Just go with the flow, if we do not know by now what is a positive situation to be in then we should not be on this kind of website.
Until we have done our own self-analysis, took me almost 2 years after losing my last mate to be ready and raring to go, then we are just fooling ourself and any one else we come in contact with, no
Sure moving is not a problem as I luckily have jobs that are easily relocatable, however I would not move into anothers mans house(ex-husband etc.) as the thought of going into their bedroom, the willies what can I say.
So if she is willing to get somewhere new for something new then here I would come
Amazingly enough I can amuse myself, go get a paper whatever, what is the point in jumping to conclusions right off the bat, my philosophy is if you have not done it on purpose then who cares go with the flow.
No having said that, if it is on purpose and continues , well lets just say it would not continue, selfeshness dose not cut it.
Amazingly enough I can amuse myself, go get a paper whatever, what is the point in jumping to conclusions right off the bat, my philosophy is if you have not done it on purpose then who cares go with the flow.
No having said that, if it is on purpose and continues , well lets just say it would not continue, selfeshness dose not cut it.
Amazingly enough I can amuse myself, go get a paper whatever, what is the point in jumping to conclusions right off the bat, my philosophy is if you have not done it on purpose then who cares go with the flow.
No having said that, if it is on purpose and continues , well lets just say it would not continue, selfeshness dose not cut it.
Amazingly enough I can amuse myself, go get a paper whatever, what is the point in jumping to conclusions right off the bat, my philosophy is if you have not done it on purpose then who cares go with the flow.
No having said that, if it is on purpose and continues , well lets just say it would not continue, selfeshness dose not cut it.
I am sorry neither of you was willing to put the other before yourselves as it seems you had a great connection, but please don't blame the distance there are always options you just have to be willing to put US ahead of ME, hard to do it seems today but extremely workable.
Had a great long distance relationship and then just went for it felt like a teenager no prospects no job just went and everything turned out amazing in all aspects until fate stepped in, know have great friends in my "NEW" town, what I would of missed out on, WHEW.
Of course you will, whatever it is you did, but it is up to him to come to you, really??
Already given up huh, perhaps he is waiting to see if you think he is worth going out of your comfort zone, on your timelimit, on your agenda, and make his of equal or more importance.
But that would mean giving up complete control, and heaven forbid who does that today?????
You never "Know" as we are not responmsible for others actions.
It may feel right, it might be a great time with incredible interactions on all fronts, so just go with the flow and enjoy.(Marry or don't whatever both desire)
As soon as you bring boundaries of any kind(needing to know) in your mind you are now hoping, meaning there must be some negative thoughts involved.
Since the realization that we cannot control others actions, so they can not hurt me life has been seamless, incredibly joyous and doubt doesn't exsist. Now just to find someone else comfortable enough in their skins to believe the same thing.
I hope you have added the removal of all the "ISMS" that most hold as being so important, for if you haven't you're realization won't hold the test of time.
I am saddened that your choice of "ISMS" has led you to men who "clam-up", perhaps that indeed is where the mistake was made. It is a very simple one many of us have made, and the incredible freedom and power one revels in when we finally realize we are not responsible for others actions, so that they can no longer hurt us, will see all those controlling men/women disapper from our minds eyes, as we will control our own joyous destiny.
The hard part is to find another whose strengths lie in their laughter, and their giving mettle, allowing "things or parts" no further power.
I hope the joy you experienced continues as you realize for the first time you may have truly met yourself.
Take care and smile constantly, as it confuses the grumpy and arrogant.
People continually using the same techniques that have failed them in the past, determined to believe that those failures had nothing to do with themselves. Take a self-invetory, hell no, it was all Her/His fault.
There is absolutely nothing you can do, because it has nothing to do about you(it wouldn't matter who he was with), and everything about his weaknesses, so you have 2 choices get on the rollercoaster of everyday being under suspicion for absolutely no reason, be willing to be tested daily and never succeed and never being able to prove your innocence, allowing him to slowly destroy your own identity until he morps you into his control, or get away, very far away very quickly.
You cannot change him nor will he ever be strong enough to have your best interests at heart if he stays the same, and only he can change that nothing you will do will help.
But it does answer your question, How intelligent are you?? To want to choose several of your selfless, giving, good hearted possibilities you must have more then one choice
Not having the understanding that since we can not control others actions they can not hurt us. Until that point is reached baggage will be carried forward making a positive outcome incapable of happening
Fair enough, but then don't be confused or bewildered when people you don't think are compatible make enquires.
Wow, Devil's Advocate Concept still don't get it???
I have pics don't just need to show all of myself to everyone, maybe if you lived in a town of less then 2000 you would understand, perhaps not. Also the concept of getting to know me for me not what I look like might just be better.
If the viewing concept had worked for all of us in the past, none of us would be here would we???
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