RE: Authentic Self

Humanity does have great potential, and its potential covers an incredibly wide spectrum. We are capable of living in civilised harmony, but we are also capable of being the most brutal and cruel creatures on our planet. We might see that difference in terms of being good or bad, but it is neither, it is just what we are. There isn't a force of good, and a force of evil that compete with each other, they are just human concepts, and have no existence in nature.

When we look at history, and how humans have treated each other in the past, it is tempting to think that we are somehow different now, that we have evolved beyond the savagery we were once capable of. But it is only our social behaviour that has evolved, whereas we are still the same animals that hacked and clubbed their rivals to death without a second thought, and burnt people at the steak, merely for thinking differently to the authority in power at the time. It is by being aware of what we really are, and being aware of what a fragile barrier our civilisation is against our reverting back, that we can best safeguard ourselves for the future. Thinking we can channel the "positive" vibrations and energies in the universe to look after us isn't going to cut the mustard.

I even had to laugh at myself for using the phrase, "cut the mustard". smile

RE: Define attractive -

Yes, I've always found that to be my main stumbling block. sigh

RE: Killing Eve

I watched it on the BBC iplayer, which I wasn't supposed to do; I don't have a TV licence. But I couldn't help it. sigh

RE: Killing Eve

Yes, I have. It kind of disorients you the first time you hear it, doesn't it? It's like the mismatch just can't be real.

RE: Authentic Self

Thanks, bod. I thought it might have something to do with the things you fear, but even my idea of what that might mean was pretty vague. Perhaps it's anything that troubles you significantly. I just wondered if something more specific was meant when people use the term.

RE: Killing Eve

I saw the first two series, and fell head over heels for her. I got bored with the programme, but definitely not with her. And yes, I am ashamed of myself, at my age. sigh

RE: Authentic Self

Just out of interest, BB, what do you understand people to mean when they talk about "their demons"? You don't have to be guarded; I'm not asking so I can argue about it with you. smile

What would be an example of such a demon? This is pure curiosity, nothing more.

RE: Authentic Self

Well it certainly doesn't belong in religion, in fact, it's its worst enemy. That's probably why I have a higher opinion of it than you do. In the end, I suppose we resort to what seems to work best for us, and folks vary widely in that respect. thumbs up

RE: Authentic Self

Well I do have to admit, you certainly do come across as someone who thinks he knows what he is talking about. smile

RE: Authentic Self

I agree, bod, "basic" is the word that usually comes to mind when I see ego mentioned.

RE: Authentic Self

And I would venture to say that you are the chief bandier around here, BB. smile

RE: Authentic Self

This word "ego" is being bandied about as if we know what the thing is. It seems to me that it is an oversimplistic name for various elements of human psychology that, some of which, we don't actually know anything about.

RE: Nazanin Zaghari-Ratcliffe released from Iran.

I wonder what sort of mental condition she is in. sigh

RE: Specialty Dishes (of food) ... Crunchy Squid heads anyone?

Well there you are, galrads, if you were thinking of trying squid, don't. scold

It would be morally wrong to eat something that is more intelligent than you are.

RE: I think I am going to create a fake profile and fight with my self in the forums!

Why not stick with your existing profile. and just try to be interesting. Everything else would just fall into place. dunno

RE: Do any of the women of CS like to dress up and look good as this in a dress?

It's a programme that holds your fascination, while at the same time appalling you with its sheer bad taste. When it comes to entertainment, they really are scraping the bottom of the barrel.

RE: Authentic Self

Okay, but I'm considerably less confident than you about having mastery over the internal and subconscious workings of my psyche. uh oh

RE: Authentic Self

But whatever you do, how can you be sure you are not doing it to satisfy your ego? You have to get up very early to be one step ahead of your ego.

RE: Authentic Self

Think of me as an agent of the Universe, sent to test your love. heart wings

RE: Authentic Self

And you think that doing something because it feels awesome is not a selfish act?

RE: Authentic Self

Certainly it does, but only in conjunction with a genuine conviction that honesty is your holy grail. And it is also important to make surprise spot checks on yourself, to make sure you are not giving in to the temptation of bending the truth to make living with yourself more comfortable. scold

It's a hard road, but the only one that leads to true enlightenment. lightbulb

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RE: Authentic Self

Well, BB_snickers, you don't seem to have much to say on your chosen subject. dunno

RE: Authentic Self

But you can never be completely sure that you are being honest, even with yourself.

RE: Authentic Self

Honesty is a better way to look at it, I think. Primarily, being honest with yourself.

RE: Authentic Self

Well, I wish them well, but I don't really want to spend any time time with them.

RE: Authentic Self

No, my comment was nothing to do with being agape. I became impatient and moved on before you had responded to my agape response. smile

RE: Authentic Self

Well I couldn't be my authentic self if it depended on my loving all mankind. scold

I'm afraid I would fall miserably short on that requirement, as well. sigh

You see, there is the John Lennon type, who love humanity, yet seem to despise the individual, and there is my type, who likes, or even loves, some individuals, but doesn't give a hoot about mankind,

RE: Authentic Self

I suppose if it is in your nature to behave in such a way as to conceal your true feelings, then concealing them is being your authentic self. dunno

RE: Authentic Self

I don't know what "agape love" is, so I couldn't say.

RE: Authentic Self

What I mean is that only unselfconscious people can conduct themselves without being influenced by thoughts of how others are perceiving them.

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