have you ever just woke up one day and realized that you have filled your life with so much of being busy that you have let everything else slide, and when you examine it, you have nothing at all outside of your work, kids, and living on the perameters of everything, that you realize you really have nothing at all? you have friends, but, you don't involve yourself. It's kind of empty, even if you are so busy, and you realize that maybe you have fixed nothing at all. It's so easy to project the confidance that you want everyone to see, but, still keep on hiding what you don't.
i think it actually feels worse to reject someone than to be rejected. Especially if you are trying to come up with a way to do it, that is not going to hurt there feelings.
my major aspiration is to get my son situated so he is able to be self sufficient and attain the ability to provide a good life for himself at which point in time, i will work on mine.
i'm not sure if i believe in the death penalty, however, crimes against children especially are sickening, and death penalty or not, there should be severe repercussions for them.
i like living alone for now at least. Who knows what the future holds for any of us. If i were to want to change my situation, it would only be as Dru has stated if i were to find someone to complement me. And as far as that goes me to them as well. We all need to have the ability to be ourselves even in a relationship. For me, right now, that is what i am doing. So living alone, is not at all a bad thing. Nice post
I think that in any relationship, no matter how bad it was, or if there was one that was worse than the other, it still takes two to make it that way to whatever degree. But, that does not mean that either is not deserving of finding another special partner. Everyone is special and unique in their own way. Just not always to the one that they might have been with.
you know: i have read both of your threads/posts, responded to a few, but, i think that you both are a great match, as it appears that you think alot the same. And hopefully whoever is causing you any trouble/interference, leaves you alone, and lets you both enjoy your happiness in your new relationship. I wish you every success, and disregard any that are jealous or whateve their problem is. Lovely to see two nice people attain happiness.
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RE: Ummm....??
funny, but, maybe oh so true