I don´t think it´s so much having a BU Plan. That´s sounds so calculated. I think that normally you can tell fairly early on if each party wishes to develop anything. Trouble is if one or other loses interest further down the line then it´s difficult to extricate yourself without feelings getting hurt.
Once upon a time I would have said it wasn´t right, but now I have been enlightened and realise that this site in particular, is a meeting place..........like the pub. Lots of lovely characters around. Now...........ya don´t stop going to the pub just cos ya met the love of yer life, but you don´t go down there secretly either. All a question of trust!!!!
Of course.......I know quite a few people who have met and married after meeting on dating sites. Modern means of socialising, plus the added advantage of separating the wheat from the chaff pretty early on.
I´ll leave other people to decide that. Still fit and healthy!!!! My Mum died when she was 66, so I´m reckoning on cramming as much as I can into the next 3 years....just in case
but sometimes the big bad wolf comes along and does a bit of huffin and puffin........and if that doesn´t work, sometimes he tries to come down the chimney..........ya gotta be prepared to withstand all the onslaughts.........it´s so hard!!!!
There are different "ways" of loving. For family, for friends, for humanity, for YOUR SOULMATE, being last but not least. Every love that you feel means something, even if a drift occurs. The point about "TRUE LOVE" between adults is commitment. If the two involved make a commitment then everything should fall into place.............unfortunately, if one or other ignores this commitment, the rot sets in.
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