I don't see where you did anything wrong, you acted just like any one of us would. The problem was his not yours. If this is the way he is going to be this soon, then he did you a favor, because he sounds like he pretty selfish to me. And you are much to good to date something like that. Not to worry, there are men out there who respect women and there wishes, and you will meet one. there are really more of them then we think.
I personally think that the internet has opened up our backyards. Now we can communicate all over the world. And there is no law or rule of life that says your soulmate, the other half that completes who you are has to live next door to you. If you meet someone from another town, state or country. and you have feelings then go with those feelings. I don't belive there should be a limit on what a person should do for love, if they want it. relationships are a give and take thing, if your not willing to to go and take the chance, then your not really in love, or willing to go out of your way for love.
I am not a man, and the question was put to men. But There is a very special man who I have been talking to, and he plans on visiting me soon. And to me that shows he is willing to put an effort into a relationship. And after he visits, if he still wants me, I am more then willing to put my efforts in as well. As he wont be able to move here to the states becuase he has kids, that I would never ask him to even think of leaving behind. I not only would go to visit him, but to move there and start a new life with him. And I hope he reads this. I hope he realizes what he means to me.
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The only failure is not trying, most goals are set to improve your self and or your life. to try and do that you can not fail. the smallest improvment is better then nothing at all.
If I could have gone back in time to change something, It could only be I would never have married the man I did. Would that have changed what I am doing now? Sure would! it would have changed everything for the better.
I love no. 10. A senior Senator called and had a question about the documents he needed in order to fly to China After a lengthy discussion about passports, I reminded him that he needed a visa. "Oh, no I don't. I've been to China many times and never had to have one of those." I double checked and sure enough, his stay required a visa. When I told him this he said, "Look, I've been to China four times and every time they have accepted my American Express!"
All I can say is OMG! It sounds like there so stupid they dont even know there stupid. This can't be true????? What could they have spent there parents money on? Sure wan't education.
Just want to tell you good luck, and I will be thinking about you tomorrow. I am sure every thing will turn out just fine, and you will be back here on CS in no time at all. And the surgery will make you feel better.
It has been a few years now since I lost both my parents. I was born on my moms, birthday. We shared the day every year she was a live. But When she died my birthday turned into days of hell. But I had a talk to my mom, at her grave. and in my mind I heard her voice telling me not to hate my birthday but to celibrate it. That she is there with me in spirit, and she is celibrating too. I heard her tell me she is always with me. Now I bake a birthday cake every year. with her name written on it as well as mine.
Remeber your dad, and try to think of him standing right beside you, laughing smiling and celibrating with you. he is not gone, you just can't see him, but he is there. So dont bring him down or make him feel bad that his time came. include him in. laugh with him, you both will feel so much better.
Love is an idescrible feeling. that makes a person become less selfish, but yet even more selfish. When you love someone there is not much you would not give or do for that person you love. But you also want more from that same person. Love is the emotion, that makes us human. Love, is an emotion that drives us crazy, yet we all want it, in one way or another. Love is powerful, It can build bridges, it can form bonds that can't be broke. it can also cause a lot of emotional destruction. Love can be the most beautiful thing you have ever experienced, and it can be the the most painful. When you really love someone, you try to move the heavens and earth to be with that person.
Love is also that feeling or emotion you have that makes you want to see the other happy, and you do what ever you can so they are. Love is Trust, Love is faith, Love is hope, love is sharing. Love is also spiteful, jelous, and cruel.
I am not sure of all the facts, but maybe just maybe he does like you, and maybe because he is an intructor, he isnt to shure about having a relationship with you in the open.
I don't have one anymore! My mom pastaway, and I had gotten her diamond ring. the Value was more then I care to think about. It was 3 one Kt diamonds perfect in every way, it was beautiful. had it apraised for ins. and it was worth over 18.000.00. but it was stolen, just before I left my ex. So I guess he got that too! Other then that anything I have can be replaced and is not that important. The ring was the only thing with sentimental value, as well as real value.
OK everyone I have got to go to bed I have to get up for work in the morning, and work a double. You all have a great night! Shy if you want them, batteries are in the top left drawer in the kitchen help your self! Night Everyone It's been fun !
Gets CountryGirl79 a drink. Des, you owe her like 10 drinks for being a slacker.
And Alex, yes but what they don't know won't hurt them. Shhhhh or I'll tell our little secret about last Saturday night. SHHHHH! how about those yankees?
Well DaisyChick said this (the bar) classifies as a date. So I have a date everytime the bar opens.
Hey I'm trying. LOL your so cute! yes your always trying! and we will give you one more thing to think about. If the bar counts as a date does it mean you have a date with every women that come in?
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RE: So I went to meet this guy......
I don't see where you did anything wrong, you acted just like any one of us would. The problem was his not yours. If this is the way he is going to be this soon, then he did you a favor, because he sounds like he pretty selfish to me. And you are much to good to date something like that. Not to worry, there are men out there who respect women and there wishes, and you will meet one. there are really more of them then we think.