It is not so much about desires of dating someone so much younger but about being realistic about what your desires are and what you are likely to achieve. You will constantly end up getting beaten up if you only ever punch way above your weight.
It seems like you have been a very responsible and considerate father.It is a mark of your intelligence that you have chosen not to paint your ex wife in a negative light to your daughter. However,it does appear to me that you have the responsibility as a father to reveal just enough about your ex to her in order for her to make a decision based on the facts she needs to know. Even if she does choose to find out for herself she will respect you for being open and honest with her,as well as explaining why you have not so far revealed the negative aspects of your ex wife to her. She could always come back to you? Good luck mate.
I think that in the vast majority of cases I can work out who is the appropriate one to date at my age? What I find more disturbing is when a member includes pictures of there children in there profiles,or allows their children to access their posts and the posts by others in here.
I did not see him getting "attacked" at all. What I spotted was a poster responding quite reasonably to a post. I do not see why you should have made your comment unless there was an off topic agenda?
Women (and men) are the same the world over if only we had the relevant tools to tune into there own cultures etc and get to know them.It is perception based on your own ideology and own expectations that make a particular type "boring". I find that the more open you are in your own mind,the more open others are to you. It is a mutual thing.
So by the post above,your not suggesting that your OP is refering to yourself or your own experience?If so then on what basis do you base the claim of your OP?
I am much more adept at giving compliments than receiving them.I think that that is because part of me does not expect it,depending on what the compliment is about. The important thing for me though is consistency.Never forget to compliment the people in your life because that can lead to complacency,apathy,and even negativity.
I know a mum who had kicked out her 18 year old daughter because she got involved with a boyfriend.Both myself and others comforted and chatted to this vulnerable daughter a lot during this time.She needed her confidence building after years of being made to feel inadequite by her mum as well as to feel confident about facing the outside world with little support. Over a year later her mum hacked her daughters emails and read her stuff.It resulted in her mum taking huge offense with people,threats of violence by anon men as well as one person being accused publicly of having some sort of affair with her daughter. Hacking is very unhealthy and it can result in those insecure hackers finding themself feeling even more paranoid and insecure than they did in the first place!
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RE: Over 40 guys dating younger women...
It is not so much about desires of dating someone so much younger but about being realistic about what your desires are and what you are likely to achieve.You will constantly end up getting beaten up if you only ever punch way above your weight.