How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step? ( Archived) (31)

Jul 6, 2010 6:09 AM CSTHow many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
Native1Queen
Native1QueenNative1QueenLake Elsinore, California, USA3 Threads 3 Polls 1 Posts

How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?(Vote Below)

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One email
9
12%
Four to Five emails
18
23%
A email and chat for a while
29
38%
To many to count
21
27%
Total Votes
77
I just wondered how many people send emails, then conect then take the next step. Does a conection really happen over the net?
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Jul 6, 2010 6:13 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Native1Queen: I just wondered how many people send emails, then conect then take the next step. Does a conection really happen over the net?


just one....

than they block me.... and get a restricting order uh oh
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Jul 6, 2010 6:14 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
Boban1: just one....

than they block me.... and get a restricting order


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 6, 2010 6:14 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
Native1Queen: I just wondered how many people send emails, then conect then take the next step. Does a conection really happen over the net?
Yea,it is very possible ,many peoples met online On cs also some couples got married wine hug
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Jul 6, 2010 6:17 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Native1Queen: I just wondered how many people send emails, then conect then take the next step. Does a connection really happen over the net?
About three if they are close enough to meet you in person. A couple phone calls and then, if all goes well, meet in person. Whole safety protocol for first meeting

Connection on the net? I sure hope so! good luck!handshake
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Jul 6, 2010 6:37 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
How many steps are there.....confused
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Jul 6, 2010 6:38 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
bob1959: About three if they are close enough to meet you in person. A couple phone calls and then, if all goes well, meet in person. Whole safety protocol for first meeting

Connection on the net? I sure hope so! good luck!




Protocol....professor you do know that I am a serial killer....laugh
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Jul 6, 2010 6:39 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Boban1: just one....

than they block me.... and get a restricting order



Your kidding me......they need their heads examined....passing up a good thing like you....grin
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Jul 6, 2010 6:42 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
stefonline: Your kidding me......they need their heads examined....passing up a good thing like you....


well you know me..... the big joker ...

I usually stalk them , till they panic and give in ...devil
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Jul 6, 2010 6:52 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
stefonline: Protocol.... you do know that I am a serial killer....
oh, you're poor dinner date! Did you eat his liver with some Faber beans and a nice Chianti.
rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 8, 2010 4:06 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
BBWfansdream
BBWfansdreamBBWfansdreamGlenorchy, Tasmania Australia4 Threads 133 Posts
Native1Queen: I just wondered how many people send emails, then conect then take the next step. Does a conection really happen over the net?

Depends on what you consider the next step!
I'd wait for at least 2 e-mails, a flower, 1 e-card and before you hand over your msn, and even that doesn't mean it will ends up a huge mistake!
devil (see my blog re bad local connection!)


Sorry guys...feeling very bitter, twisted & pessimistic today!
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Jul 8, 2010 4:11 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
2-3 mails, then chat via MSN or skype for a couple of days, then talk properly either on the phone or again by skype,

and I would want to meet if localish, within a couple of weeks..
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Jul 8, 2010 4:20 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
Native1Queen: I just wondered how many people send emails, then conect then take the next step. Does a conection really happen over the net?


Locally, I'm looking to get offline right away.


My introductory emails look this this/...



Hi Superhawty187,


I noticed in your profle you like walking on the beach.


I like walking on the beach too.


I'd like to take you to dinner and see how we get along,

is Friday or Saturday better for you?



I'll understand if you'd like to get to know

each other a little bit first.





Respectfully,

Iwantooseeyounaked673
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Jul 10, 2010 5:15 PM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
Yes a connection can happen. I known.

The Dobe reunion
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Jul 10, 2010 6:08 PM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
lardzeppelin
lardzeppelinlardzeppelinunknown, Clare Ireland10 Threads 3 Polls 300 Posts
A half dozen decent e-mails and then the "dreaded" phone call...
really, i hate having to rely on just one of the five senses to make what is essentially the "first meet"...(sight and smell being the other practicals, in case your thinking i move a bit to quickly!)
great on the "face offs", no confidance issues...
so, 3 steps...e-mail/msn(yahoo, whatever)...phone...visual...
re connection...not till a couple of meets...if you get no reply after first meet to sent mails consider it off...
i personally would not hassle a woman with phone calls if mails were not replied to post meet...
others may dissagree...
Lard...thumbs up
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Jul 10, 2010 6:12 PM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
None, I don't really do emails to men here. A connection doesn't always happen that way anyway.

Mind you it's much easier to connect offline. with a bit of...flirty laugh and body language.
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Jul 10, 2010 6:14 PM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
iaintnohomo
iaintnohomoiaintnohomosanfrancisco yipeee, California USA32 Posts
Native1Queen: I just wondered how many people send emails, then conect then take the next step. Does a conection really happen over the net?


its funny i was on here the other day, chatting with all my friends then i went out my front door for fresh air, and a woman i had met a month ago just was walking by, and i got her phone number, so you never know wave
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Jul 10, 2010 6:21 PM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
lardzeppelin: A half dozen decent e-mails and then the "dreaded" phone call...
really, i hate having to rely on just one of the five senses to make what is essentially the "first meet"...(sight and smell being the other practicals, in case your thinking i move a bit to quickly!)
great on the "face offs", no confidance issues...
so, 3 steps...e-mail/msn(yahoo, whatever)...phone...visual...
re connection...not till a couple of meets...if you get no reply after first meet to sent mails consider it off...
i personally would not hassle a woman with phone calls if mails were not replied to post meet...
others may dissagree...
Lard...


