Does one have to be a regular to the forums to get a pin on the map?? I only have a few posts here. Nearest big city for me is Flint ,Michigan. Its a nice place to visit but you wouldnt want to live there. We now have the highest unemployment rate in the country.
LOL,, this could be the case some of the time,,but not all. I am not married and dont think I am ugly. I have had a pic of myself up for about 2 weeks,just took it off yesterday.
LOL,, I did not remove my pic just because of my post here. I am not that ashamed of my remark.It wasnt that bad. I know alot of people from my area,very well known.. Really should not have put a pic there in the first place. And if I am going to post on these forums,,,well,, with a pic,, is really broadcasting myself. It is all good.
Not really a date ,but I met this girl in the bar,,bought her drinks all night long as we sat and talked.At the end of the night we was pretty buzzed,,, she decided she liked my friend more and he took her home with him. Was not so funny that night but the next day I seen the humour in it.
I probally shouldnt have posted. I dont read all the threads ,so I really dont know. But it seems unlikly that you get treated so bad you need to post a thread about it. What I have noticed ,,for the most part,, one gets what they give. If this is happening alot,, maybe you should look at what you are saying and see if it can be taken in a way you didnt mean. But like I said, I dont know and maybe you are correct.Sorry I really should not have chimmed in on this.
I read this whole thread?? dont know why. But you must be very popular if you think the post are refering to you. How do you know that?? Or is it in your imagination. I have not seen any directed at YOU. Dont make much sense to me. But maybe you can send the mean girls a flower and ask why, you might get a different answer than you exspect. Maybe they are just having fun with you.
Well thank you, I am over it,, I learned for sure.(What a terrible way to learn) Since this has been brought back up.I'll give an update. Their profile is still there, but has not logged in since. I have had no response from them and quit trying after a few times.I finally sent one last e-mail saying I was sorry,and not to let this stop them and I was completly baffled on what/why this happened. With no response. As you can see, I do think she was real,gut feeling, she was a first timer at this too. But at this point it does not matter. I have been talking to someone else and seems to be going well. Thanks for all the responses on this BTW.
I think the man should be prepared and exspect to pay on the first date. Assuming that he is making the plans for the date. Dinner ,movie or whatever,,, But if she decides wants do something that would be very exspensive then it may change things,, at least for me. One other thought,, if the connection is great, and all seems as though there is a great chance for a future date and time together. I would pay for everything. IMO
I have seen this b4,, I can work for some it seems. I knew a couple that had some serious arguements, yelling and physical when they first got together. Seemed they learned to talk to each other ,,as you say. I witnessed this, would say some terrible things to each other at times with that Humor you spoke of. It worked for them, did not get into any serious fights after that and was together for many years more.Must have eased the tension, I guess. They were a unique couple though. I dont think it works for most.
For the first 3 weeks after I joined, thought I found the perfect girl.CS was the best thing since sliced bread. Until I got dumped in a terrible way, sent to a dead address and then no more contact. Had it not been for that ,,,I would have never even looked at the forum page. Although these forums are addicting. Could be,, all the folks that are taking risks and having fun, maybe laying in bed together or out to dinner right now. Have never opened the forum page,,,,, lol
This is one of your earlier post above: And one recently below:
Look, you made a fool out of yourself with this incident and that's it. Now don't add the trappings of a clown by continuing to perform in this prolonged thread. Learn from your mistakes and move on or would you rather endlessly whine about this and stay naive. You're 40 years old aren't you?
Am I not a online contact or do you know me. I am not Naive but I did get caught offgaurd on this,I dont feel I made a fool of myself at all! As far as the thread being long, I never exspected this many responses. I am amazed to see so many comment on this, I had no idea and almost didnt post. Had it not been for your comments ,the thread would probally only be 8 pages long.There is no endlees whine and thread could have ended at the post just b4 your last. A persons age in this format really doesnt matter if they are not informed. You seem you have alot of exspierience online but your last post,,, hmmmm,, what was your point???
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RE: im single...!!!!!!ready 2 mingle
You are a bad girl,,,,