Sure you'll get the 'I'm so and so, I loved your profile email me at xxx. But you'll get that anywhere! Click on 'viewed me', chances are that they haven't. Just block 'em and move on - You'll get a LOT of 'scam paranoia' here, but you soon learn.
The one to look out for is Morgan above me - VERY dodgy, and very fun - Hiya toots
A previous job meant I hardly drank in 15 years (lots of driving). Now, I'm happy to be 'designated driver'. I can enjoy my night without the pressure of 'go on have a beer' from my peers.
Don't get me wrong, I LOVE a bottle of cider or 3 or a JD and Diet Coke, and will happily get tipsy at the right time or place. But it's through choice and not as a need to enjoy the evening. Give me good food, better conversation and a bunch of laughs and my evening is perfect.
Gawd No! I'm as obnoxious in real life as online ;). Can't be arsed with all those games. I'm a 'warts n all' guy.
You're right about Spain and it's family values. I have somtimes wondered how my lie would have been if I'd grown up here instead of UK (I'm 1/2 Spanish - or Spanglish as some on here have called me). But I had a VERY British upbringing - wasn't even taught the language!
There are LOTS of things wrong with Spain, but The Family is still an important thing is most people's lives and a value that IK would do well to emulate.
I couldn't date a Spanish 'princess'. The are all sooo 'precious'. I like a bit of adventure, humour and wickedness.
Cheers Jan, Did I come across as down? I never meant too. There's a big difference between sadness and lonliness. I'm not sad at ALL, and ONLY lonely in RL - Weekends can be a right pain when all you do is sit at home, but I'm still far from being sad about it. I've been very used to my own company on and off for many years. Things will change on the RL lonliness front and, by the end of this year, everything will be back on track - in fact a whole lot better than it has been for MANY years. This year's ending well...
I have to agree with Dragonfly - I don't believe in 'one person' for you. I believe you can find someone, find an interest/connection and then it's all down to dedication and hard work.
Having spent MANY years as a professional entertainer, performing to 1,000s of people, I surprise myself with just how reluctant I am to socialise with groups of 5 or 6 or more - weird.
Cool - I'll cross everything and hope it works out for you - I'm feeling generous.
It always come whenyouleast expect it, or when you finally give up - I guess the self imposed pressure is off and you relax, that positive 'cleansing' suddenly makes you both more attractive and more receptive and BAM - You're Jackiedd - Congrats hon!
I may have to move up your end? My social life is non existent!
My las 2 Long Term relationships have BOTH been from online sources - one was 6 years long (terrible relationship) and the other 3 years. It CAN work, it DOES work and, I believe it ceates a level playing field for many inhibited people out there. However, on a FREE site, you'll ALWAYS get what you pay for member-wise...
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When do Zebedee and Dougal make an appearance?
RE: FNG
Welcome. It's a madhouse here.Sure you'll get the 'I'm so and so, I loved your profile email me at xxx. But you'll get that anywhere! Click on 'viewed me', chances are that they haven't. Just block 'em and move on - You'll get a LOT of 'scam paranoia' here, but you soon learn.
The one to look out for is Morgan above me - VERY dodgy, and very fun - Hiya toots