What makes you think that you are special? ( Archived) (50)

Aug 2, 2009 2:50 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
ContraryCol
ContraryColContraryColcrawley, West Sussex, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself.
But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?
dunno
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Aug 2, 2009 2:52 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
ContraryCol: So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself.
But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?


Excellent thread

lets hear some constructive self criticism ...professor
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Aug 2, 2009 2:54 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Boban1: Excellent thread

lets hear some constructive self criticism ...


I'm perfect and not to be repeated.They broke the mould when they made me!rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 2, 2009 2:54 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
my Mom says so professor laugh
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Aug 2, 2009 2:56 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
ContraryCol: So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself.
But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?


Because I am special to me....and if it happens that another man finds me special to him....then it will happen...if not...then I am still special to me.
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Aug 2, 2009 2:57 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
I dont think im special,i KNOW i am..wave
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Aug 2, 2009 2:59 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
amahlala: Because I am special to me....and if it happens that another man finds me special to him....then it will happen...if not...then I am still special to me.



yay yay yay yay thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Aug 2, 2009 3:01 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
Kristine1
Kristine1Kristine1Abilene, Texas USA2 Threads 381 Posts
Well...for self criticisms, I'm just so dang independent but I want to be with someone too and past relationships there's always been a problem when I just want to be left alone and when I need to cuddle up and be paid attention to and babied. I'm just the type when I say I want to be left alone right now, I mean it, and I get very upset and feel closed in when my needs aren't being met. I'm not materialistic, money doesn't mean much to me at the end of the day- it comes and goes, but I'm happiest when I can just live life and be free, if this is met then I'm happy, and like the saying goes..happy wife, happy life. wine beer
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Aug 2, 2009 3:01 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
cameraman
cameramancameramanSt. Petersburg, Florida USA29 Threads 19 Polls 2,501 Posts
Cause I'm me, I be who I wanna be. It takes a special woman to accept that, not just any woman. conversing In the meantime, I don't want to be lonely, so I will take any woman for now till I'm with a special woman.
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Aug 2, 2009 3:02 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
cameraman: Cause I'm me, I be who I wanna be. It takes a special woman to accept that, not just any woman. In the meantime, I don't want to be lonely, so I will take any woman for now till I'm with a special woman.


oh no, you do deserve someone as amazing as you hug
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Aug 2, 2009 3:05 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
ContraryCol: So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself.
But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?


Because I am deserving of that, as we all are deserving of finding that special someone. Just because none of our previous relationships worked out doesn't mean we don't deserve to find the one with whom it will work now. Many of us have learned and grown from our past mistakes, and learned a lot during out prior relationships, that we can now put to good use in our next one.

I know I have learned more of who I am, and have grown and changed into a different, and better, person than I was before.

wine
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Aug 2, 2009 3:06 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
amahlala: Because I am special to me....and if it happens that another man finds me special to him....then it will happen...if not...then I am still special to me.
thumbs up
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Aug 2, 2009 3:06 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
cameraman
cameramancameramanSt. Petersburg, Florida USA29 Threads 19 Polls 2,501 Posts
avecaim: oh no, you do deserve someone as amazing as you


hug That's true. conversing Thank you.
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Aug 2, 2009 3:07 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
ContraryCol: So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself.
But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?


I have soft skin and I'm a great kisser...
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Aug 2, 2009 3:08 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
Entwangled
EntwangledEntwangledBerkshire, England UK7 Threads 103 Posts
ContraryCol: So the vast majority of us in here have failed to some degree in our past relationships.Some prefer to blame there partners rather than except any real blame themself.


I'm happy to accept blame in previous relationships and I know what I've done which I could have done better or differently.
I do tend to take responsibility and do say and apologise when I am in the wrong.


ContraryCol: But what makes you think that your special enough to deserve a special someone rather than just someone for now?


I don't know that I am, I am just me which means I have the good bits yay and the bad bits devil about me.
I don't see myself s special...just normal and average is what you get here...which I'm perfectly happy with.
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Aug 2, 2009 3:08 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
StressFree: I have soft skin and I'm a great kisser...


and u just made thousands of women's hearts flutter!heart beating
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Aug 2, 2009 3:09 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
Entwangled: I'm happy to accept blame in previous relationships and I know what I've done which I could have done better or differently.
I do tend to take responsibility and do say and apologise when I am in the wrong.

I don't know that I am, I am just me which means I have the good bits and the bad bits about me.
I don't see myself s special...just normal and average is what you get here...which I'm perfectly happy with.


good bits if you ask me sister handshake
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Aug 2, 2009 3:14 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
ContraryCol
ContraryColContraryColcrawley, West Sussex, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
druidess6308: Because I am deserving of that, as we all are deserving of finding that special someone. Just because none of our previous relationships worked out doesn't mean we don't deserve to find the one with whom it will work now. Many of us have learned and grown from our past mistakes, and learned a lot during out prior relationships, that we can now put to good use in our next one.

I know I have learned more of who I am, and have grown and changed into a different, and better, person than I was before.

Lovely post and very eliquently put druidess.
hug
But do you not think that the more we get to know each other then the more we get stuck in our ways...thus cancelling out any benifits our wisdom has brought us?

dunno
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Aug 2, 2009 3:18 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
avecaim: My dad says I got big, iron balls


ok......uh oh

that would really make you special ...wow



but don`t worry..Jesus loves us all....peace
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Aug 2, 2009 3:19 PM CST What makes you think that you are special?
rose150T
rose150Trose150TVila Real, Portugal215 Posts
I din't fail in my past relations. I have no blame, I don't blame anybody. I have great memories of my past relationships, they were all great guys...

I am not a very special person, I am just me, I am not looking for the "special" one, I am looking for a normal, decent, and sensitive man.

Period and no dramas.
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