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RE: E-flings?

^^^^ there is that woman again who keeps chasing me around asking me to lower my towel!
hug

RE: Your True Self!

Oi! Nothing "lil" about it!
very mad

RE: Your True Self!

You cut me to the quick.
crying

RE: Your True Self!

I believe that the site owners will have that pretty much covered in the fine details of there rules before you sign up to the site?

As long as the mods are acting with due diligence then they will be fully immune,however even the poster has "get outs"...( They can argue that they had there username used by a third party etc.

RE: How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?

I have not met anyone from this site. I much prefer exchanging silly emails amongst people from the forums and being casual about it. I would not say never but I do have a cynical attitude towards dating sites and the possibilities of anything progressing further than just friendship.

RE: Universal poll. The most arogant nation in the world!

I do think that the french have a lot to be proud about,as should most other nations.But it is how you treat others.I have lost count of the number of Countries I have visited and the Parissien men are an embarrassment to there own Countrymen with there arrogant attitude.I have been told this by a few none Parissien french.

RE: Keep ex as friend?

I have no issues with an ex thinking that way,but as long as there is no negative agenda and both are happy to check on how each other are doing then I am happy to oblige usually.

RE: Keep ex as friend?

There is no real answer to this question because it depends on each individual case.You have to respect that some people simply prefer to cut all contact because that is how they deal best with the ending of a relationship.
If staying friends means there will only be positive reasons for both of you to do so then yes I think it is great.You can always change your mind if it becomes negative for either of you.
There is only one partner that I am not in some form of contact with and I am very happy about that.

No one likes constant reminders of there bad choices or mistakes.

RE: What type of working man is most attractive

I have been reliably informed that a sheep tied to a lamppost is what the welsh call a community centre.
wink

RE: If it seems too good to be true?????

This is absolutely true.
A very lovely women I have got to know well in real life broke from her very abusive partner and was at a very low ebb. Due to nurturing her kids and licking her wounds she did not date for years.The once she found the internet she was conned out of something like 40k.
The most lovely trusting and greatest mum you could think of.
But,the truth is that it is the most vulnerable,trusting and caring that usually get done over by those with an agenda.
Especially online.
hug

RE: How do you feel about a woman who has children? Would you date her?

In all honesty. A women who has reached a certain age without having children in my experience can come with less baggage (let us not think of "baggage" as always being a dirty word)but with other more selfish attributes.
A woman does change considerably once she becomes a mum,and her mindset changes with it.Even those who had a carefree attitude switch to a mindset of nurture,caring,home building and seeing things in a what is most important way.
A women without children after a certain age may well see things in a much more selfish way,and things that a mother of the same age may deal with without a second though may be exploded into the biggest thing ever for her to have to deal with.So it goes on!

Basically,I do believe that is some ways many,but not all,woman do not come into there own if or until they become mothers.
Just my opinion.

RE: Jealousy

RE: Jealousy

What do you mean a man of my size?
How very dare you!

I wish my kids would stop videoing me while I am relaxing!
very mad

RE: Jealousy

Envious?
dunno

RE: Jealousy

You are directly relating to the interaction in this forum of the sites posters,the way they interact with each other and how they wish to portay themselves within that and be seen by others.

The vast majority have never met each other and the bonds are not the same as in real life at all.

The emotion in that context is envy and not jealousy as I indicated in my previous posts.
Sorry to hijack your thread on the differences between the two.

RE: Jealousy

What you have quoted is not the op!

RE: How do you feel about a woman who has children? Would you date her?

It sounds like a women who has been bitten by the love em and leave em type.

RE: Jealousy

The OP.

RE: Jealousy

It is clearly not in relation to the op.
If you agree with the two differences that I have outlined then it is clear what your talking about is in fact envy.

RE: Jealousy

cheers

RE: Jealousy

The main difference between envy and jealousy is that envy occurs when you covet something that another person has or is striving to obtain, while jealousy manifests when you fear the loss of someone or something already in your life.

Envy generally brings strong emotional reactions related to anger and deceit; jealousy can very often bring about paranoia, feelings of insecurity and fear.

RE: Jealousy

So,given the above,what you are really talking about in this thread is mostly ENVY!

RE: Jealousy

Jealousy is a forceful emotion that can present itself in several different ways--often with feelings of anger, hurt, paranoia, doubt or fear.

It occurs most frequently when you fear losing something or someone you already are in possession of, such as when your mate shows an interest in someone else. Jealousy is related very closely to your self-esteem and self-image in that the less confident you are about yourself, the more likely you are to view a situation jealously.

Jealousy occurs most often in relationships and can cause hurt feelings and conflicts between you and your loved ones when not immediately identified and dealt with in a rational manner, such as controlling your reaction by recognizing and suppressing the jealousy or making a humorous remark rather than an angry one.

RE: what realy turns you on.

I am turned on by a mix of intelligence, wisdom and beauty,plus the thoughts of such a women being interested in me.
But I am not bitter!
yay

RE: Are you a good listener?

So if a married man was totally honest with you from the start?
dunno

RE: Friends with Benefits!!!

Some people are simply at a stage in there life,for whatever reason, to not want/need/or be capable of having anything other than something more casual that fits in with there life at this point.

The alternative is chastity and possibly loneliness for them.
Wanting a FWB does not mark out a person as being disappointing except for someone who has been rejected because they want more.

RE: if u r 40+ seperated woman.will u b mine?

Only one rule,no tongues.
I reserve that for the women.
tongue

RE: if u r 40+ seperated woman.will u b mine?

I suspect that he is latent,but so far he has rejected my advances.
But I shall keep banging away.(Pardon the pun)
wow

RE: Ladies, which do you prefer beer gut or toned bod on your man?

That was taken after 6 weeks at a health farm.I have filled out a lil since then.
wink

RE: Ladies, which do you prefer beer gut or toned bod on your man?

I am fed up with my two kids videoing me while I'm relaxing at the beach!

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