the only way i can run into my ex-is through little triggers of memory,from places or circumstances,through my brother in-laws mannerisms,or a particular child in the family who reminds me of him.going into the church where i married,baptised our children and eventually laid him to rest..and i feel sad,i wish for what could have been,and i feel comforted too.
i think eye contact is a good start. men over here often send a round of drinks over-and never make contact-i cant understand this! after the eye contact,a simple approach and my name is...how are you?would be a start.
i dropped my kids over with my in laws and came home and slept for 4 hours-our easter holidays and endless fun days out have completely exhausted me!looking forward to some R&R now,and a fun night out with the girls tomorrow
hey lakelander i am really pleased for you and wish you all the best in your budding new relationship.that's a good motto and mine too good luck to you xxx
my i.m. is on all the time,but only for locals,i find it much easier to talk via i.m. than email-but i am pretty cut throat when it comes to choosing who i will talk to. so-its mostly pretty quiet lol!
A man who sacrifices his wants/need/desires in order to follow a strict moral code. for me relationship wise-a man can be bad in many ways,but he must discreetly make efforts to comfort those in need.And go to some length to protect my feelings.
i know the reasons but i dont totaly understand why people divorce,my biggest regret is that i will never have one of those really longstanding marriages,that spans several decades,that has ironed out all the issues,and a strength only shared history can give.
yeh gosh they used to actually appear in person??!this feels a bit like an old science fiction film in which they stumble across an old space ships records-only to discover the whole crew got eaten..
RE: are you going to travel to meet someone you met here in cs?
i am sure old foxy's a lamb and you will be fine..but should he need protection just give us a shout!good luck guys