Thanks Dixrog, I didn't mean to start a war, just wanted to know if being exclusive to just one person for the rest of your life was still important to men and women alike. I mean if for no other reason than the possibility of dying from a serious disease...isn't monogamy a smart and yes moral choice one is willing to make for his or her life partner. I'm very glad to see it's just as important to gentlemen as the ladies. I think there's a misconception that men aren't capable or willing to make such a committment, but this thread has given proof for the men willing to follow their heart and be steadfast in their choices. I appreciate everyone who took the time and effort to voice how they felt about this subject!
Hi everyone...used to run several miles every other day, and work out in the gym 3-4 times a week (minimally I worked out 5-6 days a week) Well you know how it is...you have kids (grown now-love them) and as a woman seems easy to put everyone and everything ahead of yourself, job, family, etc., etc...but now it's time for me to get back to racing 5k races...I'm a lady in my prime..still have great muscle tone (though it's hiding..hee!hee!) and I've joined a gym close to me..love to work out, but want the advice of my online friends of their experiences working out now that you're not 20 anymore..help, what's working for you guys and gals??? Then someone, everyone share your worst workout experience either at a gym, home or other..Help I need to be beautiful by May, daughter's getting married...
Chance..you go girlfriend!!! Wow, you going to give Z Man a run for his money with your beautiful words...my heart just is trying to take it all in. I've recently had a very special friend help take down the wall around my heart so I could love again...for this I am most grateful...and that person will be endeared by me for a very long time...I believe that was the reason that person came into my life..maybe not to stay...but to heal and resolve some pain I had felt...he is a precious friend to me...nothing more...nothing less...I hope I healed him some too...he was dealing with some unresolved pain as well...great when we can share and help each other out of our black pits that the experiences of life have flung us into...Chance, you are worthy of a special, gentle, precious fella...hope you find him soon, perhaps even on this online site.
Ohhh, colinjames you so sensitive...falling asleep talking together...haven't had that in so many years...heck, I had a hard time getting him to come to bed at the same time...one mistake I won't make again...if I marry...he and I will go nite nite at the same time...none of this I'm warming up the bed for him ever again.....besides I'm the one with the cold caboose....he needs to warm the bed...hee! hee!...colin, better be careful, us ladies will start swooning over you like we did Z Man when he wrote all those beautiful words the last day or two...I'll have to head up another posse to come and kidnap you..and that's way over the ocean for us girls...but heh you're worth it...if you've got this type lovely stuff inside your big ole heart...nite nite...zzz
Hurrah...another man of principles...see ladies, the selection of great men who are worth our wait grows...we nor they have to settle for the leftovers...it's prime rib night...
Glad to see there's men of principles here on this site, who are man enough to stand up for what they believe...hurrah...you're a dying bred, I hear...thanks for your input...glad you can live by more than your mere primal instincts...
Good point ponie..maybe I could have phrased it, do you love or would love your soulmate enough to be faithful for life? I'm just looking for anyone who believes committment in every sense of word is still attainable and worth the sacrifice of both people in the relationship. Still not seeing the guys bite on this one...oops, I know Lionhearted, I keep being descriptive with the wrong words..but where's the gent's??? Come on fellas, at least one lady in your life should have been worth this...(your Mom is not in this running..)
Body parts are great...but frankly I'm a voice lady...Josh Turner the country music singer.GRRRRR..so if the package is average, and the voice pushes my buttons...he better have eaten his Wheatees...
Ladies...speaking of testerone...notice so far there's none here....what does that say about staying power for the fellas??? Come on guys....is the word monogamy a "four" letter word here???
Just checking to see if in this day of disposable everything from paperplates to relationships if men and women alike believe they would or could be committed to just their soul mate, wife or husband until death do they part, just like it was meant to be from the beginning of time. Do you love your special someone enough to make that lifetime committment? Or if you don't have your soul mate yet, would you be monogamous with them once you found him or her? And tell us why you think this is important..
Sorry about the anniversary of your brother's death...know that must hurt..know we love ya..and we'll try to keep your spirits up..keep us in touch with what's going on inside...we'll be cheaper and more sincere than just about anyone in the yellow pages...hug>>
ColinJames, you rock...I'm with you...the simple life is the life for me...money is a cruel necessity to pay bills, etc...but never seen a hurst pulling a uhaul, so we can't take it with us...
Nope...wouldn't marry for money...never even considered it to tell you the truth...but also wouldn't marry any man who didn't have anything to show for his life either...anotherwords, I want a man who can manage his finances, have a excellent credit score, etc...cause once you marry him, you get to share in his crediability and he in yours...don't want someone to try to bring all my hard work down cause he's lazy...
ColinJames, us girls don't really care what makes you guys get poetic...we just LOVE it anyway...pour it on Z Man...show these fellas who think all a lady wants is a man's wallet..are far from the mark....
Hey Adreana...give the powers that be, a hard time girl...I used to drive a school bus, got awarded School Bus Driver for the Year, my first year driving...your child's safety is the Bus Driver's, the pricipal's and the school organization as a whole's, including the state personnel in your state responsibility...keep after them..your child deserves a safe happy secure ride to school everyday...
Are you watching Z Man, we're dropping like love sick turtle doves over here...now you could be putting yourself in trouble with this many women...swooning over your words...be gentle...or you could get kidnapped..and ladies we couldn't be held responsible for what we would do to this poet of a man...
I'm with Cirreh, hope the lady's watching and catching on...or could this mysterious fella be playing with our vulnerability to be swooned with beautiful words??
Welcome Bonnie, haven't been here too long myself...but don't worry everyone will make you feel right at home in this crazy clan of new friends....enjoy yourself...
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Would you be monogamous with your love for the rest of your life?
Thanks Dixrog, I didn't mean to start a war, just wanted to know if being exclusive to just one person for the rest of your life was still important to men and women alike. I mean if for no other reason than the possibility of dying from a serious disease...isn't monogamy a smart and yes moral choice one is willing to make for his or her life partner. I'm very glad to see it's just as important to gentlemen as the ladies. I think there's a misconception that men aren't capable or willing to make such a committment, but this thread has given proof for the men willing to follow their heart and be steadfast in their choices. I appreciate everyone who took the time and effort to voice how they felt about this subject!