I know what you mean. It's always easier in real life dating. You both know what you are getting into immediately, from the physically attractiveness aspect at least, and of course the little you may have gleaned from a few hours chatting with music blaring in the background. laugh

Give me real life dating any day. I know where I am immediately, whether that works out in the long term is a different story, but it's a more honest and open scenario imo.
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Jul 14, 2010 1:52 PM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
Native1Queen: I just wondered how many people send emails, then conect then take the next step. Does a conection really happen over the net?

whats the next step
meetingdunno
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Jul 15, 2010 8:13 PM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
kidmak
kidmakkidmakLaunceston, Tasmania Australia1 Threads 471 Posts
Weeellll, we emailed for four weeks, spoke on the phone many times,......as i had the car, i travelled down to wellington to met him, which i did and then, i bailed as soon as i could. He wasn't anything like his photo, and weeeellll..nowthing like he came across be email or phone. Can't believe that all you guys out there are dishonest....so i am still here.dunno confused
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Jul 17, 2010 3:30 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
oldfoxyguy
oldfoxyguyoldfoxyguyLarnaca, Cyprus12 Threads 5 Polls 513 Posts
stefonline: Protocol.... you do know that I am a serial killer....


I have been known to kill a box of cereal too. A scary outcome of a pent up desire for breakfast with Milk and a cut up Banana. smitten
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Jul 17, 2010 3:31 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
Native1Queen: I just wondered how many people send emails, then conect then take the next step. Does a conection really happen over the net?

what's the next step? meet up?confused
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Jul 17, 2010 3:34 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
Ocee35: Locally, I'm looking to get offline right away.My introductory emails look this this/...
Hi Superhawty187,I noticed in your profle you like walking on the beach.I like walking on the beach too.I'd like to take you to dinner and see how we get along,

is Friday or Saturday better for you?
I'll understand if you'd like to get to know

each other a little bit first.Respectfully,

Iwantooseeyounaked673

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
any success?bouquet
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Jul 17, 2010 3:39 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
oldfoxyguy
oldfoxyguyoldfoxyguyLarnaca, Cyprus12 Threads 5 Polls 513 Posts
JAN_is: I know what you mean. It's always easier in real life dating. You both know what you are getting into immediately, from the physically attractiveness aspect at least, and of course the little you may have gleaned from a few hours chatting with music blaring in the background.

Give me real life dating any day. I know where I am immediately, whether that works out in the long term is a different story, but it's a more honest and open scenario imo.


I can't agree. I think the regular dating scene can be far more phoney. I think people are more guarded in what they reveal to the other. Online, you have many opportunities to see how a person thinks through their posts in Forums etc. You get incite into what a person is like even without direct contact. Then, if you want to have some private talk you can. What happens next is up to both of you. If you meet and things don't go well, so be it. It was just another trial run.handshake
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Jul 17, 2010 3:42 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
trulee01
trulee01trulee01lake worth, Florida USA49 Threads 1 Polls 2,406 Posts
Native1Queen: I just wondered how many people send emails, then conect then take the next step. Does a conection really happen over the net?
Me and lovingheart2 sent 49 yes 49 emails between us the very first day we met.smitten Of course by that night we were talking on the phone.beer 30 something emails + phone calls all day we took the next step.applause cheering Now we share all our time on skype and my passport should be here any time now.heart beating heart beating yay yay heart wings
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Jul 17, 2010 3:44 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
911gypsy
911gypsy911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada17 Threads 1,343 Posts
Is there a step???? I will bug someone maybe twice then fo get about it....................pffffffffffffffffft 2 is my limit!!!If they dont get "it" then they are too stupid for me!!! lolrolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 17, 2010 3:46 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
Native1Queen: I just wondered how many people send emails, then conect then take the next step. Does a conection really happen over the net?


I could be anything up to 500 if this doesnt work then I stalk them, I just hound them till they break....laugh

When they break I lose interest as they are too easy....rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 18, 2010 3:15 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
Longtallcoolone
LongtallcooloneLongtallcooloneBathurst, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 59 Posts
trulee01: Me and lovingheart2 sent 49 yes 49 emails between us the very first day we met. Of course by that night we were talking on the phone. 30 something emails + phone calls all day we took the next step. Now we share all our time on skype and my passport should be here any time now.


Must be the guitar!applause
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Jul 18, 2010 3:38 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
BoyracerBMW
BoyracerBMWBoyracerBMWBerlin, Germany48 Threads 7 Polls 635 Posts
Because I'm IAR, I generally don't send mails to people, so there is no next step. I particularly ignore mails from beautiful women......





batting






....(holding my breath...)



laugh
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Jul 18, 2010 8:50 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
trulee01
trulee01trulee01lake worth, Florida USA49 Threads 1 Polls 2,406 Posts
Longtallcoolone: Must be the guitar!
laugh laugh Or maybe the song. dunno laugh cheers
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Jul 18, 2010 9:04 AM CST How many emails do you send to some one before taking the next step?
tightboxers
tightboxerstightboxersbrighton, West Sussex, England UK6 Threads 650 Posts
trulee01: Or maybe the song.

I have not met anyone from this site. I much prefer exchanging silly emails amongst people from the forums and being casual about it. I would not say never but I do have a cynical attitude towards dating sites and the possibilities of anything progressing further than just friendship.
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