I can't (it seems) give a real hug to someone too thin, and if they are too big I feel like I'm going to be crushed, but then I am quite short and not very broad. If I was into chicks I think I would like the average sized woman.
I think that what you do to others affects your soul, and what affects your soul manifests it's self again in your life. To pratice destrutive behaviour only leads to more of the same as this is what we are training ourselves to do and tollerate.
Because of my first love, I know what love is and when I'm not in it. My first love though wasn't as strong a feeling as my best love and yes I really do wish for that again.
For me I see it as the worlds way of showing you the opposite side of the coin, like a lesson, not harsh as such, just equal to what you put out there, and if you don't learn the lesson this time around, next time will be waiting and you'll end up a better person for it.
My opinion won't matter to you one jot, but as far as warm fuzzies go concerning people who have been dead for 2005+, I would say it's an over active imagination and the result being similar to the placibo effect. However on the up side, you are at least able to have fun feeling good, so big thumbs up for you!:)
As for helping people, I'm a great believer in teaching people to swim, not in handing out water wings. A direct approach for help will get you a good result but also less help from me in the future if you don't put my advice to the test. If you did take my advice and put it to the test and the whole thing gets worse....come around and give me a peice of your mind.:)
Funny you should say that, I get told that I get hit on all the time, but I never notice it, nver have never will in all likely hood, I recon the only people do notice it are the ones think everyone is hitting on them and get it right occassionally! So ah if anyone does have a thing for me....tell me strait up!:)
Dear god slider you've done it again, I really sit here with my mouth open at the stuff you write, I also copy a lot of your work for my private collection, have you ever thought about putting your work into a book?
I also find it funny, you know the puns and confusion, a name like Optional can cause. It was along the lines of the 'Don't know' party in this years election.
I just find the idea of 'Secluded among you' to be a real thought stiring line.
There is so much that this inspires, so I have an idea. I'm going to start a thread with just a line, I'd love it if every one followed by posting a poem that uses the line in it somewhere.
I would like to say that although people are unaware of it, when I do remember their name they should be proud of themselves, for they did soemthing that made them stand out from the crowd, however this isn't always a good thing......:)
The only thing I find troublesom about my job is the pure wash of humanity..I go out somewhere and some random person will come up to me expect that I'll remember them from two days ago, fact is I personaly serve approx 3000 people a week, (not a typo)! That's 300 mains a night, 500-900 drinks a night and none of this includes entree or desert. I take people away from their problems for one night and make them feel like princes's of the universe and I'm proud to do it. But expect me to remember you? It would be nice if I could.
For all that I speak of accepting genuine compliments, my first instinct is that you flatter me.
But you're not.
My job is to walk up to people who have just tried to get Granny in the car, wipe the kids nose, make sure that the stoves off and the pets fed, the oldest has brought back the vehicle of this expidition with enough gas in the tank to get them to the restraunt, find out their bookings been cancelled or their party has been expanded or contracted by 15 covers, and still put them at ease and show them that all they need to do is relax and I'll take care of the details, in under two minutes. So yeah. I can talk to people, thankyou Slider.
Hard ride ahead. The way I quite was somebody I was really into offered to kiss me for every day I didn't smoke and I had to come and collect every day. I didn't take me long to realise he wasn't fooled and I managed to quit. Having said that, you will need for this project... 1.One mode of transport to reach the person of your lust. 2.The will to throw away all the cigaretts and any equipment to smoke them with, (papers, filter, zipo's) anything you directly associate with smoking. 3.A phone to call ahead and tell them you are comming to collect. 4.A rough agreement on how long it takes to actually quit in case the object of your desire feels you are not the object of their desire.
How can I be so dispairing when you are full of joy How can I be so lazer-like and you so passivley content
How can I bleed my sorrows and you hide your accomplishments Why must I wallow in the mire when you fly above it all
I struggle with a word of truth when you would wither and die if a lie passed your teeth How can I be me and you be you It's the union that makes me whole separately in control of each other
Hey a few people here have said that they would like to know me outside of the forums, if you take the time to email me and just blather for a bit, I will get back to everyone and that's a promise. I'm happy to say that I've built a good relationship (admittedly email based only) with TabooN, and I know there are others I would love to hear from. :)
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RE: how do you like your women/men :large and in charge or thin as a pin
I can't (it seems) give a real hug to someone too thin, and if they are too big I feel like I'm going to be crushed, but then I am quite short and not very broad.If I was into chicks I think I would like the average sized woman.