answers to more questions I had about him. I had one courtship recently that was a utter failure, but I am back and truely looking again.Maybe I`m wrong but it seems that more time is put into idle chit chat rather than courtship.
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easygoingguy: I wonder how many of us that spend a lot of time at the forums are genuinely looking for a partner or is it TOO comfortable doing what we are doing now so why change the status quo?
Maybe I`m wrong but it seems that more time is put into idle chit chat rather than courtship.
I have found him here in the forums..we met in person a few times..and soon to be married this yearMaybe I`m wrong but it seems that more time is put into idle chit chat rather than courtship.
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I am truely looking...Just a little shy I guess...and it don't help that I don't get much time on here..I work a lot so get on here now and then....
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kissmedeeply: I have found him here in the forums..we met in person a few times..and soon to be married this year
that is awsome....congrat's to you both...ay you have many wonderfull years together full of loveing memmories....cheers to you both
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JustMe0807: that is awsome....congrat's to you both...ay you have many wonderfull years together full of loveing memmories....cheers to you both
Thank you hun..and wish you the same 
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easygoingguy: I wonder how many of us that spend a lot of time at the forums are genuinely looking for a partner or is it TOO comfortable doing what we are doing now so why change the status quo?
Maybe I`m wrong but it seems that more time is put into idle chit chat rather than courtship.
Maybe I`m wrong but it seems that more time is put into idle chit chat rather than courtship.
Already found and married the love of my life here
Earl
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I'm not looking or hiding....Just being me and living life.....
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exactly
we can only take it as it comes
we can only take it as it comes
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In a word....hiding
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shipoker55: In a word....hiding
cant hide THAT light under a bushel of bushels
why try?
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back to hiding......
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pixiestyx: back to hiding......
Ooo Hellooo Jodie!
I'm HidieLookin.. or LookyHidin..
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who's hiding
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PILIPALA: who's hiding
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Claayer: Ooo Hellooo Jodie!
I'm HidieLookin.. or LookyHidin..
I'm HidieLookin.. or LookyHidin..
hello sweetie...
awesome to see you...how about just hidin ..but this is the best corner in the world i have found to hide in.... ------ This thread is Archived ------
pixiestyx: hello sweetie...awesome to see you...how about just hidin ..but this is the best corner in the world i have found to hide in....
haha yeah.. at least there are some like minded people..
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I think it is nice to have a place to go, and talk with other people who are like you.
I don't know if it would be called hiding.
The way I see it, It is a dating site, set up so you can meet other people, and maybe find someone you have a lot in commin with. We are all (well most of us) are single, and many share the same problems.
There are a lot of people here who can relate to what we say.
Here someone can post a question, like what do women want in a man or vice versa. and you know your not going to be put down or made fun of by someone, because we all would like to know the answer. and in some ways I think it brings everyone closer together.
You can say things ask things, that your friends in the other world sometimes would not understand.
I my self have a lot of friends and they are married or are in a relationship. while I love them to death, it sometimes is hard to be with them, as they are talking about there lives with there significant other. and as for me I don't have a lot of input to that kind of conversation, as there is no significant other. and sometimes I just feel like I don't belong there.
but here on CS, you don't get pulled into to many conversations about the family vacation or who is buying a house because there is a baby on the way.
It's just seems good to know that you have friends you can talk with and have a good time with, while your other friends are doing the couple thing. And I think that most of us ccame here in the first place in some hope of finding the one that will allow us to do the couple thing. JMO. I could be wrong I am usually anyway. What would I know I am here for the forums anyway, LOL
I don't know if it would be called hiding.
The way I see it, It is a dating site, set up so you can meet other people, and maybe find someone you have a lot in commin with. We are all (well most of us) are single, and many share the same problems.
There are a lot of people here who can relate to what we say.
Here someone can post a question, like what do women want in a man or vice versa. and you know your not going to be put down or made fun of by someone, because we all would like to know the answer. and in some ways I think it brings everyone closer together.
You can say things ask things, that your friends in the other world sometimes would not understand.
I my self have a lot of friends and they are married or are in a relationship. while I love them to death, it sometimes is hard to be with them, as they are talking about there lives with there significant other. and as for me I don't have a lot of input to that kind of conversation, as there is no significant other. and sometimes I just feel like I don't belong there.
but here on CS, you don't get pulled into to many conversations about the family vacation or who is buying a house because there is a baby on the way.
It's just seems good to know that you have friends you can talk with and have a good time with, while your other friends are doing the couple thing. And I think that most of us ccame here in the first place in some hope of finding the one that will allow us to do the couple thing. JMO. I could be wrong I am usually anyway. What would I know I am here for the forums anyway, LOL
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Claayer: Who said that?
Don't know all i know it wasn't Mair
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PILIPALA: Don't know all i know it wasn't Mair
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Maybe I`m wrong but it seems that more time is put into idle chit chat rather than courtship.