I'm quite serious! If there are particular ones you want, let me know. I don't know that much about them as I have a very " caucasian" stomach around spicy foods
I think regret, like guilt, is a luxury emotion. It's not necessary in our lives but most seem to afford themselves that "little extra". It doesn't actually contribute to a more positive focus for ourselves and as everyone knows, there are enough clowns out there that will try to bring you down so you don't need to contribute to a negative yourself
Having said that, I don't have regret because it's not within my power to alter or change an event that has occurred. Same with guilt.
English I can almost feel your pain when you talk about your Mum. I wish there was some way that I could convince you that I'm positive your mum knows how very dearly you love her. Even if you sit alone and think of her, I'm sure she's looking down at you, smiling, and soothing your hair trying to comfort you. And the words "I love you too" are what you hear if you listen
Put that wonderful energy forward to honouring her, and not so much in chiding yourself
Is it really that or are they just letting off some steam from having been "responsible" for everything for so long? Especially if you weren't happy, as is your case. After you come out of a bad relationship, there seems to be a sense of relief and peace, coupled with a happiness that was missing for a long time.
I'm discovering that quite a few people feel that they need to be with someone in order to be happy or content. That "settling" isn't out of the realm of choices, and unless they are ultimately "partnered", they aren't "complete".
Why is that? Is it social conditioning? Fear? Human nature? All the things that a partner can bring to your life, close friends too can contribute. Well other than the obvious. But is it so horrible being single? I personally love the freedom and choices that it gives to me.
And certainly not to start a war (please!! no wars) but it does appear that it's often times women who feel this way?
Well thank god I'm a woman and I in Canada. Seriously though, if you look, they aren't connected. Although I don't think determining who should get the kids based on who has medical insurance is such a good idea either? I had heard that but I don't know if it's true
RE: Where would you rather live ?
by warm oceans and gentle breezes.... so where ever that may be