I wouldn't have a problem with either of us staying on CS. This hasn't been a dating site in years but for subscription paid legitimate sites, I'd insist we both leave.
Well to me you have to be clearer on what is a relationship. As most of the men I am meeting are not living where I do when do I know it is serious? Long distance relationships can be a bit tricky. Even after you meet I find as one person may decide they can not handle the distance thing and end it. Even if they like you. Then you are back where you started having to look again. If you are living together or married then I guess you are really in a relationship but until that time I think it is a good idea to keep looking.
If your in a relationship I think that you should state it in your profile. This site is not just to find somebody but is a site where you can make friends around the world. Male/Female. Peronally I would remove myself from dating site or at least state that I am not looking.
benidormwellington, Wellington New Zealand499 posts
relationship first I wish to come here for some more insight and to develop better as person for my lady.Have been fool with love not been patient.Cost me dearly jumping to conclusions.And trusting wrong people.
Aslong as you are not leading someone on..there are peaple in here who are looking for just friends to hang out with.. Question is,,how does your partner feel about you being in here?
kayla77: whats the point if your in a relationship, you can go out in the real world for fun and laughs...
If u'r in a harmonious relationship,then shouldn't even think to join any correspondence sites whatsoever,but rather looks for the way to nourish u'r good relationship.
To have a tendency toward joining any clubs.
,where u'r partner is not willing to be in it or he or she is not even aware that u wont to be in.That would constitute the CRIME !
clearly it is up to the two people involved. since you really cannot control another, you may ask but insisting or forbiding will not work. (We are not 12 y/o children)
keep in mind that if a partner is going to cheat they will find a way - nit picking over someone's cyber social life will just cause him or her to find another way to cheat (if the person is so inclined)
coming on here to chat with old freinds (as many of us have been here now for years) that is OK as long as it does not detract from couple time - just as with any other activity hobby or group of friends IRL.
Once upon a time I would have said it wasn´t right, but now I have been enlightened and realise that this site in particular, is a meeting place..........like the pub. Lots of lovely characters around. Now...........ya don´t stop going to the pub just cos ya met the love of yer life, but you don´t go down there secretly either. All a question of trust!!!!
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if you hare in a relationship is it right for one to still going to dating site just for laughs and(Vote Below)