I'm new to the site, This morning I was trying to use the IM service just to have some chat and shake off the boring morning, I made a search for females who were online and tried to start a chat with at least 30 of them, the results? 24 have the IM set off (don't wanna chat with anyone) and 6 set their IM to receive messages only from people from their area, I wonder then what's the point of this? why joining a site called "Connecting Singles" if most of them don't want a connection at all or want to talk only to people around their own place? If I were one of them I wouldn't even bother to post my profile here, I'd rather go to the cafe in the corner and start a talk to someone in the next table (which I did).
What's the point of IM
Block'emWho doesn't?