im a blundering idiot... (66)
nana_3colorado springs, Colorado USA4 Threads 61 Postsgod only knows why im posting this as a thread but i just need to vent. so i've been dating this guy for a couple weeks now. its been great cuz he's into all of the same stuff i am. we've gone camping and hiking alot and have a blast. i really liked this guy. so a couple days ago we go swimming at a lake and one thing leads to another and 2 hours later we are at planned parenthood and he's buying me a morning after pill. so we had made plans to meet at starbucks yesterday morning at 8 and i never heard from him. i get a text from him around 3 saying that he's been throwing up all day and i offered to come over and take care of him but he says he's just gonna go to sleep and he'll text me when he wakes up to let me know how he's doing. i notice on his facebook he posted that he was really sick so i left him a little comment telling him to get better quickly. so the evening goes on and i never hear from him. i called him and texted him this morning with no response. and then his facebook profile is deleted. or he blocked me. i have yet to figure it out. i have this nagging fear that he just got what he wanted from me and doesn't feel like telling me he's not interested anymore. im so terribly frustrated....
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better off without him if hes got no manners
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Don't give da goods away too easy...
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To be honest, I thin you got it all figured out. But just in the future be more careful. And I am not saying this in a bad way. You could have had more to worry about than a morning after pill. jmho
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You posted it to get it off your chest and ease the pain you feel at being "duped".We've all been there at some point,so don't feel such an idiot.As long as you are safe that's all that matters,your pride will heal in time.Learn a lesson from this and move on.Life dishes out some nasty "strokes"at times and as I've said many times before."It's not what happens to us in life but how we deal with it." Think of Tara in Gone with the Wind "Tomorrow is another day" Positive thoughts to you and a big
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bestbefore: You posted it to get it off your chest and ease the pain you feel at being "duped".We've all been there at some point,so don't feel such an idiot.As long as you are safe that's all that matters,your pride will heal in time.Learn a lesson from this and move on.Life dishes out some nasty "strokes"at times and as I've said many times before."It's not what happens to us in life but how we deal with it." Think of Tara in Gone with the Wind "Tomorrow is another day" Positive thoughts to you and a big
thank you. i do feel a little bit better. but i could just be doing what i always do. i tend to imagine the worst possible scenario and then assume it as reality. he could just really be sick and im freaking out for no reason at all. but i just have this inkling that its something more...
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nana_3: great questions. heres one more: do guys enjoy playing games with a girl's heart just b/c they know they can? i just dont get it...
I think it works both ways, there are both men and women who need the ego boost they get when they play with someone's heart. Sometimes, though, I think it is easier to play a women, they seem to be more trusting. 
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nana_3: great questions. heres one more: do guys enjoy playing games with a girl's heart just b/c they know they can? i just dont get it...
again do girls play with mens hearts
The answer is yes
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nana_3: god only knows why im posting this as a thread but i just need to vent. so i've been dating this guy for a couple weeks now. its been great cuz he's into all of the same stuff i am. we've gone camping and hiking alot and have a blast. i really liked this guy. so a couple days ago we go swimming at a lake and one thing leads to another and 2 hours later we are at planned parenthood and he's buying me a morning after pill. so we had made plans to meet at starbucks yesterday morning at 8 and i never heard from him. i get a text from him around 3 saying that he's been throwing up all day and i offered to come over and take care of him but he says he's just gonna go to sleep and he'll text me when he wakes up to let me know how he's doing. i notice on his facebook he posted that he was really sick so i left him a little comment telling him to get better quickly. so the evening goes on and i never hear from him. i called him and texted him this morning with no response. and then his facebook profile is deleted. or he blocked me. i have yet to figure it out. i have this nagging fear that he just got what he wanted from me and doesn't feel like telling me he's not interested anymore. im so terribly frustrated....
You are young enough to move on and dont look back
The guys a moron he used you
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dirko63: again do girls play with mens hearts
The answer is yes
The answer is yes
And may i say, a good anwser
So we have players on each side...... what now????
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its okey dear. it happens that way many times though in different forms. but never blame yourself for such. the person who has issues here is him not you. just dont let such a person back in your life because that is what they do. after sometime from no whhere he calls and says he is sorry and that he would like to see you again. if you fall into that trap then that is when you are to blame yourself afterwords because he will repeat the same behaviour.
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BOBANBOBAN: And may i say, a good anwser
So we have players on each side...... what now????
So we have players on each side...... what now????
Anyone for tennis I say!
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If I have ever called things off after just once its been because something has been missing or not felt right about it. Though i wouldnt do it without a word. Its not always easy to tell someone things arent working out for whatever reason though. 
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bestbefore: Anyone for tennis I say!
yep
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dirko63: you want to play with the balls
I can still keep them up in the air!!!!!!!!!
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god never give the stick to the person knws how to hit 
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nana_3: god only knows why im posting this as a thread but i just need to vent. so i've been dating this guy for a couple weeks now. its been great cuz he's into all of the same stuff i am. we've gone camping and hiking alot and have a blast. i really liked this guy. so a couple days ago we go swimming at a lake and one thing leads to another and 2 hours later we are at planned parenthood and he's buying me a morning after pill. so we had made plans to meet at starbucks yesterday morning at 8 and i never heard from him. i get a text from him around 3 saying that he's been throwing up all day and i offered to come over and take care of him but he says he's just gonna go to sleep and he'll text me when he wakes up to let me know how he's doing. i notice on his facebook he posted that he was really sick so i left him a little comment telling him to get better quickly. so the evening goes on and i never hear from him. i called him and texted him this morning with no response. and then his facebook profile is deleted. or he blocked me. i have yet to figure it out. i have this nagging fear that he just got what he wanted from me and doesn't feel like telling me he's not interested anymore. im so terribly frustrated....
I haven't read all the posts, so I apologize if I've missed something.
You said you called, texted, & posted something? Do you think he felt smothered, possibly? This is just a thought.
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