Reading humans, is a ability that most of us posses, Players, see them-self as being above, being read,seeing them self as insulated & in control, Many soon find -out they are getting played-with, then wonder why they feel alone, even though they appear to be, the center of the party.
I've decided to go,it take a wile to get there,I may be gone a wile, its a good place to be, but I always like to get back to where I prefer to be, & start to make plans to go somewhere....Just to return later.
Often what we see in others, ( people we meet)lets us know how shallow & selfish some people are, imagine meeting a woman/man & this type of problem never came-up, then one day the problem arrives,u have to help-out your family, & it is only at that moment u find-out the value of your partner, The "VALUE",is showing u what would happen "IF" you got sick, & was a burden on your partner, this could happen at 30, or 65, the moment will arrive when the Value is exposed,
Good luck with the folk's at home, & don't worry about cheap shallow minded people, u should thank these people for letting u know how they think, there value's etc, there are some great people out-there & one will come knocking one day, But in the mean-time, maybe buy a dog, they are very good value, & don't have hidden negative traits......
I f one wanted to find a date, I don't think this is a place to look, this appears to be more of a place of Eggo's, bragging, how good "I am", & chatting in little groups, But that serves as a very good community thing,
Nothing wrong with making friends & chatting, !!!!
It could be a good time to reflect on how one treated there love one's before, its never to late, just be a nice person to all people, none judgmental etc,
one thing in life is a fact,many people have serious mental problems, depression being one that slowly can lead to other stuff, one view is that, it don't matter how bad it gets, if u move, change a job, take some money & travel for a bit, working when u can, are just tricks to smooth-over the bad times,
A close friend of mine gave me a hand tagging some cattle, next day he shot him self, found-out his wife had taken the kids & moved -in with a guy in Sydney,
I often wonder, If he had just sold-up & walked away,
It is a good move to just sell-up, & move away, meet other People, & find a new path to travel,
My other friend took-up fiddle playing, he always played a bit, but he got right-into it now, & made that his life, he don't mess with relationships anymore.
Bonding being an energy: Like "thought" process, of painting a picture or writing,or writing a song/tune, it is an invisible energy... Unconscious instinct to act, the thought being the energy. uuumm, interesting......
It is for sure that I am fishy, one of the most & dearest past times for me is to cook seafood for friends, with a splash of white wine or sit in a good seafood restaurant with friends & music,
There some fine restaurants around the Mediterranean, From France to Spain, even the sth coast of England, & the sth coast of Ireland...one should always strive to be a little fishy......
There are so great fiddles in Scotland, & Hope to soon be over that way, trad Irish/Scottish music is a great lover for me, very seductive & never say no....
Never be concerned with what people think, or there opinion of u, You have more than enough Ora to put most people to shame, Your writing is kind & generous to others, your smile would melt steel, so speak-out, u need to be heard,
I think u follow threads very well, this is evident when u say nothing, To read a person is to debate & never say a word.
Y'a good point, if I had a choice, I would maybe get stoned more & not have to play as much music,, but then the music is addictive, & I banter with folk ....new word for me....banter !!!!
Nice statement, & so very true, none of us have the slightest clue of who we are talking to, what the people on here do each day, work, unemployed, in prison, sick in bed, so, as u say, at the end of the day, It just don't matter....
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have fun...
or sit in a good seafood restaurant with friends & music,
good by all....
Thanks for y'a company, I'm off here for a wile, time to move-on, take care all.ps: don't bother to post, cos, I am gone.....