Honestly, if I love the man he is then I don't care about the physical features. Physical isn't what I judge by when I'm hoping to spend the next 30 years or so with a man, only when I'm looking to spend the next 30 minutes with him.
druidess6308: Honestly, if I love the man he is then I don't care about the physical features. Physical isn't what I judge by when I'm hoping to spend the next 30 years or so with a man, only when I'm looking to spend the next 30 minutes with him.
Well said. I feel the same. Personality outweighs physical shortcomings every time!
PILOLOamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands79 posts
You've got to look beyond the physical appearance. Pay more attention to his intrinsic qualities. What makes him tick ? Teenagers are mostly pre-occupied with good looks without taking the other variables into consideration. Adults, on the other hand, should take all the variables & parameters into consideration but should always endeavor to downplay the importance of trivialities like looks. This applies to both males & females. It sure ain't no candy shop.
PILOLO: You've got to look beyond the physical appearance. Pay more attention to his intrinsic qualities. What makes him tick ? Teenagers are mostly pre-occupied with good looks without taking the other variables into consideration. Adults, on the other hand, should take all the variables & parameters into consideration but should always endeavor to downplay the importance of trivialities like looks. This applies to both males & females. It sure ain't no candy shop.
I sort of dissagree. Many of those physical items listed alert me to a lack of self care/love, and then probably low self esteme. A person who doesn't love/like himself cannot really be loving towards another. I would have to say none of OP's items are acceptable. Sorry....
moneymagnetLondon, Greater London, England UK53 posts
OneKitty: I sort of dissagree. Many of those physical items listed alert me to a lack of self care/love, and then probably low self esteme. A person who doesn't love/like himself cannot really be loving towards another. I would have to say none of OP's items are acceptable. Sorry....
One thing about loving him/her self only might bring selfishness with it and that’s what ladies don’t like to see in a man in their relationship, so what do you say about that? I’d be happy to care for my wife more than I care for my self.
One thing about loving him/her self only might bring selfishness with it and that’s what ladies don’t like to see in a man in their relationship, so what do you say about that? I’d be happy to care for my wife more than I care for my self. Because then my wife cares for me more than I was going to care for my self. Isn’t it sweet to have someone loving to care for you?
moneymagnet: One thing about loving him/her self only might bring selfishness with it and that’s what ladies don’t like to see in a man in their relationship, so what do you say about that? I’d be happy to care for my wife more than I care for my self.
One thing about loving him/her self only might bring selfishness with it and that’s what ladies don’t like to see in a man in their relationship, so what do you say about that? I’d be happy to care for my wife more than I care for my self. Because then my wife cares for me more than I was going to care for my self. Isn’t it sweet to have someone loving to care for you?
You have a point. My comments are from experience I guess. Good call tho!
i dont have a problem with any of the above, but put a perfect lookin man in front of me, and if he has a caveman controlling attitude-GOOD BYE! that is the ugliest feature of all, to me.
LovelyAsTheSun: i dont have a problem with any of the above, but put a perfect lookin man in front of me, and if he has a caveman controlling attitude-GOOD BYE! that is the ugliest feature of all, to me.
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personally for me I think Im gonna have to say real bad acne...sorry guys