I talked to mother just today she told me daddy ran away Now everything's about to change I sort for words I could not find A thousand questions filled my mind How could he throw it all away?
A beating heart a tender kiss love is so much more than this Alway's given and never giveng up I know the man I want to be Iv'e seen enough of misery Now it's time for me to be free
Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself in this matter, I told someone once on no uncertain terms that I hated them touching me and time wasn't going to make it any better. You can't work when you're worried about something like that becuase you are always waiting for them to come around again. Tell her she'd be better off leaving you alone, it's not cute, it's not funny and you won't come around. Other that than I suggest you hire a drunken mess off the street (you might have to pay them a bit:) and get him to follow her around like a love sick puppy and see how she likes it.
Doesn't it depend on who you're being nice to? If you are nice to your competition, then yes, you're screwed I suppose. 'oh you want to date her? oh sure be my guest, I can wait...oh your engaged? Why didn't I see that comming?' If you mean general nice attitude then nice only goes so far, if someone treats you like dirt, let em know, if your boss screws your pay, don't roll over, if your friend says sorry, give em a hug. A nice guy isn't always nice, he's real.
If they don't turn you on physically, then... 1. do you hold out for one that does? 2. try to find something about them that does? 3. call it a loss and start a physical relationship anyway? 4. don't care as long as they care about you?
There's lots of other choices, I'd love to hear some honest answers.
Me, I'd rather sleep with someone who turns me on and I love, occassionally it's been both, but more often than not in the past I've settled for someone who is just a great person. This seems a bit sad really but is probably a good reflection of reality and available choice.
Ooops!:) Hi, I'm glad you've joined us, feel free to look around, you'll find all sorts of weird things lurking under our couches. Warning, this place is addictive so grab your favourite poison and settle in to your most comfy computer chair.
As the sands shift cool benieth your feet by the light of the dead end moon Your haunted fingers on my skin so sweet Your hair the darkest hue
Like a cherub left to gather moss like a ship without a sail that's tossed like a vassel to his kingdom lost My soul so pales
Oh my lonely heart Oh my souless boy will you ever let me go?
I don't want to cry no more and here I wander aimlessly I just want to find the cure to my growing weakness
From on top of Moorish wall I stand I see the valley stretching The mists of sea's are pulling in from this cliff I'm stranded
Embedded in your body deep I found the answer to my question Like a garden hidden from the key how long I've waited?
Oh dark lover, my only salvation if only to hold you in blessed suspension Eyes that hold midnight smiles that bring out the light Strange fascination My only placation
I don't wanna cry no more and you know I wander aimlessly I just wanna find the cure To this infernal sadness.
And If you want to hear this sung, send me an E-mail address to my private message box, I promise you will not be dissapointed.
I would like to add that to my delighted suprise, everyone who has written to me, has been very kind if not prompt. I also realise that some of you have lives that go on while I just waste away if front of the computer.:)
So what about two guys, who foots then? Do you know that this can be the place where gay dates can fall down rather badly. What usually happens is the first date is footed by the person who has done the most initiation, but the clear winner of this game is the one who says any given variation on ' I would like to take YOU out to...'
RainbowSlider, this guy doesn't have to write verse for poetry to stream out of his soul.
'For YOU were the child born under Bethliehem's star love incarnate, a piece of God, blessed with an Angels voice and the embrace the prodigal son longs for'
CajunFroggy, You seem a very warm lady, I can imagine (if it's not to rude) that your child gets the best you have to give.
StarlitIsBright, You have no internal filter! Actually I've seen it come out to play sometimes, it's just that you cut through the crap faster than speeding prunes:)
CuteLittleDevilsMom, Your welcomes to the new ones are always so warm, I feel like I can smell home baking every time I read your stuff.
TabooN, You make me laugh plain and simple and I'm enjoying or private conversations as well.
DamnItsCloudy, There is an artform to being grubby without ever becoming filthy, I bow to the Mastur...er Master.;)
Flthrottle, I have only seen a small pic of you but you are beautiful and respectful, I hope some of the guys out there hurry up and realise what they could have (if you'll let them).
As I write this I realise that I would like to say more to all of the people who post here, as I get to know you I will. I have very little time to visit now so I wanted to say something nice. A semi parting gift for a semi leaving, but things have changed around the home and the phones are going to be needed more often. Good day to all.
I've noticed that people don't seem to mind if the picture they are seeing is not off the person they are talking to, it's as if somehow a picture of anything is more acceptable than nothing at all. Perhaps we feel that the picture chosen lets us see something of their personality and this re-assures us quite a bit. Why don't you submit something that is obviously not your picture but an expression of your personality?
I come from a country where marmite and it's mate vegemite are considered food of the gods. I always thought that marmite came with a red lid (oh found some! Hmmm..packed in 1998 best before 2006!) and vegemite came with a yellow lid. Marmite in NZ is the more popular of the two, and if you ask me they taste almost the same.
With all due respect, what are grits? I have read about them (thanks steven king) I have heard of them in song lyrics (thanks tom lera) But what, other than a food eaten in the south, is it? and tounges and fingers?
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RE: Whats the most important thing to you in a M/F relationship?
Someone who can introduce me to their gay friends?:)Really?
Someone who says what they are really thinking.