pesh121 Forum Posts (435)

a woman going to a decent bar/restaurant alone

you have given me more reason to go alone now..and all i need is to act on it..will let you all know when i did it..cant wait though..

will you get back with an exgf/bf just for your kids?

Will you ever get back together with an exgf/bf for the sake of your kids? lets say you were not married just a couple who got kids and been on/off before, and finally you decided you want to get back with your ex for the sake of your kids but you totally and honestly claim you are no longer inlove to the mother/father of your children because you said she's bi.tch..or he's an..a**hole and you will never get along ever and just doing it for the sake of your kids?

RE: Do you remain friends?

I think i cant unless i am totally over him..so i can truly say iam here for him as a "friend"...because sometimes when you still have some feelings for the person and still wanted to see and know how he have been we usually say "lets be friends" though inside you are hoping maybe one day you can be together again. i dont know with others but this is just me

a woman going to a decent bar/restaurant alone

I can go to a restaurant alone and even watch a movie alone, i also travel alone but i never tried going to a bar/restaurant alone. Though based on all your post maybe i should start to have that courage to go alone in a bar and not think of what people would think of me.besides i have no choice..most of my friends are married with kids and its hard to ask them out when i feel like it, they have different priorities now and i totally understand it.

OZ men

i guess thats the way it should be..be direct from the start

OZ men

you know when you see someone checking you out in a bar..they dont wear a shirt that says "iam australian"

OZ men

thanks for your post, i didnt blame my exbf for whatever he should done.I only blame myself for believing in him when we were dating, he said lots of stuff about our future and i was so in love to believe all those things. As i said i dated a few aussies and they made a pattern for me. they started so into you and tell things to you then after that once you believe it they changed their mind and suddenly realized theyre not into me.so what i am saying, maybe it is better to just date and dont say anything about the future.i didnt even asked about the future in the first place.i dont know if you get what i mean.i guess my mistake was for being specific here about aussie men..just that i have been dating aussie men lately..which i was not intended to do..cos when you meet a guy in a bar they dont say.."iam from australia" btw, iam not in australia iam working in asia and met a few white caucasian in a bar with my friends ..just that it happened they are aussies.but dont get me wrong i think deep inside i like aussies coz why i keep on choosing them.if only i could delete my initial post i will.

OZ men

OZ men

Dont worry i never give up on australian men, I still believe there are some good men left out there.to be honest, i like australian men..you're culture is not so different from us..I dated a few havent I..just that i need to be more cautious this time.thanks for the post.

OZ men

thanks kizzy, unfortunately i read the book He's just not that into you" after i had this relationship..anyway..i learned from my mistake..hopefully it was the last i made a fool of myself.

RE: How to get by the day in a long distance relationship

it goes to show that love in a long distance relationship or any relationship is not complicated, only those people who makes it complicated.if two people are willing to work it out there is always a way.keep up the good work.its such an inspiration.

a woman going to a decent bar/restaurant alone

what do you think if a woman goes to a bar/restaurant alone?do you think its acceptable as a man goes alone for a drink?or to all women out there, do you think you go to a bar alone?

single men with baggage

thanks for your reply..i guess i was fooled by this info from my previous relationship,as mentioned before these are just excuses that i was so foolish to believe it and really have to move on now, its a new year and a new life.
now i dont know how to delete this thread..its so embarassing to even post it..

single men with baggage

Is it true that OZ women donot want to date a man who got kid/s? but men on the other hand dont care if the woman has?

OZ men

I dated OZ men and been in love to one until now but he dumped me telling me that he changed his mind and dont want to have kids anymore because he have kids of his own and cant give me what i want (which is marriage and family).i know its just excuses but why start a relationship if you cant keep it?is it always like this for oz men?