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Jun 26, 2009 8:54 PM CST im a blundering idiot...
DaisyChick
DaisyChickDaisyChickPortland, Oregon USA27 Threads 1,348 Posts
nana_3: aah yes. as my friend chassney would put it, in this world, to be beautiful means being used.


I feel like being "used" is more appropriately connected with one's personality not beauty at all... maybe passive which could mean getting walked all over because you don't speak up or being less confident of yourself which could mean you make more decisions based on need (or neediness), or even having emotional stability issues which could mean you could put others before yourself because you hope their happiness will fill something within you.

Just examples and just my opinion of course.
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Jun 26, 2009 8:58 PM CST im a blundering idiot...
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
'i have this nagging fear that he just got what he wanted from me and doesn't feel like telling me he's not interested anymore'


Without reading this whole thread - you may well have answered your own question.


JMO
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Jun 26, 2009 9:09 PM CST im a blundering idiot...
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
Don't feel frustrated because he has not made contact.

The guy is a waste of fresh air.

He should be calling you to see how you are feeling, not telling you he feels ill.
Although, he should feel ill, for being such an insincere low life.... Real low life just don't bother calling at all.

Hopefullly, all is ok with you, and you can move on with your life.
If you can put it down to experience, then do so, but in future, go careful next time.
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Jun 27, 2009 12:22 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
nana_3
nana_3nana_3colorado springs, Colorado USA4 Threads 61 Posts
so he called. apparently he is engaged and his fiance is deployed to iraq right now. he said he thought that we could hang out and not "hook up" and just be "activity partners". wow. i really was duped.
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Jun 27, 2009 12:27 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
nana_3: so he called. apparently he is engaged and his fiance is deployed to iraq right now. he said he thought that we could hang out and not "hook up" and just be "activity partners". wow. i really was duped.



I'm guessing that you weren't looking for a 'friends with benefits' arrangement...
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Jun 27, 2009 12:37 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
nana_3
nana_3nana_3colorado springs, Colorado USA4 Threads 61 Posts
prairiewoman: I'm guessing that you weren't looking for a 'friends with benefits' arrangement...


uh ya no.
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Jun 27, 2009 1:58 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
Inthewoods
InthewoodsInthewoodsColorado Springs, Colorado USA9,927 Posts
Hey...wanna meet me in Palmer Park, I do the tempelton trail, 4.5 miles, plenty of places to pull off and ...devil
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Jun 27, 2009 2:02 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
nana_3
nana_3nana_3colorado springs, Colorado USA4 Threads 61 Posts
Inthewoods: Hey...wanna meet me in Palmer Park, I do the tempelton trail, 4.5 miles, plenty of places to pull off and ...


wow. i dont even know what to say. i post a thread about just breaking up with a guy that i liked and how pissed off i am and you have the nerve to HIT ON me? please, please tell me you are kidding.
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Jun 27, 2009 2:04 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
nana_3
nana_3nana_3colorado springs, Colorado USA4 Threads 61 Posts
nana_3: wow. i dont even know what to say. i post a thread about just breaking up with a guy that i liked and how pissed off i am and you have the nerve to HIT ON me? please, please tell me you are kidding.



not to mention the fact that you are 12 years older than my father...
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Jun 27, 2009 2:06 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
Sojourner
SojournerSojournerAndorra la Vella, Andorra31 Threads 2 Polls 472 Posts
nana_3: wow. i dont even know what to say. i post a thread about just breaking up with a guy that i liked and how pissed off i am and you have the nerve to HIT ON me? please, please tell me you are kidding.
UR right....it's creepy, and he's 30 years older than you. uh oh
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Jun 27, 2009 8:16 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
DonDon67
DonDon67DonDon67Columbus, Georgia USA19 Threads 2 Polls 692 Posts
morning nana,you don't need negative people in your like and it is good it happened that way for now you know that he was not worth your time or love you know [see ya don't want to be with ya}.god bless youangel handshake peace
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Jun 27, 2009 8:17 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
nana_3: god only knows why im posting this as a thread but i just need to vent. so i've been dating this guy for a couple weeks now. its been great cuz he's into all of the same stuff i am. we've gone camping and hiking alot and have a blast. i really liked this guy. so a couple days ago we go swimming at a lake and one thing leads to another and 2 hours later we are at planned parenthood and he's buying me a morning after pill. so we had made plans to meet at starbucks yesterday morning at 8 and i never heard from him. i get a text from him around 3 saying that he's been throwing up all day and i offered to come over and take care of him but he says he's just gonna go to sleep and he'll text me when he wakes up to let me know how he's doing. i notice on his facebook he posted that he was really sick so i left him a little comment telling him to get better quickly. so the evening goes on and i never hear from him. i called him and texted him this morning with no response. and then his facebook profile is deleted. or he blocked me. i have yet to figure it out. i have this nagging fear that he just got what he wanted from me and doesn't feel like telling me he's not interested anymore. im so terribly frustrated....



Hi Nana,

I am sorry to hear this. I't quite typical of guys to behave in this fashion...once they have gotten their nuts off the hunt for them is over and it's on to the next prey....

I know it hurts darlin...but older and wiser you are today....hug
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Jun 27, 2009 8:24 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
moneymagnet
moneymagnetmoneymagnetLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 53 Posts
Hi Nana,

Sorry to hear that someone had hurt your feelings, with your story it seems that you had a good time, next time don't go out with everyone who asks you to, unless you know that they don't give up on you, take care wave
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Jun 27, 2009 8:38 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
WombleMaster
WombleMasterWombleMasterTimaru, Canterbury New Zealand41 Posts
Why buy the Cow when the milks for free?
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Jun 27, 2009 8:48 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
WombleMaster: Why buy the Cow when the milks for free?


Maybe to get the milk anytime.....
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Jun 27, 2009 10:29 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
nana_3
nana_3nana_3colorado springs, Colorado USA4 Threads 61 Posts
WombleMaster: Why buy the Cow when the milks for free?


was i...just compared...to a cow???blues
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Jun 27, 2009 10:34 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
nana_3: was i...just compared...to a cow???



Moooooo Mooooo Noooooooo Noooooooo
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Jun 27, 2009 10:42 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
nana_3
nana_3nana_3colorado springs, Colorado USA4 Threads 61 Posts
Big_John: Moooooo Mooooo Noooooooo Noooooooo


hmph
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Jun 27, 2009 11:12 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
WASP7
WASP7WASP7guelph, Ontario Canada124 Posts
nana_3: hmph

No just a saying...your fine...but stay away from that old guy..rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 27, 2009 11:31 AM CST im a blundering idiot...
onelinermadness
onelinermadnessonelinermadnesswatchacallit, Central Jutland Denmark12 Threads 99 Posts
Iam a blundering idiot...nice title...very true words..betcha say it again..and again and again...join the H race & CS on and on and on....applause applause
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