nana_3: aah yes. as my friend chassney would put it, in this world, to be beautiful means being used.
I feel like being "used" is more appropriately connected with one's personality not beauty at all... maybe passive which could mean getting walked all over because you don't speak up or being less confident of yourself which could mean you make more decisions based on need (or neediness), or even having emotional stability issues which could mean you could put others before yourself because you hope their happiness will fill something within you.
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
Don't feel frustrated because he has not made contact.
The guy is a waste of fresh air.
He should be calling you to see how you are feeling, not telling you he feels ill. Although, he should feel ill, for being such an insincere low life.... Real low life just don't bother calling at all.
Hopefullly, all is ok with you, and you can move on with your life. If you can put it down to experience, then do so, but in future, go careful next time.
so he called. apparently he is engaged and his fiance is deployed to iraq right now. he said he thought that we could hang out and not "hook up" and just be "activity partners". wow. i really was duped.
nana_3: so he called. apparently he is engaged and his fiance is deployed to iraq right now. he said he thought that we could hang out and not "hook up" and just be "activity partners". wow. i really was duped.
I'm guessing that you weren't looking for a 'friends with benefits' arrangement...
Inthewoods: Hey...wanna meet me in Palmer Park, I do the tempelton trail, 4.5 miles, plenty of places to pull off and ...
wow. i dont even know what to say. i post a thread about just breaking up with a guy that i liked and how pissed off i am and you have the nerve to HIT ON me? please, please tell me you are kidding.
nana_3: wow. i dont even know what to say. i post a thread about just breaking up with a guy that i liked and how pissed off i am and you have the nerve to HIT ON me? please, please tell me you are kidding.
not to mention the fact that you are 12 years older than my father...
nana_3: wow. i dont even know what to say. i post a thread about just breaking up with a guy that i liked and how pissed off i am and you have the nerve to HIT ON me? please, please tell me you are kidding.
UR right....it's creepy, and he's 30 years older than you.
morning nana,you don't need negative people in your like and it is good it happened that way for now you know that he was not worth your time or love you know [see ya don't want to be with ya}.god bless you
nana_3: god only knows why im posting this as a thread but i just need to vent. so i've been dating this guy for a couple weeks now. its been great cuz he's into all of the same stuff i am. we've gone camping and hiking alot and have a blast. i really liked this guy. so a couple days ago we go swimming at a lake and one thing leads to another and 2 hours later we are at planned parenthood and he's buying me a morning after pill. so we had made plans to meet at starbucks yesterday morning at 8 and i never heard from him. i get a text from him around 3 saying that he's been throwing up all day and i offered to come over and take care of him but he says he's just gonna go to sleep and he'll text me when he wakes up to let me know how he's doing. i notice on his facebook he posted that he was really sick so i left him a little comment telling him to get better quickly. so the evening goes on and i never hear from him. i called him and texted him this morning with no response. and then his facebook profile is deleted. or he blocked me. i have yet to figure it out. i have this nagging fear that he just got what he wanted from me and doesn't feel like telling me he's not interested anymore. im so terribly frustrated....
Hi Nana,
I am sorry to hear this. I't quite typical of guys to behave in this fashion...once they have gotten their nuts off the hunt for them is over and it's on to the next prey....
I know it hurts darlin...but older and wiser you are today....
moneymagnetLondon, Greater London, England UK53 posts
Hi Nana,
Sorry to hear that someone had hurt your feelings, with your story it seems that you had a good time, next time don't go out with everyone who asks you to, unless you know that they don't give up on you, take care
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I feel like being "used" is more appropriately connected with one's personality not beauty at all... maybe passive which could mean getting walked all over because you don't speak up or being less confident of yourself which could mean you make more decisions based on need (or neediness), or even having emotional stability issues which could mean you could put others before yourself because you hope their happiness will fill something within you.
Just examples and just my opinion of course.