i would prefer to just live with the guy. easier to move on with life afterwards should things not work out as planned. and if theres one thing i've learned after several years of being an adventure guide its that one should always have a contingency plan regardless of the inplausiblity of needing it. but if children are on the agenda, i would opt for the marriage.
thats actually not true. lol. i cleaned my m-16 everday if not more so. no matter how often i cleaned it i always found dirt on that thing. i dont know how. i never let the damn thing touch the ground...
he sounds to me like someone who cant make up his mind. he keeps looking at your profile in hopes that the next time he looks at it he will have a revelation that will tell him exactly what to do.
yes. yes i have been there. and its hard to determine if im still there or not. i know that i will always love him. i may find someone else i can love and be happy with and possibly spend the rest of my life with. but i know that i will always love him. he was my first love and those feelings dont disappear easily.
haha. you would probably have a panic attack over what i do on a regular basis. im a guide for outdoor adventure trips and i take groups canyoneering all the time. (for those who dont know what that is, if you have to use technical gear ie ropes, harnesses, webbing, the like to get descend a canyone, you are canyoneering.) the highest repel i have done was 327' in hawaii. it is great fun! those of you clostrophobic people out there would hate it too. lol. the canyons we do are called slot canyons for the reason that they are so narrow that your nose touches one wall and your back the other.
the first thing that popped into my head was that he might have another woman and is keeping you on the backburner just in case things go wrong with her. (speaking from experience...)
i have had 3 opportunities to have a kid and for some reason God chose to take those from me. its still a little hard to deal w/ sometimes...but i know its probably for the best b/c i want my kids when i do have them to have a good life. not w/ some teenage mother who has no idea what shes doing.
i just want someone i can go hang out and do things with. all my friends mysteriously disappeared on me...i spose thats what i get for being friends w/ rich white people who go on vacation all the time.
the only real quirky thing about my house is the toilet in my bathroom is quite tempermental. you have to "double flush" it meaning you have to hold the handle down until everything goes down, it fills back up, and then you can finally release the handle when everything goes down again. it often gets backed up w/ nothing in it so i have to keep a plunger on hand at all times. and the handle falls off all the time. its terribly irritating.
it was a good movie. nothing at all like misery loves company. but if your slightly psychopathic and want new tips on how to torture someone and get away w/ it, watch this movie. i loved it!
word. thats tight. what kind of shows you doin? whats your special talent?? i went to see the clay cooper show when i was there. and then my rents took my bro to see that yakov guy or whatever his name is.
wow. i dont even know what to say. i post a thread about just breaking up with a guy that i liked and how pissed off i am and you have the nerve to HIT ON me? please, please tell me you are kidding.
so he called. apparently he is engaged and his fiance is deployed to iraq right now. he said he thought that we could hang out and not "hook up" and just be "activity partners". wow. i really was duped.
i promise you, im not doing this for attention. i posted this thread to vent. and it worked. i got it off my chest to a bunch of people i dont know so i dont have to go and spill my guts to someone i do know. thanks for listening and for your opinoins.
i suppose its possible. although i dont think i overdid it. i mean i posted a funny link to a website about manflu and just said get better. and then i texted him once and called him once yesterday. and then i called him once this morning and he sent me vm. i mean maybe if it had been our first date that would be too much. but i mean we ARE dating...
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RE: IS MARRIAGE IMPORTANT OR DO U LIKE JUST TO LIVE TOGETHER?
i would prefer to just live with the guy. easier to move on with life afterwards should things not work out as planned. and if theres one thing i've learned after several years of being an adventure guide its that one should always have a contingency plan regardless of the inplausiblity of needing it. but if children are on the agenda, i would opt for the marriage.