OptionalOptional Forum Posts (182)

RE: finding someone who is totaly honest and faithful

Like passing notes and cooties?

RE: How do you get women to notice you??

Do you mean there is a gay forum? Or do you mean do I go gay clubing etc?
I do go gay clubing, I've just got back actually, It's 9:00am here and the clubs have closed for the night, besides I do have to get some sleep before work (4:45pm)

RE: What's Your Sign?

Ah well the joke wasn't origanal, still I expected a laugh...
I didn't know anyone had sanctioned test tube babies to allowing one to be born!

RE: Don't

Thanks Doll.
Kiora koto.

RE: tattoos

Is there any particular reason you have TO SHOUT SUPERGUY!
Is the caps lock stuck?

RE: How do you get women to notice you??

Question is, do you want a nice guy? Or a guy you think is nice?
How about a guy who you think is nice, who is nice and is gay?
How about a girl who for some reason pushes all the right buttons? It happens..

RE: What's Your Sign?

Test Tube Baby.:)

Actually: Gemini

RE: Who is the most famous person you have ever met?

Bill Clinton: Apec Summit I served him dinner
Dustin Hoffman: He gave me a cap when I was a kid.
Liv Tyler: I live in the country where they made LOTR, you had to run into one of the cast sometime!

RE: What's Your Sign?

I'm a Pyrex

The ever smiling facade

Thankyou for the comments guys and gals, I really love the the different inputs!

RE: How do you get women to notice you??

My advice is to turn gay, I have females comming out of my ears (no boast) when I'm out with my girlfriends, not a bloke (man) in sight though.
When one of the girls asks my friends if I'm available they, instead of filling in the blanks, don't tell them, they just say "I don't think he's seeing anyone at the moment, why don't you ask him?" and sit back to watch the carnage.
I swear sometimes they sell tickets.

RE: finding someone who is totaly honest and faithful

I don't know why I give up the secrets of the male realm...but here goes.
Men lie for all sorts of reasons, 90% is because they are insecure in the others love. Imagine for a second that no matter what you told you loved one, they wouldn't start loving you any less. So they try to make themselves better in your eyes.
Those men who know that they have your unconditional love don't need to lie to you. That's not to say they won't.
We all do stupid things to the ones we love and Faithlessness is a big issue.
Almost all of us have been unfaithful at one time or another, I helped someone else be unfaithful years ago and for my trouble I lost a good friend.
Never made the same mistake again, but if all my future loves knew that, may be I would have a harder time finding someone.
So I hope people forgive me and forget, I did the crime, I sure have done the time.

RE: Profile cleared (finally)

I just checked out your profile...I wish I could meet a guy like you!
Have fun.

RE: How did you come up with your username?

I just used the most workable part of my heading, but that has another story behind it.
As it is I have two faces, both have fun, but one works hard in a staunch enviroment and the other is a romantic who has a more femal touch.
So I choose which face to put on for the day. Optional.

RE: Don't

Please excuse the metre in this poem, I know it's not great but I wrote it at work on the first pass and I haven't the heart to rework it.

Drifting on a tranquil sea
No one see's the depth of me
Underneith a raging storm
breaking surface before to long

Don't want to show
If you let them know
It's all too much
Sympathy becomes a crutch

We'll all break down
without a sound
To drown
In our traquil sea

So Cry out aloud
raise your hand
tell the world
They'll understand

We've all felt desperation
We've all known the need
Why don't we see the floundering
The hopless drowning
In their tranquil sea

No need to drown
in a tranquil sea.

RE: Are some men really afraid of rejection?

A friend came to me the other day and said,"There's this guy I like, I wonder if I should ask him out?"
The only question she needed to ask herself was "How gutted (disappointed) would I be if they said no?"
If the answer is "I couldn't really care" Then chances are they are not that important to you.
However if you feel like you would just die if they said no then you should ask them, you obviously care very much.
If your not prepared to accept rejection to the same value of feeling you have for them, I guess you'll never ask.

RE: tattoos

Quick word for TabooN,
Tatoos can be painful, some people don't feel a thing, however they are all very addictive, as you will notice the Starliteisbrite is covered in them and I'm planning to have the one on my chest added to and some done on my legs.
But even if I think that it will stop there, chances are I'll be back in the chair again real soon after.

RE: tattoos

May be I could draw one for you TabooN, I have a lot of designs that I draw for our local carvers, but I could branch out into a dragon fly or two.
How do people connect so they can send pictures?

RE: tattoos

What did you have in mind?

RE: tattoos

I have two tatoo's, one religious (family pagan tradition) and one to represent how I feel sometimes.
Both are my own art work and both I love very much.
As I work in a public service industry neither are where you can see them unless I want you to.

The ever smiling facade

I see interesting comments like "nice to see your smiling face again" etc.
When the face that is in the pic (most of the time) is taken on a day we found the person inside of us who likes to meet people.
Witty reparty flows back and forth over the aether, like so much sugar coated angst, cause lets face it we came here because we are lonley to one degree or another.

In an attempt to lift the mood of this comment, I would like to say that even if I don't come to the key board smiling, buy the time I've chatted to a few people and listened to the funny and idle chatter, I usually leave smiling.

Keep talking baby, I just wanted to let people see me.

RE: Are these really MUGSHOTS?

My head isn't floating in whiteout! That's how I really am! Jees, Why do you think I'm here, I can't meet any real people.
Actually I had to remove the very beautiful woman hanging around my neck, she would have muscled in on my pick ups ya know.
I don't want guys clicking on my profile because of her, however as I have had terrible luck so far I might just put her back.

Rude boys

Please tell me that pic really is you....(dribble)

RE: Don't

Feel free to join in it seems.

This a long one, and I have no children, but if I did..

Goddess Daughter

Two hearts in mind in time
come together and share a dream
To hold to grow
turning love to gold
and so creation is born anew

Daughter mine
we have the time
to spend together now
So much like your mother
now I have no other
My eyes are fixed apon you

But you'll grow up
and our days are such
that life will lead us on
You'll grow so bold
in your arms infold
Another your lips proclaim

Now I'm gone, time moves on
Your daughter now your dream
she'll hold, she'll grow
turn love to gold
and so creation is born anew.

By Optional

RE: newbie

Welcome and salutations! (doffs hat)

I gotta tell ya, they are pretty welcoming around here.
Probably has something to do with looking for a nice person to talk to.

RE: Don't

May I post something?

Figer tips touch
we're worlds away
a chance meeting
but we can't stay

I with my man
and you with yours
A heart beat seperates
and a set of closed doors

By Optional

RE: Are these really MUGSHOTS?

Everyone knows that if you don't look like a disgruntled postal worker in your pic that you are one of the following: You like to cut out pictures from your sisters mags, you are about to die of some horrible disease, or you made a deal with the devil.
If your passport photo is anything like you, you are too sick to travel.

Rude boys

Oh I dare...I just didn't realise there were so many people who come from the same ward as me!

Rude boys

Cheers, It's nice to find a free site for once!
Just having a quick look at the other threads...some interesting/disturbing trains of thought out there!

Rude boys

Hey there chat bunny's!
I was wondering if it was rude to just drop in on people's discussion threads with no introduction.
So I thought I'd put it strait and say hi, feel free to chat, I don't offend easily and I'll do my best to be coherant.

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