i think that your third option makes the most sense. It is much more difficult to undo a "move-in" situation. always best to take your time and get to know the person, before any major decisions are made. of course, this is just my opinion.
i know this has already been said, but, there is good and bad in us all. sometimes the wrong combination of people brings out the bad that otherwise would not surface.
we all try to retain as much of our younger years as we are able to, but, somehow, it turns around and bites you on the a.. anyhow, and you realize that want to or not, you're all growed up
i think byou combined comments from op and my post. been there and done that was mine. was married to a person addicted to both alcohol and pot. so been there and done that, never again still stands.
i also think that as with many of us with children, you would hate for it to happen before you knew they were established and able to look after themselves
RE: How have you spent your winter so far ?
jeepers, you forgot to tan your face too. looking good though::grin: