Are we looking or are we hiding ??? ( Archived) (95)

May 30, 2008 7:48 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
mylifewithu: Curious question, am I that one that is messing with 3 other guys , or am I among the ones you are messing around with,


i think a few of us were wondering that very thing!

hes a playboy


devil

(just joshin ladies!)
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May 30, 2008 7:51 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
pixiestyx
pixiestyxpixiestyxeverywhere, South Carolina USA238 Posts
mindfful: good laffs on this one

and holy crap jodie!!!

ive been wonderin where youve been!!!




wave hello luv, and now you know......doh grin hug bouquet
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May 30, 2008 7:54 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
dreamAngel70
dreamAngel70dreamAngel70out side Kilkenny city, Kilkenny Ireland87 Threads 6 Polls 2,187 Posts
looking! wave cool
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May 30, 2008 7:58 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
Looking for someone that is hiding...hmmm detective cool cool cool detective grin irish
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May 30, 2008 8:01 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
pixiestyx
pixiestyxpixiestyxeverywhere, South Carolina USA238 Posts
martyg: Looking for someone that is hiding

not hidin just not workin...
rolling on the floor laughing sad flower
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May 30, 2008 8:10 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
mylifewithu: I am seriously looking and I like the idle chit chat, not only is fun , but I get to see how certain men I am interested in relate to others and answers to more questions I had about him. I had one courtship recently that was a utter failure, but I am back and truely looking again.



This is pretty much where I stand. I am seriously looking, though there is someone I like right now, so I'm not looking at the moment. grin
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May 30, 2008 8:31 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
dcj22: This is pretty much where I stand. I am seriously looking, though there is someone I like right now, so I'm not looking at the moment.



Sounds like you are standing on the edge of something honconfused tongue wave hug
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May 30, 2008 9:06 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
pixiestyx
pixiestyxpixiestyxeverywhere, South Carolina USA238 Posts
okay.... I admit i am peeking....laugh blushing
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May 30, 2008 9:07 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
martyg: Sounds like you are standing on the edge of something hon




Not saying that, I think I'm just doing good to be standing! laugh
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May 30, 2008 9:37 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
A computer screen makes a wonderful hiding place.
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May 30, 2008 9:37 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
<~~~~~~~would never hide anything
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May 30, 2008 9:40 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
easygoingguy
easygoingguyeasygoingguysomewhere in paradise, Western Australia Australia27 Threads 274 Posts
dazzling_dave: A computer screen makes a wonderful hiding place.


Ah yes the anonimity of the internet even though we "put" ourselves out there we actually don`t now do we ? Or most of us don`t.
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May 30, 2008 9:41 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
easygoingguy
easygoingguyeasygoingguysomewhere in paradise, Western Australia Australia27 Threads 274 Posts
Indyfella: <~~~~~~~would never hide anything


Yeah Indy real transparent are`nt we rolling on the floor laughing
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May 30, 2008 9:47 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
That's me......


Mr Transparent applause
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May 30, 2008 9:49 PM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
easygoingguy
easygoingguyeasygoingguysomewhere in paradise, Western Australia Australia27 Threads 274 Posts
Indyfella: That's me......Mr Transparent


good for you Fella...now I got both your names in..laugh
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May 31, 2008 1:40 AM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
easygoingguy: I wonder how many of us that spend a lot of time at the forums are genuinely looking for a partner or is it TOO comfortable doing what we are doing now so why change the status quo?
Maybe I`m wrong but it seems that more time is put into idle chit chat rather than courtship.


I'm not actively looking because I've corresponded with a few ..... doesn't seem to lead anywhere or they don't respond to the invitation of me trying to get to know them better by asking some questions - so I'm skeptical at best.

From my experiences in the past - I've encountered people who seem truly intent on getting to know you, but they I find out that they are also intent on getting to know others at the same time .......... so I'm really not into that. So hence, my decision to indulge in some interaction in the forums and have a few laughs.

I try to keep my emotions out of it ........ creates a lot less grief and disappointment. I'm grateful to the one that is a friend ...... despite my flaws - its wonderful to be open and honest and just me - don't need to impress - simply just be.
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May 31, 2008 2:03 AM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
Dreamer82
Dreamer82Dreamer82Wahiawa, Hawaii USA25 Threads 299 Posts
Sometimes I feel like I should be hiding.
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May 31, 2008 2:06 AM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
tulsaplumber
tulsaplumbertulsaplumberTulsa, Oklahoma USA2 Threads 517 Posts
Maybe we are looking with our eyes wide shut.
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May 31, 2008 2:08 AM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
They say sometimes
"you only find what you're looking for when you stop looking"

Kinda like in the winter and your looking for those really warm mittens that you bought the year before, you figure you lost them and buy another pair.

then when you least expect, you find your really warm mittens when you clean out the linen closet in the 3rd week of May.confused
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May 31, 2008 2:09 AM CST Are we looking or are we hiding ???
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
princess49503: They say sometimes
"you only find what you're looking for when you stop looking
"

Kinda like in the winter and your looking for those really warm mittens that you bought the year before, you figure you lost them and buy another pair.

then when you least expect, you find your really warm mittens when you clean out the linen closet in the 3rd week of May.


This is why I'm not looking.....I'm playing reverse psychology with fate.wink laugh
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