Opening your heart ( Archived) (51)

Mar 15, 2010 12:35 PM CST Opening your heart
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Do you do it right away? Do you wait? Does it just happen naturally?

Feel free to discuss the pros/cons here.

I need to go workout at the gym, so I'll be back to discuss if a discussion takes place.

/I heart'd youkiss
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Mar 15, 2010 12:41 PM CST Opening your heart
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Like you see on the poker games on TV and in the movies; I go all in when I am dating. I do not close my heart. Of course, it means it gets hurt. I refuse to play this dating game by being careful. If you don't play everything and risk everything I believe you can't win big!
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Mar 15, 2010 12:41 PM CST Opening your heart
marinka
marinkamarinkahelsinki, Southern Finland Finland2 Threads 14 Posts
Its not best idea but sometimes happens spontanius
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Mar 15, 2010 12:48 PM CST Opening your heart
onemoretry63
onemoretry63onemoretry63Rieden, Bavaria Germany10 Threads 591 Posts
can only say with a right one it goes naturally right away..nothing I can do about it
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Mar 15, 2010 12:51 PM CST Opening your heart
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
I have to ask, T... do you mean opening your heart to possibilities or giving your heart to someone? confused
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Mar 15, 2010 1:00 PM CST Opening your heart
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
I knew my late husband 3 months when we married. I was 17 and as they said at that time in my life, I was gaga over that guy. My heart just did flip flops everytime he walked in the cafe. I was not sure what was going on with all these new feelings but when he proposed I knew I wanted to be with him. Together forever lasted 36 years.

Because of the last relationship I was in, very short 2 years, I tell myself I will be a wee bit more cautious, IF and WHEN it happens again. In all honesty I believe in my case anyway, my heart starts speaking before my brain kicks in. smitten I have no idea how I will react but I do know my heart and mind will be in agreement and I will believe it will be my final relationship in my journey.teddybear
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Mar 15, 2010 1:00 PM CST Opening your heart
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
I dont know and that is the God's honest truth....

The only real love is the love I have as a Mother for my three children and the only other real love I ever experienced was the love between my Father and I....

There are several levels and types of love but unconditional love is the best of them all....heart beating
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Mar 15, 2010 1:10 PM CST Opening your heart
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
Big_John: Like you see on the poker games on TV and in the movies; I go all in when I am dating. I do not close my heart. Of course, it means it gets hurt. I refuse to play this dating game by being careful. If you don't play everything and risk everything I believe you can't win big!

I have to agree with Big_John (hey,it happens occasionally).
You cant accomplish Wonders by holding back.
cool
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Mar 15, 2010 1:17 PM CST Opening your heart
todger
todgertodgerSveti Vlas Bourgas Region, Burgas Bulgaria14 Threads 2,054 Posts
marinka: Its not best idea but sometimes happens spontanius


I agree it is best to make sure.... before one open ones mouth or heart conversing
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Mar 15, 2010 1:19 PM CST Opening your heart
ReikiAngel
ReikiAngelReikiAngelIbri, Az Zahirah Oman4 Threads 1 Polls 159 Posts
Big_John: Like you see on the poker games on TV and in the movies; I go all in when I am dating. I do not close my heart. Of course, it means it gets hurt. I refuse to play this dating game by being careful. If you don't play everything and risk everything I believe you can't win big!



I totally agree with you. I am an "all or nothing" kind of woman. As you say, sometimes it can hurt. But no sense in doing this if you don't give it your all. yay yay yay
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Mar 15, 2010 1:31 PM CST Opening your heart
annboleyn
annboleynannboleyngranada, Andalusia Spain4 Threads 123 Posts
ReikiAngel: I totally agree with you. I am an "all or nothing" kind of woman. As you say, sometimes it can hurt. But no sense in doing this if you don't give it your all.


agree 100%handshake
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Mar 15, 2010 2:24 PM CST Opening your heart
marinka
marinkamarinkahelsinki, Southern Finland Finland2 Threads 14 Posts
If you don't play with someones heart they wont open their mouth conversing
todger: I agree it is best to make sure.... before one open ones mouth or heart
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Mar 15, 2010 3:55 PM CST Opening your heart
todger
todgertodgerSveti Vlas Bourgas Region, Burgas Bulgaria14 Threads 2,054 Posts
Yep one sure should be Very careful whom one gives their heart to and I am the lucky one trust me grin have a nice life cheers

Just dont understand some-one wanting to hurt a persons heart they dont even know thats a scorned woman in my eyes dunno
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Mar 15, 2010 4:21 PM CST Opening your heart
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
Big_John: Like you see on the poker games on TV and in the movies; I go all in when I am dating. I do not close my heart. Of course, it means it gets hurt. I refuse to play this dating game by being careful. If you don't play everything and risk everything I believe you can't win big!


wave John,

thats a nice way to be.....go in all guns ablaze and usually go out the same way

blues

More careful these days though uh oh
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Mar 15, 2010 4:22 PM CST Opening your heart
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
Lol..I know Kid! It's too late it's out there and I can't take it back lolhelp
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Mar 15, 2010 4:25 PM CST Opening your heart
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
nanners2863: Lol..I know Kid! It's too late it's out there and I can't take it back lol



S'ok, I won't hold it against you.grin
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Mar 15, 2010 4:27 PM CST Opening your heart
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
nanners2863: Lol..I know Kid! It's too late it's out there and I can't take it back lol


hiwave Nanners,

You wild animalisitc women you......grrrrr laugh

Its actually really nice when you find that kind of attraction....sigh

bouquet
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Mar 15, 2010 4:28 PM CST Opening your heart
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
kidatheart: S'ok, I won't hold it against you.
Lol..I can't stop laughing..hopefully noone will see it and we'll never have to talk of it again!!!doh
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Mar 15, 2010 4:29 PM CST Opening your heart
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
sweetlyscented1: hi Nanners,

You wild animalisitc women you......grrrrr

Its actually really nice when you find that kind of attraction....
Hey SWeetly!! How was the packing!! I'm such a blonde lol! But I do like that animal attraction!!
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Mar 15, 2010 4:30 PM CST Opening your heart
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
nanners2863: Lol..I can't stop laughing..hopefully noone will see it and we'll never have to talk of it again!!!



Too late, it's already permanently etched into the deep recesses of my mind.laugh


flirty
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