lovely4u7da: I am more curious as to why they did`t post one as to how they look ,you can find out a lot about a person just from the answers they give
I agree. I also agree with Scousedon, despite whether you think it's more important to know the person it's human nature to want to see what the person looks like.
I don't care what people say about personality. Yes someone can be a lovely sincere, genuine person with a good personality but there still has to be some physical attraction.
Why go on a dating site and not show your picture? Perhaps some of those who don't have one will enlighten us as to their reasons.
mnowsa: But anywho, so you wana see my real fake picture or just a fake picture?
I agree there is nothing to stop anyone putting a fake picture up but this is a dating site. What happens if you eventually get around to meeting someone from here?
Unless of course it is never your intention to actually meet someone from here.
lakelander: I agree there is nothing to stop anyone putting a fake picture up but this is a dating site. What happens if you eventually get around to meeting someone from here?
Unless of course it is never your intention to actually meet someone from here.
oh...i can always post a fake picture and when i actually get around to meeting somebody from here, i can always change my appearance to my fake picture by doing some plastic surgery
lakelander: I agree there is nothing to stop anyone putting a fake picture up but this is a dating site. What happens if you eventually get around to meeting someone from here?
Unless of course it is never your intention to actually meet someone from here.
Doesn't bother me really, some people don't post them because of their work, but once you start talking to them will send them to you.
To be honest, you never know if its really the person anyway a thread last night proved that. So far I have been viewed by Colin Farrell and seen David Beckham on this site, and i very much doubt they are here.
It annoys me when faceless people write to you and say well I can send a pic..hello I don't want to give you my email for starters..secondly if you don't find them remotely physically attractive its then hard to tell them so..and before all the ..dont be so shallow brigade jump on my back..this is a dating site..yes I don't care what my friends look like but if Im going to be going to bed with someone I feel that there has to be some sort of physical attraction there.JMO
They took my photo down because they said I looked too much like Brad Pitt.
Then my cute puppy photo got blitzed by the CS moderators too. Sniff. He had a higher rating than I did, but I admit, he was bragging about it all the time.
Everyone makes excuses but I can say this is the 20+ "singles" website that I have joined and the same thing tends to happen,
pictures or no pictures people just play games. the picture is not going to tell a person whether that other person is serious, honest... no...
sure there should be some physical attraction but there are actually women and men who don't care about looks so they don't post pictures and don't expect to see pictures.
Merriweather: I dont want to see a blank pic... I want to see a real photo..
I know that people dont want to show photos but this is a dating site, and sorry if I dont get excited by a blank face.
I wont email a blank face either... Its just like looking at a blank wall. ... which doesn't excite me either...
I have a pic, and every so often I change it.. I consistently look like me... I expect honesty from myself, therefore from others too.
same here .... i *rarely reply to those ppl who don't have a photo. one time i did, i found out later that the guy was married and he didn't want his wife or her relatives or his associates to recognize him in a dating site.
sameer123456: if i will upload my pic , all the girls will contact me and will be really mad for me .....so i donot want to make beautiful girls mad for me .....lol
scousedon: I get curious how someone might look, might sound shallow but think it is human nature to be curious as to physical appearance.
I don’t think it’s shallow to want to know what your contact looks like. I have my photo here, and I expect the same courtesy from my contacts. And I don’t want to know the reasons why they don’t have their picture here: they contact me mostly because of my picture, so let’s keep things equally, won’t we? What would be a reason for me to communicate with an empty square? It reminds of sending signals to an outer space, and so desperate I am not.
I don’t expect that there are lots of movie stars from Hollywood on this site, people here look like people everywhere. But I want see the face I’m writing to, otherwise...
Tulefel: I don’t think it’s shallow to want to know what your contact looks like. I have my photo here, and I expect the same courtesy from my contacts. And I don’t want to know the reasons why they don’t have their picture here: they contact me mostly because of my picture, so let’s keep things equally, won’t we? What would be a reason for me to communicate with an empty square? It reminds of sending signals to an outer space, and so desperate I am not.
I don’t expect that there are lots of movie stars from Hollywood on this site, people here look like people everywhere. But I want see the face I’m writing to, otherwise...
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