ContraryColOPcrawley, West Sussex, England UK601 posts
So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself. But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?
ContraryCol: So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself. But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?
ContraryCol: So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself. But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?
Because I am special to me....and if it happens that another man finds me special to him....then it will happen...if not...then I am still special to me.
amahlala: Because I am special to me....and if it happens that another man finds me special to him....then it will happen...if not...then I am still special to me.
Well...for self criticisms, I'm just so dang independent but I want to be with someone too and past relationships there's always been a problem when I just want to be left alone and when I need to cuddle up and be paid attention to and babied. I'm just the type when I say I want to be left alone right now, I mean it, and I get very upset and feel closed in when my needs aren't being met. I'm not materialistic, money doesn't mean much to me at the end of the day- it comes and goes, but I'm happiest when I can just live life and be free, if this is met then I'm happy, and like the saying goes..happy wife, happy life.
Cause I'm me, I be who I wanna be. It takes a special woman to accept that, not just any woman. In the meantime, I don't want to be lonely, so I will take any woman for now till I'm with a special woman.
cameraman: Cause I'm me, I be who I wanna be. It takes a special woman to accept that, not just any woman. In the meantime, I don't want to be lonely, so I will take any woman for now till I'm with a special woman.
ContraryCol: So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself. But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?
Because I am deserving of that, as we all are deserving of finding that special someone. Just because none of our previous relationships worked out doesn't mean we don't deserve to find the one with whom it will work now. Many of us have learned and grown from our past mistakes, and learned a lot during out prior relationships, that we can now put to good use in our next one.
I know I have learned more of who I am, and have grown and changed into a different, and better, person than I was before.
amahlala: Because I am special to me....and if it happens that another man finds me special to him....then it will happen...if not...then I am still special to me.
ContraryCol: So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself. But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?
ContraryCol: So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself.
I'm happy to accept blame in previous relationships and I know what I've done which I could have done better or differently. I do tend to take responsibility and do say and apologise when I am in the wrong.
ContraryCol: But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?
I don't know that I am, I am just me which means I have the good bits and the bad bits about me. I don't see myself s special...just normal and average is what you get here...which I'm perfectly happy with.
Entwangled: I'm happy to accept blame in previous relationships and I know what I've done which I could have done better or differently. I do tend to take responsibility and do say and apologise when I am in the wrong.
I don't know that I am, I am just me which means I have the good bits and the bad bits about me. I don't see myself s special...just normal and average is what you get here...which I'm perfectly happy with.
ContraryColOPcrawley, West Sussex, England UK601 posts
druidess6308: Because I am deserving of that, as we all are deserving of finding that special someone. Just because none of our previous relationships worked out doesn't mean we don't deserve to find the one with whom it will work now. Many of us have learned and grown from our past mistakes, and learned a lot during out prior relationships, that we can now put to good use in our next one.
I know I have learned more of who I am, and have grown and changed into a different, and better, person than I was before.
Lovely post and very eliquently put druidess.
But do you not think that the more we get to know each other then the more we get stuck in our ways...thus cancelling out any benifits our wisdom has brought us?
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But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?