No, he will still talk to me here, sends me flowers and if I contact through here, he will respond. He asked to go to regular email, which was easier for me also and just took it that way, but he is still here and will respond here.
I had another one who I was talking to also, and low and behold he announces that he is in Ghana buying gold bullion for company, and immediately tells me to leave singles, he does not want me talking to anyone else, and that he removed himself..so the ladies would not go after one another..lol...meaning blowing his scam I guess. He sent me a photo of him, then one of his son, and then I told him he needed to send me one of him and his son together, he was gone. lol. I knew he was.
Yes, I gave them my business email address, it is up to the public anyway all over the net, so what the heck.
I do not know what to think about this guy. The only red flag was that when I sent him an ecard geared towards snow and cold, because he says he is from Colorado, he then emailed me and said that he must have forget to tell me that he is on the road right now, in Nigeria on a big road construction project. Red flag. But then I searched and found that there really is a huge road construction project going on there. I guess I am getting hung up on the warn list signs. Widowed, one child, engineer, asking to email immediately, etc. It all fits, yet I have asked him for things just to put some added challenge on things and he comes through with it. Like sending more photos to me, but of course they can have more photos. It is just confusing. He is so sweet, so I hate to see if he is one, but probably is. lol
Thank you, it is appreciated. I did not want to make this long, but when I asked it before in the proper place, I just got slammed with I must be one since I keep asking so many questions about the subject. I was just trying to figure things out without being an all out bother I guess.
I have had a few scam artists jump me right off the bat, they have been easy to spot and I am no newbie to scammers, know the signs. But I have this guy who contacted me, and we have been talking for a week. I have been having conversations with a few different people, but I really like this guy. I have had a couple red flags already that he may be playing a con, but all of them can be explained also, so it confusing. Lets just say that if he is a con, he is top of his game that is for sure. I read last night that one of the signs here is if they contact you but they are not on your profile view list. I then checked, and he is not. My question immediately was, being new here and not knowing how things work, can you contact someone without viewing their profile, don't you have to go to someones profile in order to message them? I am just trying to sort all of this out with this guy because I am really liking him.
I am a week old here and need some advise, can I ask a question here and get some straight up answers? If some one here is willing to give me some advise, let me know and I will then ask my question. Sorry for the somewhat attitude, but I have asked it once in what I thought was the appropriate place, and I guess there are some old timers on here that would rather make rude comments rather then just help out...so looking for you nice people that I know are here and willing to help a newbie. Thanks.
Seriously though, if you have to choose or even get the chance to choose, pot. Drinking kills other people, pot doesn't. I would rather have someone coming at me on the highway high on pot the slooshed on booze, and you do not see too many people getting into bar fights because they are high, it is all love and peace and eating too much. Just for notation, I do neither
Holds true for the man as well though, and it is safer for him to come to her and he will if he really cares and if otherwise it probably is not worth it anyway then. Adventure is not worth turning up dead or missing, and it happens all the time; I know, I work with investigating missing persons.
Well, understandably, but the women do not concern me since I am not gay! lol, It was nothing defaming anyone or this site, I was just asking if that is really true. I guess the answer is yes, on both sides of the fence.
I personally have questioned why anyone would not have their photo displayed, unless they do not want their face recognized for some reason. I have already gotten the "just because I am ugly" excuse, but that one is kind of hard to buy into. Not making any accusations mind you, I am sure there could be dozens of other reasons, just curious and asking of the ones who do not display a photo why one would not want to do such...maybe I shouldn't be either.
Speaking of dallying with younger men, my insignificant other is a pretty boy who rearing to go. I will sell him to you, heck I will even pay you to take him. I thought about putting up a profile for him just to try to pawn him off.
It is true, but who can handle the immaturity level of them? Not I! Would choose a ninty year old over that pretty playboy stuff. Been there done that, it is very overrated!
That was actually intended for the hair being overrated for men by the way. I forgot to quote. Don't you women laugh too hard though, I have seen some bald women. Men carry it much better then we do.
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Your real name is not Norman Bates is it? 
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No, he will still talk to me here, sends me flowers and if I contact through here, he will respond. He asked to go to regular email, which was easier for me also and just took it that way, but he is still here and will respond here.