My bf dumped me last Christmas, It was a relationship that started like a fairytale,thinking he is the one but then he changed his mind and ended it.I know deep down i have to get over him. I told myself its a new year, a new life.Everyday I struggle to get him out of my heart and mind but at the end of the day, when i go to bed, I still cry, asking myself what went wrong?Why he just fall out love like that?That he even didnt try to work it out? I guess i dont really have a question here, just thinking why is it so hard to forget everything and just move on?How i wish that one day i will stop crying over it.I tried to be positive and tried my best to still believe in love but all the time i have been tested.
I agree actually i was checking other sites just now and it feels like CS are better than the others, people here are friendlier and more active, though i am not sure if i can find my soulmate here at least you can meet nice people to be your friend.
I did google myself using my log in name here. I dont know if its good or bad. But I am sure I feel uncomfortable about it.In facebook, you can also google your name but it only shows your profile pic and view your friends but not access all the info about you. I dont know whatelse to say.I am enjoying CS because of the forum but now it made me think if i should still stay?
At least its private on CS sites, if they make it like that, i think men are more comfortable when it comes to people or women looking at their profile.for me and i guess most women, we prefer it to be more private or at least fair to see who are the people looking at you.since as mentioned above you there is no privacy online.but at least private on each site you are a member in.
About the google..i will try that. thanks for all your post. i did send an email to CS but they didnt say anything about it.they only mentioned about the favorite list.because i also asked how to see who added me in their favorite list but they said i cant.there is one more thread about this topic...i was meaning to do that thread too.
I noticed that even you are not log in you can still view each members profile and not only the name but everything. would it be great if CS would not allow non members to view Our profile if they dont register first?that way it would be fair for us..since they can see us and we cant know who are viewing us..and to think they were viewing us without our consent because we wouldnt know who they are, and the essence of this site is to know more people and to see who are interested in your profile.I really hope the CS moderator will do something about.make it more secured for us members.
I agree with blondeozchick, why not commit if you are so into him.as you have said you made silly decisions then.can you still get him back now?maybe he is still in love with you?are you still in love with him or just miss the thought of being loved by him?
I feel frustated when two people are so in love and can be together forever but they create complications in their relationship so as not to be together.i think two people who are in love should be together no matter what the situation is, the only way you should stop when the love is one way.
Women cannot read whats on men's mind..so i guess men should be more expressive and should manifest their love.we would not think of you less manly if you do that.just dont overdo it like in romeo and juliet.a simple boquet of roses wont hurt if you really want to surprise the woman you love and mind you, you dont have to wait for valentines day to have that excuse..any day would be just fine.
I think there are still good men and good women out there, it is just a matter of finding the right one for you to be able to keep the relationship forever.
I am curious too..my photo was rated a 10 by a guy from aussie and i think he is cute and kind to give me a 10, so i decided to dropped by and say hello to him..he didnt reply..then he rated my second photo a 10 again..so i emailed him again to say thank you..and as expected he didnt reply again..its so weird..i didnt expect for us to have a relationship i am just hoping to get a hello back since i emailed him twice..isnt it courteous to say your welcome when someone says thank you to you?anyway, it was weird.so what i am saying its not only the women who dont reply same as men.
I read this article and want to share it to all of you. The writer said that all dogs are male and all cats are female... how so?here is why.. Proof that all dogs are male: 1.Dogs,like men, are completely predictable. 2.They are supremely interested in your nether regions and pathetically unable to hide this fact. 3.they dont respond when you shout in their ear,but they can hear the sound of a packet containing something consumable being opened a kilometer away. 4.If you once let them hog your sofa,they will feel like they own it. 5.They eat anything.Their basic philosopy is put stuff in their mouths first, ask questions later. 6.They are intensely loyal but sometimes stray through sheer stupidity. 7.When they are not happy, they dont say anything, but sul and growl and knock things over. 8.They emit large amounts of gas from both ends. Proof that all cats are female: 1.They are completely unpredictable. 2.they expect to be worshipped all the time. 3.they look cute but are surprisingly tough-minded creatures who make all the decisions. 4.They leave bits of their hair all over the place. 5.You can call them, but you never know if they will actually turn up. 6.they completely ignore you when you come home. 7.They take the stance that you exist solely to ensure their happiness.
Hugz_n_Kissez: Too many people forget that being in love has more to do with giving than it does getting in return...I think it's possible to love different things about different people...but it's not possible to be in love with more than one person...being in love means giving all of you and being fully committed...which you can't do with more than one..and if you don't want or can't do that with either or any of them...than perhaps that means you aren't in love with any of them....
I totally agree..once you are inlove with someone there is no one else..only him..you dedicate everything and love him with all your heart. as what others mentioned above..love is a two way street.i guess you can only love a person as much if you know you are also being loved or else there will come a time that you get tired and exhausted...and cannot wait for that person to love you as much as you do..life is unfair ..but the idea of love is to love without expecting anything in return...but we're just human, we have needs.
advantage.. having to do whatever you like without thinking of what your partner will think.
disadvantage.. at the end of the day,its always nice to have someone to cuddle with or tell your stories with..or perhaps someone who cooked your dinner and no need to worry you have to prepare for yourself and someone who helped you with your laundry and cleaned the house...oops i think i need a housekeeper not a partner..
I guess in a way you have to thank your ex for letting you know what kind of friend you have..she is not a true friend after all.She have broken her promise to you and maybe she really likes your ex but at least be upfront and tell you first rather than finding it from your exbf.
Lets say you have a close friend or a friend you hang out with regularly, will you date his/her ex? Or, your friend asked you, Can i date your ex bf/gf?will you allow it?
it was nice to know that kissmedeeply..congratulations to you too and the rest of the members here who found love and hopefully for us who are left looking we may find our partner too someday..now you give me more reason to stick around on CS.
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getting over
My bf dumped me last Christmas, It was a relationship that started like a fairytale,thinking he is the one but then he changed his mind and ended it.I know deep down i have to get over him. I told myself its a new year, a new life.Everyday I struggle to get him out of my heart and mind but at the end of the day, when i go to bed, I still cry, asking myself what went wrong?Why he just fall out love like that?That he even didnt try to work it out?I guess i dont really have a question here, just thinking why is it so hard to forget everything and just move on?How i wish that one day i will stop crying over it.I tried to be positive and tried my best to still believe in love but all the time i have been tested.