tomboygirl Forum Posts (1,555)

RE: Hi you all...............

Think I'm slightly obsessed anyway,(after weekend date nightmare)I had a pot of the strawberry cheesecake one on Monday and...omg it was sooooo gooood!!!!

RE: men are sold ...

me too

RE: does being too independant cause relationship problems?

I can see why your friend made you question yourself,whenever I experience conversations in which someone suggests I am at fault for my current life alone,I analyse and agonise for a while too.

You obviously want to do everything right by your daughter,and leave the way clear to bring a new partner into your life,or you wouldn't worry so much.
but..the way I see it,you have no choice but to become as strong and independent as you can,in order to flourish and help your daughter flourish given your current circumstances-so its not like you have any other healthy option.

As to the issue;I find more men find me initially attractive as an independent,strong persona.Confidence is attractive,and independent people often appear more confident.
Most men need some signs of emotional dependence to feel secure once in a relationship,but too much is a burden on a man,and weakening for a women-there's a ballance in everything.Once IN a relationship,a meeting in the middle,a willing to sacrifice some things,compromise and finding a way to gel,is necessary.
But while you are single,guts,strength,independence,organisation,and some fierce multi tasking,are what you need!lol

RE: Amity's Birthday today.

Happy birthday luv.xxx

RE: lets help eachother, love uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu my all

Evil smoky

RE: You like to see more private of me... just let me know hmmmmmm x

At least it didn't include pic of naked private parts proudly displayed as main profile photo I've had 2 like that lately!!!

RE: kid

ooh yeh that sounds good..and I'd be ok with bunny's,just boil em up in a pan of water..

btw anyone got one?we've run out in this area...

RE: kid

ooh yeh that sounds good..and I'd be ok with bunny's,just boil em up in a pan of water..

btw anyone got one?we've run out in this area...

RE: WHATS YOUR CANDY?.(PREFERENCE)..AND WHY..HAHAHAHA

oops troubles back!

I like younger guys..I cannot tell a lie

RE: DID YOU EVER FEEL LIKE ESCAPING FROM A BORING DATE ?

yep!

but i sat it out..

RE: kid

Naaa..I don't mind if a guy get's drunk OCCAISIONALY,but I dont want to date someone who is drinking every time I see him excessively.There's a time for drinking,and a time for sober hanging out..A beer or glass of wine in the evening is one thing,but if a guy is getting sozzeled more than twice a month-I'd see that as self abusive..

RE: would you go out with me?

Naaa by the looks of you,you're one of those,I love me types..

RE: kid

gawd I was worse on Friday night-got sloshed on a first date-at 3am facebooked 6 people utter rubbish and then put on my profile-I is drunk facebooking and meant every word..honest..

Then came on here and put some tut tut of course not comment on the "would you date a drunk" thread-lmao @ myself!

RE: kid

I know the feeling well lmao!

RE: kid

gawd charlie,mariola wasn't being sarkie she was being nice!what are you like!

but you're right the other one is most probably a nutter...

RE: kid

haha charlie and Jahjah sitting in the tree..

RE: Not so long................

NO I finished dating one recently for that very reason-and he was lovely without the booze,very funny,very sweet,and very attentive-but...its not much fun hanging around with someone who can't remember conversations,and when in his cups is scarily out of control..

come on josie,you can do better..

RE: miss u all, dont be absent, love love love

RE: Cell Attatchment

I love the fact I can put my phone on silent and know who's call I missed-great for outings,naps and early nights.Knowing the kids achool can ring me and I'm 5 mins away incase of illness,or changes in after school clubs is very convenient.

yep I'd be lost without it!

RE: cry and tear

I hardly ever cry-I'd rather go out with a mate and have a beer or 5 and a giggle-puts things in perspective,and me in a good mood.

RE: Are they single or married ?

nope-not till they are divorced.Too complicated..

OK I'm gonna go mail some random local guy's!

Thanks Mazza

OK I'm gonna go mail some random local guy's!

lol,stickler for details?The point is,when the gap between emails is so long,it takes too long to get to know the other person,enough to meet...and he is already sending the signal-don't expect/rely on my attention,I'm busy elsewhere.

In the Cypriot culture of wannabe players/casual relations this is not a good sign.

OK I'm gonna go mail some random local guy's!

yeh every 2 minutes would be stalker-ville,even 2-3 times a day would be annoying if it was the eternally boring hi,hope your having a nice day/sweet dreams,type mail.

But when you like someone,and the mail is deep and interesting 3+ days is either a)games b)he's too busy for a relationship or c)just not that into you..

OK I'm gonna go mail some random local guy's!

4 days...

OK I'm gonna go mail some random local guy's!

Yeh kinda charlie,but getting an email only every 3 days,so think he's not that interested

RE: Vegetarianism-yes or no?

lol smoky I wouldn't but the kids might whinge you to insanity-they were born with a permanent hunger....I was eating fruit/smoothies for breakfast,and salad with the kids everyday after school,we ate heavier meals with lots of veg for dinner..but now its the hol's-beach/pool timeIts a meal or two from my over prepared freezer,and fruit for snacks..

RE: Your ex

If your worried,call her close friends or family member's or police.If you get involved personally,she will think its a sign you care and hope you will get back together/continue the same behaviour leading to more emotional stress for you.

RE: Your ex

I'd contact his parents/brothers/family and tell them.This absolves me from responsibility,and stops him emotionally blackmailing me.

When I was in my teens my older boyfriend,used to tighten his watch strap,saying he was gonna cut off his blood supply and kill himself..cos I was dumping him.I must admit I didn't have a lot of sympathy(what a ... )

RE: Vegetarianism-yes or no?

cos fish and chips requires no food prep(on my part)and everyone knows kids need undivided attention,and fish..



Actually,I cook ahead and freeze meals,so we don't eat much junkfood..just wish I could have a raw food chef move in..