I never said there's anything wrong with her profile, actually i believe it's perfect and detailed, what i meant was that she shouldn't point out every single detail during the first date, that's the way it is and it works either way (you may like a new guy so much you melt for him but if his first words to you are "come to my place i wanna rock your world", I'm sure the magic would disappear, or not?).
All I'm suggesting her is don't seat in front of the guy on the first date and lecture him what she likes and what she doesn't, and a detailed list o her expectations, we are natural born researchers, we enjoy so much trying to unveil mysteries and discover things.
I totally agree with Iuchi, we should have the universal right to believe or deny anything we feel is worth or not, we have people who deny God, people who deny human landed on the moon and so forth, I'm particularly convinced that when there's a law trying to force us to "believe" something it's because such "fact" is not true.
When I read your thread title the first thing that came to mind was exactly what you wrote above... I'd ad covering her with petals and light some scented candles right before waking her up.
who would ever want breakfast anyway? I'd stay there till lunch time
well!, next time try not to open the whole book from the beginning, you can still be honest but at some questions you could suggest'em you'll let them try to figure out the answer, believe me, they'll come back or more
Another question, do you during those first dates assumed the same attitude you expressed in your "I'm looking for" from your profile? if so, i would run away too, we in general prefer to start things smooth and easy, leave something to wonder about, it's ok to make it clear what your expectations are but not upfront (let us try to guess a lil).
Can you give more details? how many times did it happen this year and so on.. Maybe you're not doing everything wrong, maybe you're just picking the wrong guys....
I believe that when we talk about human beings is not right to use the name RACE, there's only one race in humankind, we have different ethnicities but a human is a human regardless of the external features, (A chimp is a different ape race from a gorilla, but a white gorilla is the same race of a black gorilla).
I don't mind having a relationship ith a woman from a different ethnicity or a different nationality, in fact I have special attraction for color women, as for nationalities.... nationality is just a boundary created to separate us I don't see anything wrong if live breaks a few boundaries including nationality. Kattsrose points out the issue about culture, this I guess is the only one that may make it a little bit harder, diffent cultures have in general different values that not all the time match and could bring problems between the couple.
I'd say Adam is some kind of an icon, actually we were created by a higher being.
Take the DNA for example, DNA is a code, by reading the DNA you can tell specific information about the owner of such DNA, Codes never happen by accident or randomly, a code must have been created, is different from, let's say a storm, a storm is pattern and happens randomly.
There are a lot of good arab comedians on youtube, I guess some of them are muslims, and they make great jokes about being a muslim and about the media bias of muslims being terrorists, but what you won't find is getting God in their jokes.
I guess 1600 years of tradition is hard to be changed.
You're so right about laughing about ourselves, I heard a comedian from my country saying that the difference between smart humor and stupid humor is that the smart one is the ability to make fun out of our own mistakes and flaws cuz if we can see the funny side then we can also find a way out, but the stupid humor is just making fun of others and their differences while hiding their personal missery.
What's wrng about the "joke" is that is based on ignorance, Allah is the same as God, the word Allah comes from the Hebrew "Elohim" or Eloha, nowadays arabic speaking people use the word Allah to refer to God, Christians in the Middle east use ALLAH in their prayers.
at the end, the person who came up with the joke just shows how little he/she knows when they start with the false believe that Allah is a different person from God.
cherrygc Forum Posts (487)
RE: profile information
Don't mention it, she won't notice unless you stop chewing your taco