I have never thought of that. See things through their eyes, you bring up a great point. For me, if I broke up with the person in a civil manner. I could still remain friends and let them visit him. If it was cheating, no they would have to be gone.
Oh I know she will, I am just saying. When I first start dating someone she won't have to be. I wouldn't even let my son meet her for a while. I don't want him getting close, only to have us break up and him be hurt.
You are right though, if I ever have a woman move in she would have to act like one, I can't deny that, just not when we first start dating.
Every person I meet, here or just out. Once they hear that I have a son, they think I'm looking for a mother for him. This even happens if the woman happens to have a child of their own. I'm not looking for a mother for him, he has one. How do you handle this?
I know it is an excuse to blow me off, just wondering.
That has been my luck. I have talked to some very nice people here, all seem to be very far away. I have talked to someone nice around my area, she just hasn't been on in a few days.
It's not hard, the older I get, the more I see how people are. Kids being killed, all these murders happening. It's not that hard to believe that people don't believe in god.
I honestly can't say if there is a god or not. I believe when I die, I'm dead and that is it. Also doesn't help that no matter how hard I try and stay positive my world is crashing down around me right now. That is all I can say though.
If my feelings for the person were deep enough I would. I was married once before, even though I'm young I learned a few things from it.
My son, well if he asked me not to I wouldn't. He isn't like that though and he wants to see his daddy happy. As long as that is what is in my heart and hers.
I think it is to have feelings, to get sad, happy, angry. To feel remorse for things you have done wrong. To correct mistakes you make in life. To be able to look up and see the blue sky, and breath easy knowing that not matter what you go through, you're still alive.
It is a feeling of freedom yet a feeling of being trapped. All in all, to be alive is a joy, the bad may make it hard but you can't have good without bad.
My mom tried, the tomatoes once full size were falling off, it was pretty funny. I went and bought her a net and hooked it to the upside down planter to catch them. Works like a charm now.
I need advice.
So I will keep my head up and keep looking for the one who wants me.