I dyed my hair blond for 10 years before going back to original color...My experience is I had not more fun but different attention and at that age I did not mind it....Then I went brown again and got different treatment...I was going to dye it for fun again to blond and I asked some of my friends what they thought???They said go ahead if you want that kind of reputation,I said whats that...They said easy,and good in bed...I think thats a bad stereo type because even as a blond I was not easy...But decided to stay natural color...;-)I dont care what color of hair a man has...
Well,this all true...If i were really in love with him and sure of it I probably would have..I mean we are still friends and I see him every visit to germany,but I did not think in my soul he was that guy...And for me to give up a business ,move my kids from their daddy and into another country and bilingual schools which he would have had to pay for as well..That was a hard choice if I was not even sure if I loved him...I mean if you have to ask yourself if you love someone ,chances are you dont...Thats not a question it is a feeling you just know...
For me there is so much I would have to think on,which would or would not influence me..And sure think about it alot...But giving up my business and taking my kids and leaving everything to live in another country is very scary to me....I would be totaly dependant on them at least for a while...Case and point I was just dating a guy in germany after my last break up..He told me he wanted me and kids to move there..I said nope..He said he would have bought me a car and I could have my own bank account so i would not have to ask him for anything...I said the concept was the same I can not be that dependant on a man ,I would need my own job this is what I am used too...Weather he put money in my own account or not I would have still been dependant on him...And also he had some strange takes on how to raise kids..I declined gracefully...;-))
The problem i hear most from my dates is that they are scared my children wont except them...I say they are young they can adjust but you wont even meet my kids unless I fall in love with you..;-))And its easy to keep it that way since I haven't dated a man in the usa for 3 years...Not to say i would not,but after divorce I met a guy in frankfurt germany where we were together long distance for 1 and a half years...My kids did meet him,and really liked him,but for other reasons we broke up later...And i am really shocked on here the men that do not read profiles and do not know I have children or they have children and do not mention them...;-))
LOL,Hello eagle,well it depends in some areas yes I am,in the important ones I am fair...But like cute said women with kids do alot of work...My ex said I never listened to him,I always did what I wanted..This was true I supose but,when I asked for a dish washer and he said I have one...;-))The next day i took his credit card and bought not only a dish washer ,but a refridger,and brand new stove...I knew he was joking but at this point I was tired of just being a house wife...So I can be selfish....
I can not sing,lol...My ex told me once ,Honey I knnow your singing and you know your singing ,but the people next door may think I am abusing you...;-))
Wow cute,I never expected these sad things...I expected alot to say about cheating and such,but your best friend....My god I am sorry ,this is to say that these bad things happen to good people is an understatement...
OMG,I am so sorry to hear that..Must have been really frightning..I am glad you got out of the situation..I was in one abusive relationship,he hit me once,I left in that second and never looked back..Often times i have hated in selfdefense,If i were stronger I thought I would not have used such a weapon..But I hated him in that instant,not any more though..;-)
Tumpa ,I am sorry I cant write you back today:-(I went to after three emails and it said no more...;((Will write tomorrow and sure I meant to send you the song and the band so you could get it..;-))Will send you my email>>
Hello Steve,I just would not answer them,because if they read then they dont respect you,and if they did not read then they dont respect you..So I would just delete them...;-)
I agree,When i was younger some of my girl friends would say why are you with him?You can get better looking,lol..I said he is good looking to me because i got to know him and he makes me laugh..;-))I am not attracted persay to any type but I look at people and before I know them ,might be attracted to the tubby type guy..;-))The one with the teddybear look...
Yes it is lol,but I was just suprised how many men did not know of this medical procedure..;-))In europe..;-))But this list is funny and my male friends are like that pretty much with their girlfriends lol...
LOL,well it is a joke of alot of men to always protect their gems when women or kids are close...I asked some friends why they are always holding their hands their or touching themselves right out in the open...And they say they are to be always protected ,lol..You know in germany I have 8 male friends and they all said to me they did not know what circumsision is and as I have explained to them they all grabbed their stuff and screamed for the love of god NO,you americans are crazy,lol...I told them my son was and explained the procedure ,,lol...
No,I am sorry for misunderstanding..;-))I was just saying what some friend told me in a conversation ,not meant directly to any post..I agreed with what you said..That was just something funny I was told..Sorry...;-))
Yes you are very right ,and some times we want to give up on the fight for the better world..But i dont give up on that..I fight with myself almost every day to rise above the rudness and the diffuculties some people bestow apon me,I make peace every day with people and accept them,and teach my kids to do the same..Thank you for your advise..;-)
My intrest is in the future,because this is where I will spend the rest of my life..And years from now it will not matter what kind of car i drove,what my bank account was,what sort of house i lived in,but the world maybe different because I was important in the lives of my children..
It depends where they are from,it is a nicer way to get to know someone..If they live close I never give out my info,but if they are from out of country and seem ok its always nice to hear accents,so I give my number,the chances of them finding me and caring enough to fly here and kill me are not that high and if you give cell phone it is not easily traced over seas..
Hello,I really think it is always nice to have all sides ..I think most of my guy friends told me they like a girl that is nice and can take a joke,but my past boyfriend said he really liked my sense of humor if things were just getting a little to serious,but he said he always was trying to make me really mad because he wanted to see me once this way,all he heard was my stories of me upset,lol..Well he made me mad once and it never happened again..lol..So in my opinion guys like a bit of spice in relationships..
Well,just trust yourself you know more then you think you do...And just skip the women that may do this...Everyone falls in love someday and then they know what they were waiting for..;-))I will give you advice..Dont get married,just find a girl you dont like and give her a house!!LOL...I am kidding...But it is cheaper then being married and divorced..;-))
Agreed,my friends situation is that he has his work and she has hers..But she has kids she would be uprooting and he does not...And he has the better job so diffucult situation I supose...I wish them the best though they are really a great couple..;-))
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RE: Blondes
I dyed my hair blond for 10 years before going back to original color...My experience is I had not more fun but different attention and at that age I did not mind it....Then I went brown again and got different treatment...I was going to dye it for fun again to blond and I asked some of my friends what they thought???They said go ahead if you want that kind of reputation,I said whats that...They said easy,and good in bed...I think thats a bad stereo type because even as a blond I was not easy...But decided to stay natural color...;-)I dont care what color of hair a man has...