You find the time. You make the time. If needs be, you invent a time machine to give you the extra time. You can go bowling any night. But 'she' may not be there forever!
If you don't think she's WORTH the time, then there IS no relationship!!
I'm like you. I can drink Bacardi and (diet) coke all night or whiskey/bourbon and diet. No issues whatsoever. And hardly get tipsy. (and I'm talking Spanish measures here)...
But give me a couple of glasses of wine or 2/3 beers and I can feel it big time...
Saying that, I've not had any alcohol since Oct/Nov time.....
I once did a 2 hour round trip to see my g/f. She was down and wanted to be alone. I knocked on her door, gave her a massive hug and drove off. She told me later it made her day, but as I also got somethign out of it - it was STILL selfish. I wasn't after 'getting some'. Just to let her know she wasn't alone, but I still got something back.
RE: Would you make the time??
You find the time. You make the time. If needs be, you invent a time machine to give you the extra time. You can go bowling any night. But 'she' may not be there forever!If you don't think she's WORTH the time, then there IS no relationship!!