Disagree. I've been seeing a man since the end of May. Am ALWAYS happy to see or hear from him. We ALWAYS have a wonderful time when we're together, but he still maintains his non-commitment status.
I believe most men realize they are in a perfect position to get what they want without having to give too much of themselves because there are so many women out there that are looking for men than there are men looking for wormen. If one woman doesn't like the non-commitment, he's not afraid to let her go because there'll always be another one right around the corner waiting for a man to look her way.
Saw a picture of someone who does that. Doesn't turn me on at all. But if you insist on it, then shave it ALL. Don't be hairy everywhere but a circle around your manhood. Very weird looking......
If you can't find a single girl worth even talking to here, it's only because you are not looking. And maybe a girl worth talking to won't bother talking to you because you won't even take the time to upload a picture.
Also slim pickings in my area. No point in falling in love with someone out of my area, though I almost did, and probably could if I let myself because there are some really great men that I've been reading on these forums.
I'm not certain either, that I really WANT someone I met from a dating site, especially after the thread a couple days ago about the woman who found out the man she committed to date exclusively is still trying to find other women on other dating sites.
I believe men get addicted to the thrill of having all us women falling all over ourselves to find a love match. They believe we are desperate and they take advantage of that. At least as long as we let them. Problem is, we're wasting time on these men who aren't seriously looking for happily ever after, but instead are looking for the here and now kind of thing. It takes time to weed out the players from the real deal. I've already wasted so much time in my life, I don't relish the idea of all the time it would take to weed out the riff raff.
It would be a lot easier if CS WERE a candy store. Then all the men would have accurate labels on them and we could take home just the candy we wanted.
I went to a hynotist to quit smoking. I did not believe I was asleep at any point during my visit, nor did I believe the hypnosis had worked so when he told us to leave our cigarettes and lighters on our chair as we were leaving, I left ONLY 1 lighter and the open pack of cigarettes. I kept another lighter and the closed pack.
I finally threw out that closed pack a few months later, when I was more confident that I was not going to want them again.
I still WANT to smoke (it's been 15 years since I have), and if I am ever diagnosed with cancer, the first thing I will do is go out and buy a pack of cigarettes!!!
I think of the first meeting as circumstance more than destiny. And I do believe that destiny can have something to do with people staying together. Some people can fight or ignore destiny, but some aren't strong enough.
Hasn't happened to me but I've only been here a short while. Something new for me to look forward to, I guess. And no, I will NOT be giving out my credit card information....
Jaygo1 Forum Posts (226)
Great idea. Thanks.
RE: Ladys @ Gentleman,How to keep a MAN coming back for more?
That makes a whole lot of sense...